god has blessed me with a child but they tell me ; i am too young , too financially unstable , and too unfit to be a mother and so , i have to get rid of it , wait till im ready all grown up , educated , employed and married but , if i abide by these rules sooner than later , ill be the one to cry , fast , run after witchdoctors and then , hell go away , ill do something silly , and hell leave me all because i wasnt ready to welcome gods blessing when it came my way mary ; the mother of jesus : she was the kind of girl that every man in the neighbourhood talked about , the one every mother looked forward to welcoming into her kitchen as her new daughter-in-law .