i think i 'm doin ' pretty good using the spoon , so i 'm workin ' away when i notice that this girl amy 's holding her spoon like she would a pen and she ai n't makin ' any noise in the eatin ' of the soup , either , while i 've got my spoon gripped full in my fist and am slurpin ' away lustily , and so i change my grip and tries to be more daintylike in my takin ' the soup on board .