third , that girl is desperate to talk about her business with someone , and since she 's coming to me that tells me that either you 're not her fiance and she does n't want to talk to you about anything , or you are her fiance but you have no business sense , which is probably the case because you have n't put a ring on her finger , or you 're a complete fuck-up who does n't care about the thing that 's most important to his future wife .