[header] How to get a man (for gay men ) [title] Go to lgbtq events and mingle with people. [step] Attending lgbtq events is a great way to support a cause that you're passionate about and will give you the ability to meet eligible singles. Choose an event or cause that you can support, and go with a positive mindset to meet new friends and to have fun. 
Make it a point to get out there and talk to people. If you see someone you're interested in, go up to them and start a conversation.