[header] How to talk about sex [title] Be frank. [step] Lay out your thoughts as plainly as possible. Avoid euphemisms, and try to work past your initial discomfort. 
If you aren't comfortable referring to " sex, " try using a similar but " softer " phrase. Instead of saying that you are " having sex, " say that you are " making love, " or " being intimate, " or " getting down.