[header] How to get respect from your boyfriend or guyfriend [title] Practice the abc's of respect. [step] The abc's of respect stands for awareness, balance, and choices. Remembering the abc's can help you make sure your relationship remains respectful over time. 
[substeps] Awareness means staying aware of yourself and your feelings. Always consider how a behavior makes you feel and take note of any gestures, behaviors, or language that makes you feel less than respected.