it sure helped that rin did not seem to be particularly interested in spending time with us outside the rehearsal room except for the obligatory food quests we did on a regular basis , and i cant honestly blame someone with her upbringing for not caring for commoner experiences such as having fun simply by going to a mini-market with friends , which is exactly why i never pushed her to come with us whenever she didnt felt like it ( and i noticed it happened more often in places where she could actually be seen with us ) .