[header] How to convince elderly parents to move closer [title] Perform a cost-benefit analysis. [step] Providing care across the country or even in a neighboring state can add up quickly. Adult children may have to take off work to visit their parents, purchase plane tickets, obtain hotel accommodations, or arrange childcare. 
Do the math in terms of time and money. Gain a clear picture going in as to how much relocating would save the family.