he did not have amnesia ; he remembered how we had been raising her together , how he had been a present force in her life every day for the previous two years , how he had put her to bed at night , told her stories , taken her to school , patched up her cuts when she got hurt , stayed up through the night with her when she got sick , how she had called him daddy for the last months of our time together as a family he just did not care .