That's the trouble with porn -- you get case-hardened pretty quickly.  Then everything seems bland, but you're addicted and so you seek something a bit more, a bit different.\n\nOn top of that, images get 'burned' into your brain, and emerge into your consciousness at inappropraite times -- like when you're having sex for real with a real living person -- and then it seems that you are uninventive, unoriginal and a poor second best to the porn.\n\nTake my advice, keep the porn at extremely softcore and do not let even that become a habit.  Instead get out and try to get as much social interaction as possible -- work, find a cure for cancer, have as much sex as you can.\n\nThe moment when you do not 'own' your own sex acts is a particularly sad point indeed.\n\nGet out man.  Now -- while the going's good...