[header] How to get your girlfriend to kiss or hug you more often [title] State your wishes. [step] Be honest with her about what you want from the relationship. Tell her that you would like it if there was more kissing and hugging in your relationship. 
But also make it clear that you respect her and value her feelings, so you don't want to pressure her into doing something that makes her uncomfortable under any circumstances. [substeps] Talking to each other about what you expect from your relationship is a great way to get closer to one another and to build a bond that is based on honesty and mutual respect.