[header] How to write a letter to a girl outlining your respect for her [title] Decide that you actually respect her. [step] If you don't think that she is worth your respect, then don't write her a phony letter about it. [title] Make a separate list of all the things that you respect about this girl. 
[step] Focus on character traits, not her looks. This list is separate from your letter so that you can refer to it as you write, in case you forget or overlook something while writing.