[header] How to write about married life in an autobiography [title] Write a clear objective describing what you want your autobiography to do for the eventual reader. [title] Based on the objective, create a list of moments in your married life that, when described, will help achieve the objective. [step] Be sure to note what you learned from each of these situations. 
[title] Run the list by your (current or past) significant other. [step] Ask them to describe the events in your list from their memory.