once she was settled in spain she met a very nice gentleman at the yacht club , but after six months it ended in tears , not hers , his , he was sooooo boring , then after a year of self-inflicted celibacy she met another very nice gentleman , who bought a very nice boat from her , and they were quickly on first name terms , but unfortunately there was one very small problem , his wife ( she was only five foot two ) , so for four years she was the other woman , which worked out fine for both of them .