[header] How to lead a spiritual life [title] Learn to love yourself. [step] This is probably the most important step in a spiritual life, loving yourself. This type of love isn't one bred from egoic notions of love, yet those given from your higher self.
Egoic love is based in petty competition; for example, " i look so much better than x therefore i love myself ". The higher self loves every nook and cranny of who you are no matter what x does or looks like.