Leave that chump immediately, DO NOT RETURN TO HIM, HE'S A JERK, YOU NEED TO SHOW YOURSELF SOME RESPECT.  YOU DON'T NEED TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT AND YOU DON'T DESERVE IT NEITHER. HE'S NOT THAT SPECIAL IF HE HAS TO CONTROL YOU, DEFINITELY NOT THE GUY YOU WANT TO BE TIED TO.  Find someone else that will show you some respect also and treat you like a woman, not a piece of slavery.