[header] How to be kotonaru (different ) [title] First off, kotonaru means different in japanese. [title] As the name might imply, kotonarus love japanese culture. [step] So, if you don't already, watch anime and read manga. 
And don't be afraid to watch japanese dramas and movies, too. Even if it's rated " m for mature audiences ", if you can handle it, watch/read it.