He's likely not planning on spending too much time with you if he doesn't include you in the time ahead. [substeps] For instance, if he refuses to talk about if he wants children or believes in marriage, he's probably not in it for the long haul.
[header] How to tell if a man is full of it [title] Pay attention to if his future involves you. [step] Men who are serious about a relationship talk about the future and your role in it. Men who aren't avoid the subject like the plague.