she tried instigating a dormlike hair-scrunchy-on-the-door-handle policy , a text early-warning system , and even a creeping quick-glance-before-entering-any-room strategy , but when alice arrived home from work one evening to find cassie spread eagle and blindfolded on the couch , with vitolio wielding a large green dildo above her , it was clear that the situation had become untenable .