since we first started coming into the city on our own to hear music-as we 've successively stretched parental boundaries until the restrictions and curfews have not only been lifted but banished , because we 're big girls now , we might f**k up but we 'll figure it all out , eventually-the three of us sometimes cap off our nights out , at least those that do n't end in fights or hooking up or passing out , at the restaurant with the great borscht and the clean bathroom .