Go to some art exhibitions/showings. Take some kayaking lessons. Maybe go take some mountain climbing lessons. Take a Yoga class. Even if you already know how to do this stuff, a class like that is a good place to meet women with similar interests, and it shows them that you are not a close minded person, that you are willing to do and try new things. If all else fails, church is a good place to meet women. If all of this fails, go to the bar, hook up for the night, and re-think the problem in the morning.