[header] How to support your girlfriend after she has an abortion [title] Tell her that you're here to support her in whatever way she needs. [step] This may be a tough situation for both you and your girlfriend, and the best thing you can do is tell her how much you care for her. Try not to assume that you know what she wants. 
Instead, ask her what you can do to help and let her lead the conversation. [substeps] She might want to talk about her feelings right away, but she might also want time alone.