[header] How to support your asexual partner [title] Have a discussion. [step] Your partner may tell you they are asexual, or you may figure it out on your own in the relationship. If you're upset with the level of sexual intimacy or affection in your relationship, it's best to talk about it together and have a clear understanding of each other's needs and desires. 
[substeps] It can be difficult to start this kind of conversation. You can say, " i've noticed that we approach sex and affection differently, and it would be helpful to talk about it.