i would soon be having a genuine gentlemans gentleman , although i hoped she would still continue to carry out this function whilst we were on trips like this one , that didnt necessitate taking a huge entourage with me , and she readily agreed , it would mean that she would still be with her david ( ahhh ) , but the major change that i envisaged for her was that she would perhaps become a sort of director without portfolio , a girl friday , after all i couldnt afford to lose her , i would most probably forget my name !