Many people are Christian in name only. They go to church, do all the "right" things (with a few indiscretions), and think that is all there is to it.   At heart, they do not want to change or give up their pleasures or lifestyles, or to find out anything more that might require them to do so. \n\nThere are those who think that moderation is allowable, and that is true...all things are lawfull, but not all things are profitable. For themselves or for others. The thing is, we are called to do everything in love... if drinking causes another to stumble, then one should not drink, at least in front of them. Things have a way of being found out though... the truth always comes back around.\n\nSo is this judging one another? Yes. The question is really; how much do you love God? How much do you love others? Show me by what you do. Let me understand by what you say. You may not be responsible for the decisions that another makes, but you do have an influence. Our decisions often affects others by our examples.