[header] How to get your partner to diet with you [title] Have a conversation. [step] Be prepared to talk about why you want to diet and what kind of changes this diet will entail. If dieting is a sore topic for your partner, don't bring it up in front of others; wait instead to discuss in private. 
Your partner may not have thought about dieting before this moment, so be sure to give them some time after the discussion to think. [substeps] Say something like " hey babe, i've been thinking a lot about being more healthy lately.