maybe you just think that because your related to ... all the while we were chatting , i had been standing beside her watching the crowd , but at that moment i turned to face this great-great niece of gallagher , and there behind her was a table of personal effects : a silver pocket watch , an elaborately engraved flask , a sailors compass , a large water pitcher , half-a-dozen pairs of cufflinks , ornate quills and ink jars , a pan flute , and an ornate picture frame that was home to the one who owned my heart .