[header] How to tell if you are falling out of love with your partner [title] Consider changes in your lives. [step] When couples are in love, they often show physical affection toward one another. Whether they are holding hands, cuddling, or just sitting so close they meet, they often want to engage in physical contact. 
When the love starts to diminish, however, you may find that you don't have the same urge to show physical affection. [substeps] You may find that you recoil when your partner attempts to touch you.