[header] How to make the first move as a girl [title] Make eye contact and smile. [step] If you've spotted someone cute at a party, event, restaurant, or bar, making the first move means simply introducing yourself and striking up a conversation. First, catch their eye and hold their gaze for a few seconds. 
Give them a small smile before you look away. [substeps] Glance back a few more times and try to make eye contact at least once more, so the person knows it wasn't just a fluke.