Great! I share your excitement, just got invited to an all girl "end of the alimony" party. (really).I have a "GG" who invited my as her girlfriend. Heaven describes my reaction.I'm sure you will keep us all posted!Cyrsti

I'm puzzled as to why this counts as a first. How is your friend's attractiveness relevant to occasion? Are your other friends somehow less cool to hang out with because you see them as less "attractive"?

It's still kind of a provocative statement for me. I get it, I went through it too. But you know, cis gender or trans gender, women are women. And attractiveness does not equal good company.

And, of course, I'm still curious what "attractive" means? Obviously, there's a cultural sort of norm - which I happen to find really, really troubling - but even within that I bet we'd all define it differently. But that's probably a discussion for another time. Mostly, I just didn't see why it was it relevant to throw that in there as opposed to say, "and she happens to also be a great conversationalist", or something like that.