You remind me of myself! I've been in almost the same situation mate, a little over a year ago. Somewhere along the way, I fell in love with my best friend, and after several months of wondering what to do, I told him. The rest, as they say, is history! We're still the very best of friends, and we've got a fantastic relationship. \n\nSo- tell him how you feel. Don't worry about it ruining your friendship or anything, because really strong friendships don't fall apart, just like that. And seriously, I'm ready to bet that he feels the same way about you. The best relationships are between best friends who fall for each other, so tell him how you feel, and take it from there. Don't rush things though- take it slowly. \n\nDon't you have any second thoughts, now... Tell him, girl! Good luck!