i did n't understand why things changed , '' he paused for a minute , `` one day she started to ignore me , and she would nitpick my faults , but the icing of the cake was when she ... . '' he suddenly stopped and looked at ali , `` never mind ... .the point is that what she did was mean and i ca n't forget or forgive , also anybody that was there that day , would n't allow me to forget about it .