It depends, if you are used to the riches and cannot handle the hardship then it might cause problems in the relationship later on. But if you can give up the riches, and realize that there is more to life than money...then I would say, go for who you love. Money is fading and even if you are rich it can change in an instant. Love...if it is TRUE and you both are willing to TALK things out, comprimise and work together....can be until you die. No one can take away what is inside of you unless you let them. That is a constant in life. Money is a variable. If it were me, I would go with my heart, but that is me...I am not a big money person. I would rather live with love and live on a beer budget than live in a cold house without love on a wine and diamonds income. =)