[header] How to handle parents playing favorites as an adult [title] Debate carefully whether to address the favoritism. [step] Telling your family members about your feelings might just stir up negativity. On the other hand, it could lead to a productive conversation and a positive resolution. 
Take your individual family situation into account as you consider whether to speak up. [substeps] If you think your parents aren't intentionally making you or your siblings feel left out, a tactful conversation might be appropriate.