[header] How to be a military girlfriend or boyfriend [title] Have good communication. [step] Communication is the key to success in any relationship, but is especially important in military relationships. Be open, honest, and understanding with your partner about all things good and bad in order to keep your connection strong, even when miles apart. 
[substeps] Before deployments and any other long separations, be sure to sit down with your partner and have a serious talk about both of your expectations, concerns, and feelings. It's crucial to be on the same page.