let me summarize : so you and raphael had a fight and did n't talk because you hurt each other 's feelings , then both of you got your feelings hurt again , because neither one of you apologized , then raphael pretended to have a fiancee who did n't do anything for him , and your feelings got further hurt , so you got him back by telling him that you were done , after which he went nuts and scratched mine into your table , so you kissed a black volhv , who did n't do anything for you , and now raphael has moved his things into your apartment . ''