these include , but are not limited to ; demographic , targets , cunt , whore , potential , and love at first sight , which is at best four words and i apologize i do n't know if it was love at first sight or even love at second sight , or third when the lights were on in the bedroom and we still made love even though we were both shy , it was our first time together and neither of us had the energy to turn the light off to make things more civilized it was n't love then , or later , or maybe even now , although it almost certainly is after three years .