[header] How to stop arguing with your boyfriend [title] Decide what you most commonly fight over. [step] These may be minor things, like cleanliness, or major issues, like jealousy, infidelity, or commitment. [substeps] Be aware, though, that arguments are often about something below the surface, such as resentment and disappointment. 
The things we argue about can be simply an excuse to vent our deeper frustrations. [title] Identify other factors that may contribute to your fights.