if there could be a pheromone for anger that could send a signalout to a million women to help with mating because a man did not act at a woman 's critical moment as he might havethen if humanity could be viewed for a moment as a huge , highly sophisticated ant hivethen in some large , very critical collective mindin the collective consciousness of each woman making decisions off what might be called a collective ego ( pictured as the energy of a million women reading the same i of a first-person narrative at the same time and feeling an absolute identification with their own ego ) , then in the collective ego , an unsuspecting man could be condemned to be made a very real scapegoat , and hoang-ha did not want to be that scapegoat .