if more tv shows , movies , songs and magazines openly showed the people they paid money to for playing a miserably promiscuous character or singing a song that promotes miserable immorality with a variety of people before a marriage of full fidelity , if they showed just how many different s. t. i.s these same people have , how embarrassed they are and the lies they tell to try and hide it and how it destroys their ability to enjoy sex and also show years later these same people they paid to act like living a miserable immoral life is the happy and safe way to go were all lies , if they openly showed these same people years later dying at home or in a hospital from a miserably transmitted infection or virus , maybe more people would learn from the suffering of others and thus prevent not only their own misery and early , painful and likely embarrassing death , but the suffering and death of so many others .