[header] How to bond with an extremely shy person [title] Find any common interests. [step] Use these common interests to help form a bond. Discuss your common interests frequently and use them to make conversation when there is nothing to talk about. 
[substeps] Once you find a common interest, try researching that topic in order to have more information to contribute to the next conversation. For example, if you both have a love for music, consider asking the person what they've been listening to lately.