times like this are when it 's no fun being the headmistress 's daughter , because a ) it 's totally annoying when people think i 'm in a loop i 'm not in , and b ) people always assume i 'm in partnership with the staff , which really i 'm not- sure , i have private dinners with my mom on sunday nights , and sometimes she leaves me alone in her office for five seconds , but that 's it .