Teacher: Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.
Teacher: Now, understand the problem? If you are still confused, see the following example:
My boyfriend (well just call him M) and I are creators on Instagram (he is also on TikTok). I'm a digital and traditional artist and in one of my classes we create t shirts and things (socks, lanyards, water bottles, stickers, you name it). I'm a big fan of putting my art on t shirts so I can sell them.

M wanted to make some posts for TikTok and wanted to use the shirt I made today. My one personal rule is that if the shirt isn't being given to someone else, then I wear it first (this is because I know I wont get it back. Ive made one other shirt that I've worn, and he wore it for a week and hasn't given it back.) So I told him no, because I haven't worn the shirt yet. 

M proceeded to complain about not having content to post, and how his IG post today didn't get any engagement, saying "of course you dont know, because you never look."

Am I the asshole for wanting to wear the shirt I made just once?
Solution: wanting to wear a shirt
Reason: The paragraph describes an argument of the author with her boyfriend regarding not wanting to give the shirt she just made before wearing herself. This desire to wear the shirt raises the ethical situation.

Now, solve this instance: A brief background - I have been working in my career since graduating college 5 years ago and have lived comfortably thanks to my hard work. My boyfriend went to college a little later in life and is currently working on getting jobs in his field. Though we live in the same city, being in different places in our lives at the moment has created some conflict, since we can’t necessarily always do the same things.

I have done as much as I can to include him in things that require spending money by offering to cover it (I wanted to have the experiences together), always been understanding when he can't be around because of working odd jobs on weekends to keep his finances stable, those types of things. 

A few of my friends and I decided to take a weekend trip soon to a city no one but I had ever visited. I jumped on this opportunity to be the guide of all our debauchery! I instantly knew I wanted to ask my boyfriend to join. He said he wouldn't be able to because of the cost. I offered to cover it and he accepted. There's been a ton of excitement and chatting surrounding this trip ever since. 

Fast forward to now. I wake up this morning to him telling me that a large group of his friends from college are going to a cabin in the woods near my hometown next weekend and they miss him and want him to go. It's very short notice and would require him to take off of work. 

I know he was super excited getting that text and also rushing to get out the door to work, but as I sit here thinking there are a few things that are bothering me and 2 things that definitely have me hurt. I'm bothered by the fact that he didn't in the moment think to ask me about going or even hint at gauging my interest. I'm also bothered that he would so quickly be okay with not working for a weekend and risk his financial stability - I only say this because he has been very open and talks about his predicament quite a bit. 

What I'm hurt by is that for the last 2 months I have asked him to take off or work later hours on a Sunday (not the whole weekend) to come support me and my sports team during a match. This is a group I have played with year-round for 5 years and they are like family to me. Hasn't made the effort once. Not to mention… next weekend is the season ending championships and our team party, which I clearly expressed I really wanted him to be a part of multiple times. I'm also hurt that after just including him in my experience with my friends, he then went on to contemplate a solo group trip without even making me feel considered. 

The feelings are fresh and I don't think I would do this, but the thought crossed my mind to tell him he isn't welcome on the trip with my friends anymore. I'm not sure if I am right to be so bothered and hurt by this, and I do feel shitty that I've toyed with the idea of cancelling on him.
Student:
being upset (and possibly vengeful) because my boyfriend is being inconsiderate