[header] How to make sex important in a relationship [title] Schedule sex. [step] No, it's not romantic. But sometimes life gets in the way, and you are too busy or tired to make time for it. 
While it might feel awkward at first, and not at all spontaneous, you may eventually find yourself looking forward to that time of reconnecting with your partner. [substeps] Discuss how often you want to have sex and come to an agreement.