you know what i mean , you get up , you shaveif you are a man , that isyou paint yourself and so on if you are a woman , maybe also do a bit of shaving here and there , you go to work , you have coffee breaks , you have lunch , you go home , or maybe you go to a bar or a restaurant or maybe to the movies or , if you are one of those kinds of people , to an art show or a museum , or maybe you just stay at home , maybe you read a book or , if you are one of those kinds of people , you watch t.v. , then you go to bed , and if you are lucky enough to be still at a decent stage of a relationship , you have sex , and if you are really still into it , then maybe even before you go to bed .