glossary aatmasamaan self-respect ( hindi ) abboji- father ( korean ) aigoo- oops ( korean ) amma- mother anni- sister in law ( tamil ) apdi aa is that so ( tamil ) appa- father avakaaya- mango pickle balli gecko , house lizard balli dosha shastram- astrology that tells about the lizard falling effects bosingtang- korean soup that includes dog meat as its primary ingredient bulgogi- korean dish that usually consists of grilled marinated beef , chicken or pork chinkies- derogatory term used to refer to the mongoloid race chosn chnjaeng- korean war da / daai hey man ( tamil ) dal lentil soup danil minjok one nation with pure blood .