[header] How to deal with demanding wedding guests [title] Think carefully about who to invite. [step] Keep in mind that you're not obligated to invite anybody to your wedding. This day is about you and your partner. 
If you have estranged relationships with certain family members or you have fallen out with an old friend, don't feel pressured to send an invite. Plus, if you know certain family members or friends are notorious for being a bit difficult, it might be best to leave them off the guest list.