for the first thirty five years , roughly , of her marriage to the late harry delaney , she was fired up to keep their marriage together through his frequent spells of alcoholic overindulgence ; when that crisis eventually passed , its as though they both woke up and were fired up to get their retirement finances in order ; now , all that merely a seven decade footnote , it seems , to these past fifteen months , shes fired up for resolution , some answers while time remains to find them .