trash talk and head games is not a good lead to follow i want a win to be proud of not a victory that 's hollow refrain : there 's no score in life the outcome 's always the same it does n't matter if you win or lose but how you play the game sometimes there 's a referee someone to make a call sometimes it 's not fair but i 'm not going to take a fall i always play to win but sometimes i lose playing with integrity is what i always choose refrain life is full of adversity you should do your best it 's probably just a game but it could be a test refrain x2 track 11 - not a murder ( only an unkindness ) the interview : kelly : so , ladies , this next track , not a murder ( only an unkindness ) is a kind of soul pop tune with plenty of blues influence .