so they chose free willchose to imagine new time and space ... private spaces of intimacy where they danced together , donned masks , finding within their embrace of talking , eating , sleeping , arguing , debating , even fighting , in all this that they have to be newly named , for it was the naming ... even naming the god as father and non-naming the mother , so it wasfrom our breaths , so we know who we are ... they breathed : naming one another from their essence , a or b or tsounds which were for some brief , one breath , for others , longer , several breaths longm of three breaths .