it was about a woman who 'd make him toast and pour coffee in a travel mug when he needed to get to work ; a woman who 'd listen to his day and take his mind off it with a hand on his neck , a bourbon on ice , a constitution that could take the shit he saw everyday and , after , challenging him to a game of pool ; a woman who 'd pay a man to work in her bar who f**ked up just because she knew his life would n't be what he needed it to be if she did n't ; and a woman whose best day was a day with her family and friends around her doing nothing but talking , laughing and being together .