While it might feel awkward at first, and not at all spontaneous, you may eventually find yourself looking forward to that time of reconnecting with your partner. [substeps] Discuss how often you want to have sex and come to an agreement.
[header] How to make sex important in a relationship [title] Schedule sex. [step] No, it's not romantic. But sometimes life gets in the way, and you are too busy or tired to make time for it.