Please take what I'm saying to heart. When someone is involed with drugs and alcohol it makes things worse. If he is really into this stuff he will never ever pick you over the drugs he will go back to them time and time again. Your parents can see this being older than you and the fact that he disrespected your father and doesnt even remember is troubling to me. I spent a long time with someone like this and it only turned out bad. Your younge and you have so much life to live still, try living it and having fun with your girlfriends. Forget about this jerk, or see if he can really change. Things will come together once your older. You don't want to waste the best years of you life crying over some drug infested jerk.