[header] How to get along with a friend that always wants to fight [title] Pause and ground yourself. [step] If you notice a fight coming on or you find yourself reacting to something your friend says, take a moment and find some peace. Take a few deep breaths and remind yourself not to react. 
[substeps] Remember that you may not be in charge of what other people do or say, but you are in charge of your actions and reactions. Use an affirmation such as, " i choose how i respond to other people, and i choose to be peaceful right now.