`` i got ta shake hands and accept condolences and find room in the fridge for all the food and beer and put up with my father-in-law , and then i got to call the medical examiner 's office , find out when they 'll be releasing my child 's body because i need to make arrangements with reed 's funeral home and father vera at saint cecilia 's , find a caterer for the wake and a hall for after the funeral and `` `` jimmy , '' dave said , `` we can do some of that . ''