because i am not sure , i request the following : that at least eleven out of every thirteen tencidca shall publicly swear a sacred oath to adopt the following as laws , and likewise for the ishlacorti : first , that all shall publicly swear a sacred oath to renounce hatred and vengeance ; second , that all tencidca property destroyed in the war shall be replaced by the ishlacorti , and mirrorwise , within the next five years ; third , that all tencidca who have lost their families in the violence should be adopted into ishlacorti families , and mirrorwise ; fourth , that every tencidca and ishlacorti born from eleven years ago today until fifty-nine years hence shall be forbidden by law to marry into their own group ; and finally , that every holder of political office in shishiliu , and every officer in any police or military force , and every schoolchild henceforward , should be required to study the basic theory of non-violent action , as laid out in the classic , both sides win , by ing di-khang .