[header] How to repel a narcissist [title] Make a list of your strengths. [step] Narcissists are drawn to people who are less aware of their own abilities and who do not accept themselves the way that they are. To work on, it can be helpful to identify your strengths. 
You can read over the list on a daily basis to help affirm yourself and work towards accepting yourself for who you are. Try making a list that includes all of your strengths, minor and major.