HEY, GIRL WELL I WOULD CONSIDER THAT YOU SIT WITH HER AND TALK TO HER THAT IF SHE'S GOING TO LIVE IN YOUR HOUSE SHE HAS TO ABIDE BY YOUR RULES AND IF  NOT FOR HER TO GET A JOB AND AN APARTMENT SHE HAS ENOUGH FOR AN EFFICIENCY.\nWELL YOU HAVE TO MAKE 2 CHOICES YOUR 18 YEAR OLD SISTER OR YOUR FAMILY.(AS IN YOUR HUSBAND AND KIDS) YOU HAVE BEEN THERE SINCE YOUR PARENTS HAVE PASSED AWAY  YOU HAVE HELPED YOUR SISTER COME TO BE A GROWN 18 YEAR OLD AND NOW IT'S TIME TO TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE AND DON'T FEEL GUILTY.\n\nBECAUSE YOU HAVE DONE MORE THEN YOUR SHARE BECAUSE IF NOT YOUR GOING TO LOSE YOUR FAMILY BECAUSE PROBLEMS START WITH Y'ALL SEPARATING THEN THE KIDS AND THEN HEART BROKEN AND THAT'S ALOT SO PLEASE CHOOSE YOUR FAMILY YOUR SISTER IS ALL READY IN HER OWN HANDS AND YOU CAN'T BE THERE FOR ALL HER LIFE YOUR NOT YOUR SISTER'S KEEPER OK I KNOW IT'S HARD BUT AT THE SAME TIME YOUR SHOWING HER HOW TO BE INDEPENDENT .