chrissys guest list went like this : mom and dad and the twins uncle jack and aunt genny parsons webster and faye parsons mattie parsons emily parsons grandpa fred wroe uncle robert and aunt carla wroe cousin megan and cousin bobby millie dillard ( high school friend ) sara board ( high school friend ) mr. and mrs. enright ( nc neighbours ) mr. and mrs. harper ( nc neighbours ) the grooms list was somewhat longer : mom and dad , sean and kathleen grandmother lydia thorne grandfather patrick oreilly grandmama keara oreilly uncle paddy and aunt callie oreilly rose , jimmy , buddy , colleen & nancy ruth oreilly uncle francis and aunt adrianna nolan and little frankie uncle chuck and aunt kattie carter and charlene , joey , and doreen uncle morgan and aunt polly oreilly uncle al and aunt dorrie grantland and little betty ruth i thought we might want to ask sheriff lampton and the tinsleys , too .