Social Anxiety Disorder also called “social phobia” is the third largest mental health care problem in the world today and US-studies have shown that it affects over 7% of the population. The definition of social anxiety is the fear of social
Social Anxiety Disorder also called “social phobia” is the third largest mental health care problem in the world today and US-studies have shown that it affects over 7% of the population. The definition of social anxiety is the fear of social situations which involves interaction with other people, that may or may not judge you negatively for the things you say or do (or not).
Social Anxiety is a chronic disorder. It doesn’t go away on its own and it stays as long as you don’t treat it for example through therapy, that helps you to learn how to overcome it.
How does Social Anxiety look like?
Some of the most common symptoms of Social Anxiety are for example…
- Excessive sweating & a dry throat
- Trembling of your muscles
- Racing heart High level of fear
- extreme self-consciousness
- extreme nervousness
Those symptoms can be triggered by nearly any social situation.
Example:You’re sitting in school or university and the teacher/professor is asking you to answer a question in front of everyone sitting in that room. If you have social anxiety, this will trigger you – very intensely. Your heart will start to racing, your muscles will begin to tremble and your mouth will get so dry, that you feel like you’re unable to speak. You will start sweating a lot and all you can think of is that everyone around will laugh at you – no matter what you say right now. Or especially because you’re not saying anything!
Why you are most likely not having Social Anxiety
If you are an introvert like me – this won’t look or seem very unfamiliar to you. You’re maybe thinking that this totally resonates with your experience in your past what ultimately will make you ask yourself one thing: Do I suffer from Social Anxiety?Don’t get me wrong, I really understand where this is coming from since I happened to feel very insecure when I was younger as well. Situations like the mentioned above definitely happened to me like this many times in my past, but does that really mean that I suffer from social anxiety?
In my opinion, there are just a handful of introverts that actually suffer from social anxiety and I’m quite sure that this doesn’t apply to you either.
Let me explain the difference between Social Anxiety & Introversion:
Social Anxiety is a disorder. It’s nothing someone is born with and it’s not a personality trait that comes along with being an introvert. People are made socially anxious for example through previous experience with social rejection or bullying or any other traumatic experience that involved other people.
That’s why people with this Social Anxiety disorder are often perceived as very shy, quiet, aloof and inhibited. What is very similar to how introverts are perceived, but th