[header] How to host a bridal shower tea party [title] Make the guest list. [step] List all of the guests you plan to invite, as well as their plus ones. Decide if you are inviting children to the party as well, or adults only. 
Ask the bride's friends or family to help you draw up the guest list. Bridal shower guest lists usually include the bride's closest friends and family, as well as the groom's friends or family.