[header] How to overcome your weaknesses [title] List events with unfavorable outcomes in your life. [step] As you go through life, some things will go the way you want and others won't. Making a list of your failures or shortcomings can point you in the direction of your weaknesses. 
Write down anything in life that didn't turn out the way you had hoped. [substeps] For example, if you continuously fail to keep a relationship going for more than a few months, write that down.