haha join the world lady! ALL in laws who are ego maniacs are a pain in the rump! She has issues obviously. I would not talk to your husband about it for he won't care. Just deal with it with her the best that you can. I was in your situation once and am glad I am not anymore believe me....YET since i am divorced from her son, my x in law puts me down to my daughter so regardless it continues!!! Sucks but gotta live with it divorced or not....