First of all - NEVER FORGET - if you are going to play hard to get (or in poker it's called "bluffing") then BE PREPARED TO LOOSE ALL.\n\nOtherwise, maybe you are reading in too much.  I'd suggest that you decide in your heart what you want more... THE TRUTH NO MATTER WHAT - or - THE GUY NO MATTER THE TRUTH.\n\nHe may have enjoyed being with you while it lasted, but don't hold it against him that he's elsewhere unless you were perfectly clear with him about what you wanted from him.\n\nIf you do want him - then FUCK the hard to get attitude and go after him with full force.  The WORST thing that can happen is you don't get him - but that's what you are going to get anyway on your current course of action.\n\nPEACE