[header] How to show respect to a jewish mourner [title] Maintain a respectful attitude. [step] When visiting a jewish person who is in mourning, it is important to maintain a respectful demeanor. Don't joke around or talk about frivolous topics. 
Remember that you are there to show your respect for the dead and to comfort the deceased's family and friends. [substeps] A mourner is usually considered a spouse, parent, sibling, or child of the deceased.