* chapter 17 when you rage against an injustice when you distance yourself from others in resentment or bitterness , or a sense of disappointment or unworthiness or superiority when you long for something or someone when youre threatened by another , or fear them , whether its a lover , a parent , a boss , or a god when you envy another when you see power as external , and you do not feel you possess enough of it to ensure your wellbeing or safety when you fear for your ability to protect and care for yourself in the world what can you experience but pain ?