[header] How to befriend a shy introvert [title] Do approach the shy introvert subtly and by yourself. [step] This is far more effective than in a mob of people where the shy person is socially overwhelmed. [title] Do speak quietly and gently. 
[step] This is more attractive, soothing and encouraging to the shy mind than loud, frenzied voices. [title] Do find and talk about shared interests or problems.