`` their desire to be feared or liked by others who use foul language almost always results in social failure on the outside , with their overall image , and emotional failure inside because the one thing nearly every single human being has in common with another is a deep admiration of those who are strong enough and unashamed to hold themselves to higher moral standards of living and that is most clearly manifested in what we say and especially in what we door as in this case , what we refrain from doing , such as using foul language .