they cant make you. sorry if this next bit upsets you but here goes. these kids will break everything & steal whatever they can sell. learn to enjoy whatever insane crap they like; music, friends, foods, language, ect.  lock your bedroom door at night & take self defense classes. seriously. expose them to arts, museums, politics, real (not government/public) education & enlightenment (has nothing to do with religion). put only things around them that will keep them mindfull of things that matter. teach them how to make money instead of falling into the various pop culture bs (gangs, drugs, drunks, hellraisers & badassses).\ni was hell bent crazy till about my mid 20s. i left home when i was 16 because i knew i was crazy & saw the sorrow i caused my mom. i played the hardasss & got into everything taboo & crazy that i could find. what ended it all for me is that i got sick of kicking the worlds asss & being a tyrant. none of my friends were really friends. none of them were worth a shlt or trustworthy. it was all useless. i took a long look at me & who was & could kick MY asss & directed my attention toward that. now im im my late 30s. ive learned how to work for myself because nobody would hire me with all the scars, tatoos & criminal records. my family is just now starting to trust me enough to let me into their lives. lucky for me theyre still alive. i have known good people for almost a decade that believe in & trust me. its refreshing. i finally feel a sense of peace. i hope this helps. help them develop their minds & useful tallents instead of slipping into a real life role of a b grade movie.\nhttp://scotthortonshow.com/\nmoney, http://www.philipdru.com/griffin_stream.html\nbush & clinton http://www.philipdru.com/triplett_stream.html\nisrael http://antiwar.com/justin/?articleid=8730\nhttp://www.philipdru.com/webb_stream.html\niran http://www.weekendinterviewshow.com/InterviewDisplay.aspx?i=131