i slaved away in the kitchen for hours preparing this meal , and i do n't suppose- well , quite frankly dear , this meal does n't reflect hours ' worth of work , that 's all- philip , i 've been working seventy hour weeks for a month now , and i 've been sick , and i 've still found time to make meals for my family- i know , dear , but it 's not as if we sit around doing nothing all day either- that 's exactly what you do !