miserable comment ) to you that was insulting , threatening or otherwise unwanted by you , or if you have ever been cat called or if you have ever trusted a male to protect you but instead of being protected he violated that trust and harmed you either physically or miserably or made you feel you were to blame for his harmful actions or if you have ever been made to feel less intelligent than a male or less valued by a male or of no worth at all simply because you were born female , if you have experienced any of these things or a combination of these things because of a male , please stand .