if youre sure you want to do this , im just so pleased , bruce.-janet was actually more than pleased ; she was relieved.-she had hated the idea of leaving her mother alone now that they were reunited.-it had taken twenty-five years for lydia to forgive her for running off and getting married without her permission.-now , as two adults they had formed a bond as mother and daughter and an even deeper rapport as friends.-it was wonderful to have a mother for a friend , too , and janet felt that it would be really painful to give up that closeness now .