You don't need to hold it very hard, just tight enough to keep it from wriggling free. [substeps] Contrary to popular belief, you won't harm the butterfly simply by touching it.
[header] How to care for a butterfly with a broken wing [title] Grasp the butterfly. [step] Before touching the butterfly, make sure your hands are clean and dry. With the wings closed, grab the butterfly by the wings just above the body.