she off onto one of her many projects , crusades , commitments , gatherings , and part-time job at a dinkytown used book store : very parttime , frank had always caustically noted ... the money his dad left would keep them for quite some time , but he felt that dalores should work , yet he never fought over this , never pressed it so as to provoke herhot cereal : he brown sugar she honey , dark roasted coffee , hand-ground , teapot whistling for driphugs , kisses , a meaningful glanceeach knew that they could stop the charade and sit down at any moment and get real but each also wanted the charade , for there were things brewing within each and within the marriage which each day of this trinitarian year began to make themselves present ... serious stuff , but because so serious each trod lightly .