[header] How to handle internal conflict in relationships [title] Recognize the problem. [step] If you have a conflict with someone, the first step in handling it is to figure out what the conflict is. The conflict may be large and complicated, or it may be a small issue. 
No matter how big, you should figure out what exactly the conflict is so you can have a clear idea when you handle it. [substeps] For example, what is the main problem? If you think the conflict is that the other person " doesn't appreciate me, " then that may be too broad.