[header] How to parent an autistic young adult [title] Ask them what they want to learn. [step] Find out what their priorities are, and help them develop those skills. There may be many skill areas in which they struggle, and it will be up to the two of you to prioritize. 
Getting your child's input will help them feel involved and imagine what their life will be like. [substeps] For example, a young autistic woman may feel that her executive dysfunction will prevent her from taking care of herself, but she wants to improve her social skills so she can get a good job.