[header] How to object to a bridesmaid or mother dress for a wedding [title] Gently explain why you object to the dress. [step] If one of your bridesmaids has selected a dress that you don't like, you should clearly but respectfully voice your opinion. For instance, maybe one of your bridesmaids chose a dress that you feel is too tight for their body type. 
Rather than saying " the dress looks too tight on you, " try saying " i was hoping for a more loose and flowing look. " this way you are not attacking the dress, but providing an alternative style.