so what if he's not cute? Does that matter? Beauty comes in all colors - maybe you don't find him cute outside but there's something cute about him that made you like him. If he is in a relationship, and he's happy in it, it isn't your right to destroy that just because you liked the guy. THat's selfish. You have to try put your feet into the shoes of the other girl. If he knows, then leave it that way. The choice is his - if he likes you, too, then it's his move - let him resolve his issues with his gf first. but if he doesn't, then it isn't proper that you disturb them.