When you meet new people, remember what you see is what you get. If you pick up a guy at a bar, don't plan a long term relationship if you don't like drinkers! Chances are he is a drinker! LOL!(Because that's what I did!) Seriously, I am really into playing sports, going to movies and such, and I have found that many churches/schools/rec centers/YMCA have evening activities like all women or coed volleyball games, which is alot of fun, not too difficult, and you can make new friends. These places usually have a variety of different "things". Good Luck and choose wisely this time!