[header] How to help someone who is grieving [title] Express your sorrow or concern. [step] As soon as you learn about the loss, reach out to your friend and let her know you are aware of the situation and that you care. Your friend will be thankful that you acknowledged her pain. 
[substeps] Use your level of closeness with the person to determine how you reach out. For example, if your best friend just lost a family member it may be appropriate to immediately go over.