[header] How to find out if a person actually misses you [title] Suggest a meeting and pay attention to your friend's reaction. [step] If you sense that a friendship is waning and you want to know whether your friend misses you, invite them to get together for something friendly and light, like a cup of coffee. If your friend reacts enthusiastically, it's likely that he misses you, too.
On the other hand, if he postpones the meeting or seems reluctant to get together, recognize that he probably doesn't miss you. [substeps] Be honest but non-accusatory about missing your friend.