sibyl was coping with colin 's father 's familiar endearment to his daughter , just like they were a normal , adoring family , which was something she never expected in a million years that colin would have ( what she expected he would have , she had no idea , she 'd never considered it , she 'd never thought she 'd be have the opportunity to meet them much less have drinks and dinner with them , with her family also in attendance , no less ) , when she heard , `` hello sibyl dear . ''