[header] How to not care what people think [title] Accept yourself for who you are. [step] , improve yourself where you can, and accept aspects of yourself that you can't change. Don't try to change who you are just to please others. 
[substeps] Make a list of all the things that you like about yourself and another of things you'd like to improve. You can ask friends and family to help you build your list, since they may think of things you might not.