[header] How to get a girl [title] Be honest about your interest. [step] There are many fish in the sea, as they say, which means that there are many potential mates for any person. You'll want to prove, from that get-go, why you're interested in spending time with this person in particular. 
It's often best not to think so much about " the date " in the initial stages. You don't want to get ahead of yourself, as all relationships should be founded on proper communication and a friendly interest in the other person.