[header] How to come out to your best friend without giving her the wrong idea [title] Ask your friend to meet you someplace. [step] Call her up, send her a text on her cell, email her, or ask her to meet you in person. Say this or something similar to this: " jessica, can you meet me at the coffee shop on belmont tomorrow after you get off work? " [title] Give her a moment to settle in. 
[step] When she arrives, ask her to sit down. It is better to tell a secret to her when you both are sitting down.