they are selfish , self-seeking even ; they are untidy and disorderly and ungraceful and insupportable and vexatious and unbeaten and unwavering and insusceptible and un-beseeming and jumpy and unbowed and unsound and unforgiving and uncommunicative and watchful and persisting and unmoved and unsearchable and unresponsive and lawless and unprincipled and ungentle and unladylike and heartless and one-sided and unfair and impatient and fearless and unbearable and unaccountable and everything that men are .