you could 've publicly embarrassed him , you could 've sent the evidence to his wife and destroyed his marriage , you could 've packaged it and sent it to hq informing them that you had a potential security breach , you could 've blackmailed him , you could 've sat him down in private and told him that you have this evidence , but you know how important his family is to him and you 'll destroy it out of solidarity , so he would be eating out of your hand .