[header] How to improve your relationship with an ailing parent [title] Reconcile and forgive your parent. [step] If you have been estranged from your parent for a while, then you may need to reconcile with them first. This will involve getting in touch with your parent and taking small steps to rebuild your communication. 
[substeps] You may start by just calling your parent to talk for a few minutes. Then, you might follow up by calling a few days later or by arranging to meet the parent for lunch or coffee.