You know people do assume things about a person, when they\nfirst look at them. If they have time to get to know you\nthey will learn the real you. And you are worth getting to\nknow! I am sorry about your eye sight. I will have to have\nsurgery on my eye when a growth gets to a certain size and I am not looking forward to it. I will have faith that all\nwill be well.  I really think wading through is better than\ndodging problems. When that's done it is resolved instead of put off. The best of luck.