for stage two of my trip around africa i had alice , she was doing the whole ( guilt ) trip with me , the colonel , his wife , lady h and her husband - who was the absolute opposite of his wife , very down to earth , and once we were safely out of sight of land i went looking for david , and grabbing him by the scruff of the neck i dragged him kicking and screaming to the stern of the boat , then i woke up and asked him to show me my plausible deniability , it really was a bit late for that little secret .