While it may feel counterintuitive, it's quite effective. Don't be afraid to admit your wrongs.
[header] How to stop fighting in a relationship [title] Own up to your part. [step] It's easy to find fault in your partner and think of all the ways he or she has let you down. But be honest with yourself: is this helping you in any way, or helping decrease the conflict in your relationship? Let down your defenses in the height of things.