I have to bitter say that life is about being responsible to what you have said. You call it quit, then you should consider if he's worth for you to call him again or not.\n\nBut whatever the reason of your break up, 3 Years is not a short time. A lots of feeling, Love, Time and Life consideration already involved during this period. I think if both of you could call it off easily then this is not a good relationship you should bet for. Break up after 3 years relationship will need more than just that.\n\nAnother advise: To love somebody is to accept every aspects of his life. If you can't, then stop thinking of him and move on with your life. You can change people but yourself.