[header] How to deal with mixed feelings towards someone [title] Make a list of your feelings toward this person. [step] Use the problem identification, choices, consequences (picc) model to sort through your feelings. The first step is to identify all of the feelings you have about the person. 
Examples of feelings you might have toward a person might be intrigued, unsure, self-conscious, etc. [substeps] Make a list of all the feelings you can identify.