[header] How to give people advice [title] Take time to think. [step] Once you've decided to offer advice, take some time to think about what you want to say. It can be just a minute, or, if the situation is serious, a few days.
[substeps] For example, if your neighbor wants to know if you can recommend a good gardener, you can probably feel comfortable answering right away. Alternatively, if someone asks for advice on choosing a college, say, " great question.