[header] How to give [title] Give without hoping to receive. [step] Altruism is difficult to master, but if you want to give effectively, you'll need to adopt an " others-centered " attitude rather than a self-centered one. When you give, make sure that your heart is genuinely in the right place. 
[substeps] This also means that you shouldn't give solely for the sake of making yourself look good. Glory is a type of gain, and while you may end up earning respect or admiration for your generosity, you shouldn't seek it.