U cannot always live ur life in they way u want. We are humans and we live in a societly and u love each other. U give some thing and get some thing from another all are interdependent.\n\nIf a person feels that hislove towards a girl is more than his parents and if he thinks that he will be happily  without their blessings and ignore those people who had loved him and taught him how to walk, eat etc and helped him in many difficult situation. \n\nThen he can go ahead and get married without any approval.\n\nRemember it easily find a bad wife but u cannot find a bad mother or even father.