`` change places with me , my love , and tell me ... '' his hand gave me a squeeze too and he continued , `` even if it was anyone but especially that it was this woman , a woman we argued over , an argument that spurred me to do something unwise which caused a rift between us , a woman you could only be sensitive about and , perhaps not now but possibly later , think about her , think about my thoughtless actions and what they led to and then let that fester .