`` sooooo ... when there 's something like a barn dance or something , and a boy and girl spark a bit ... weeeeellll , if that happens and it 's agreeable to the parents , then later the boy is invited out to spend the night at the girl 's farm ... aaaaaaaand , if all goes well at dinner , then ... '' `` spit it out , annie , '' i says , gettin ' impatient with all this hemmin ' and hawin ' .