[header] How to tell your family about your depression [title] Consider seeking treatment before speaking with your family. [step] Treating your depression is your priority, and you don't necessarily need to wait to tell your family before you seek treatment. In fact, a counselor or therapist might be able to help you strategize the best way to speak to your family about your depression. 
If you are in school, visit you school counselor and tell him what is going on. If you are an adult, visit your doctor or make an appointment with a therapist and/or psychiatrist.