[header] How to pursue romance if you suffer from an eating disorder [title] Ask if you're ready. [step] Being honest with yourself about how well you are battling your eating disorder will help you know if you are ready to pursue romance. Assess whether you are doing the things that you need to do to take care of yourself. 
If you aren't then romance might not be a good idea right now. But, if you are, then pursuing romance might work out well.