threats were uttered , some veiled , some directly , seth threw in her two cents , quite unconvincingly , the sisters insisted that it was unreasonable to insist on this specific item and one ca n't have it all ; her family pressed the other side of the coin offering a multitude of i told you so 's and using this event as a teaching moment to reinforce the foolishness of her decisions and her need for counsel from those wiser in years .