i saw a lot of that in him : he 'd needed a stage for me , so he 'd just had one built the same day , right in his workshop ; he 'd wanted me as his muse , so he 'd scoured facebook and tracked me down ; he 'd wanted to see ballet , so he 'd just barged into an audition ... . well , okay , so maybe barging into the audition had n't gone so well , but if he had n't done that , we 'd never have met .