[header] How to write an ordinary power of attorney [title] Talk to your loved one about giving up power of attorney. [step] If you want to give up your power of attorney, talk to your loved ones. Explain why you want them to have this control. 
Make sure you choose someone who will respect your wishes as your " agent " (the person you are empowering to act for you). If you want to get power of attorney over someone, the simplest way to do so is to get their permission.