`` when we first got home , she tried to call tristan 's parents to get them looking for him , but apparently they were already down there getting tristan , which would have been good , except tristan 's parents are ass**les ... i do n't want to be unsympathetic or anything because i know how hard it is to lose someone you love , but the stuff tristan 's parents said to my mom about quinton being responsible for ryder 's death-it 's completely messed up .