they are saying no to the mass variety of forms bondage that comes from the limits sti 's force on you , the labels sti 's force on you and the heavy sudden financial responsibilities that stay with you for life from medical bills that sti 's force on you not to mention the great financial demands of parenthood and childcare needs that become yours and only yours for the rest of your life when you experience an unplanned pregnancy and wind up becoming a single parent when the father of your child gives up and leaves soon after the baby arrives because of the social , financial and emotional limits and demands childrearing brings upon you when you choose to keep and raise a child .