[header] How to stop attracting selfish people who use you [title] Identify why you're attractive. [step] There are different factors that could cause selfish people to latch onto you. It could be because of your reputation, especially if you're popular at your school, workplace, etc.
Another reason could be that you have desirable traits, such as intelligence or the ability to lead. It could also be because you allow people to step on you, so people see no harm in using you for their own benefit.