`` well , '' i said , `` it 's not as if i 've come to take her to the sock hop , or ask her to go double-spooning in some tapioca , if that 's what you `` well , '' i said , `` it 's not as if i 've come to take her to the sock hop , or ask her to go double-spooning in some tapioca , if that 's what you mean .