[header] How to be a secret admirer on valentine's day [title] Start out with a simple card. [step] This is the easiest and most personal way to make contact with your crush as their secret admirer. You can either buy stationary or create your own personalized card that will contain your romantic message. 
[substeps] The first time you contact your crush as their secret admirer, you want to make it clear what your purpose is. Pick out a valentine's day card or when making your own use reds and pinks to accentuate the romantic theme.