[header] How to tell your date you had cancer [title] Journal or talk through your reasons for wanting to date. [step] If you belong to a support group for cancer survivors, ask them how they've coped with dating after their diagnosis. Ask them what their experiences have been like, how they've disclosed, and when they've disclosed. 
It can be helpful to get advice and feedback from others who have endured similar experiences. [substeps] If you don't belong to a support group, consider joining one or engaging in an online support group and posting the question.