[header] How to deal with a partner keeping your relationship secret [title] Don't jump to conclusions. [step] If keeping your relationship secret makes you uncomfortable, or you are unfamiliar with your partner's reasons, the best solution is to have a candid discussion. Choose a time when you and your partner can talk without distractions and share your concerns. 
Use " i " statements to avoid making them defensive. [substeps] You might say something like " we've been dating for a few months now and you still haven't introduced me to your family or your friends.