instruction:
In this task you are given an anecdote. You must find out whether the anecdote is something the author has done or is considering doing. Label the instances as "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and label them as "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future.
question:
Recently started traveling for week about one work-week a month.   My wife works too, and I am usually the one that does drop off of our two kids.

She’s been bribing them (a 3 and 5 yr old) with dessert every afternoon to behave, and candy every morning to behave and get dressed.  

I said “thanks - I’m either an enabler come Monday who is raising assholes who only behave for candy, or the actual asshole in their eyes because I don’t give them chocolate for doing normal shit every kid has to learn to do”

She responded “what I choose to do to survive alone, is my choice. I would really appreciate less judgment”

AITA?
answer:
HISTORICAL


question:
My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now. We were good friends for 3 years before this, so we do have some history together.
I am a science student and so getting to know that my research work would be shown in what's the most popular science magazine in my country meant a lot.
The head of the state would present it to me in front of some journalists and dozens of other important people in a 5 star hotel. So this was a huge thing for me, probably one of the highlights of my life.

I told my girlfriend this, she wasn't too excited but she told me she would join me for sure.
I had even gifted a dress she loved but couldn't afford. I told her even if she came for a few minutes it would mean a lot. My parents are no more too, so I didn't really have anyone else to come.

Phones were to be switched off during the main event so I did just that. The whole event passed and my girlfriend was nowhere.
When I called her later she just told me she was on her period and I was overreacting. She was apparently group studying with her friends. I obviously trust her on this since we have that kind of relationship.
I told her I was upset and she told me I didn't get her pain and I needed to be more sensitive of her issues and she didn't expect this from me.

I honestly just hung up on her at that point. I need some time to introspect.

She thinks she didn't do anything wrong, I think I am in the right.
It's confusing...
answer:
HISTORICAL


question:
For some backstory i recently (6 months ago) had a falling out with a group i used to be close friends with some of which i've known for years.

Among them tho is an ex of mine (lets called them Jane) that has never-ending reasons for people to throw her pity parties and has spread rumors about me before and another one (and lets call this one Marsha) who has horror stories about other ex-friends that i believed till this happened.

After a fun night celebrating up the country we take the long trip back home and on the way drop people off, got down to the last two to drop off, one of which is Jane. We drop them off in the city and ask if they have money for the bus/need to be dropped home and they assure us that they're fine.

Fast forward to the next day, i'm in work and i don't finish till late, after checking my phone i find myself blocked and kicked from every group chat and a slew of messages including every version of how im a terrible person from "a toxic relationship towards women" to "sucking the fun out of everything". 
Apparently Jane accused me and the driver of abandoning them without the money to get home and people with a grudge against me for whatever reason took this opportunity to see what kind of bull they could get away with sticking on my image.

All this ended up blowing over and i just stayed out of it, not the type for drama but two weeks ago, one of the friends i knew for years comes into me in work (first time i've seen him since the fallout) and confronts me about supposedly stalking Marsha, with "texts to prove it".

This was the last straw and after that i've started the process of a defamation of character case. 
I don't know if i'm just being petty but after this i don't want to imagine what sort of things people are believing if its been this long and people would believe that about me.

TL:DR- People are spreading bull and evidence isn't convincing enough, so forcing them to court just to avoid the possible collateral damage a suspected charge might have on my life.
answer:

HISTORICAL


