you definitely should marry him. you need to take care of a few things before you do, though. Buy this book: The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. Both of you read it and understand it together. It will put you years ahead of many married people who don't understand eachother. I've been married 12 years. My parents were not in support of my marriage, so I got married at the Justice of the Peace in Norfolk, Va. You two could have something that is missing from so many other people's lives. Unconditional love. You must be prepared to expect the unexpected, and commit to your marriage. Life is a roller coaster, but hold onto eachother with all you have inside you. Be around those who support you. As far as it goes for his lack of a plan, he needs to dive into something, and just do it. I had no idea what I was going to do in life, and I have never been to college. I am making over 40,000 a year.