[header] How to be better than your enemy [title] Stop keeping tabs of your enemy's achievements and your belittlement's. [step] If you continue to think of yourself as hard done by a relation to your enemy, you effectively give that person power over you to ruin your day. You make that person into something they are not-your keeper, your guiding point and your unwanted mentor.
If you stop using this person as the yardstick of your life, things will suddenly become a lot easier for you. [title] Stop referring to the other person as an enemy.