During an argument, you may make these types of remarks without even realizing that they are hostile and damaging to your relationship. [substeps] There are six common types of hostile remarks: character assassinations, threats of abandonment, threats of exile, invalidations, challenges, and preaching.
[header] How to avoid saying harmful things when arguing with your spouse [title] Identify hostile remarks. [step] The worst thing you can do during an argument is to use hostile remarks. These are remarks that are intended to make your partner feel embarrassed, saddened, or humiliated.