Seattle is NOT an option if finances are an issue...rent is higher than in San Francisco, insurance premiums and auto registration are very high and the property, income and sales taxes are outrageous... Have you contemplated Oregon? Grants Pass, Medford and Eugene all meet the criteria of "another friendly, laidback, artsy city not too expensive"\nAdd to that the beautiful climate and utterly stunning scenery....Property and income taxes are on the high side but Oregon does not have sales tax, so it balances out, auto registration is a bit lower than in Cali, and no smog certs required....socially, Oregon is very diverse, so whatever your politics and interests, you'll be able to find like minded folks.