listen , '' she stated firmly.if you think back on all the wrecks in your life , it was the drug or the drink that caused the wreck in the first place.the group could see that their counselor was on a role , and knew her well enough not to say a word.the laughter faded.we all need to get something here , '' she continued.the world owes us nothing.no one cares if we make something of our lives or if we trash it .