[header] How to help a friend who has lost a family member [title] Communicate your support. [step] Social support from family and friends is crucial to helping someone deal with the death of a loved one. Once you find out that your friend lost a loved one, you can let your friend know that you are there for her. 
[substeps] Make sure you verbalize your condolences. You can say something like, " i am so sorry for your loss.