so while frey spent his days captaining his ship , planning raids and communing with his brethren ( when he was n't locked in his cabin with me ) , i spent my time shooting arrows , dancing around the deck while lund tried to stab me and playing multiple games of tuble and meerkin while all the men taught me how to cheat ( when i was n't locked in frey 's cabin with him , where , if frey and i were n't doing other highly pleasant things , frey also spent time teaching me how to cheat ) .