in those unhappy things which later came to pass , and in which feanor was the leader , many saw the effect of this breach within the house of finwe , judging that if finwe had endured his loss and been content with the fathering of his mighty son , the courses of feanor would have been otherwise , and great evil might have been prevented ; for the sorrow and the strife in the house of finwe is graven in the memory of the noldorin elves .