[header] How to role play with your lover or spouse [title] Share your erotic fantasies with your partner. [step] Try lying in bed one night and ask your partner to share one of their sexual fantasies with you. Then, you can share yours. 
This is an excellent way to broach the subject of role playing and can be a sexy experience for both of you. [substeps] If the thought of mentioning role playing to your partner in a face-to-face conversation is completely terrifying, then send your lover an email or text that details your erotic fantasy.