Call me-- 18 and need a guy! (Just kidding) from a girl's perspective I think everyone has good qualities (are you brainy, funny, competitive, cultured, etc.) you've just got to make sure they are visable... and wait, she'll show up, the universe works that way... one final note, guys who are to stressed about finding a girl are usually the least attractive, so be respectful, get to know us as people not just potential gfs