but my parents-well , they went through the roof in about sixteen different places and basically said that while they put up with the way i dressed and the music i listened to , they could not put up with me being jewish and having a bar mitzvah , and i told them it 's becoming a bar mitzvah , not having a bar mitzvah , and that was the last thing they wanted , me correcting them on how to say things , so they got ultra mad and i realized part of what stein had to put up with every day , and i realized if no one was going to support me , the least i could do was go and support someone else-a fellow jew , and someone i thought might make all the people who suck go away .