in fact , he has been in hong kong for a decade with a girlfriend , but because of his career in hong kong was not ideal , and discover he was incompatible with the mainstream of hong kong people , together with no money , so he could not fulfill his marriage commitment , so the last reluctant to leave , starting to stray so also in his heart all the time thinking about his lover , so you need more patience , give him a little time to accept your love , i thing he would slowly understand your kindness . ``