[header] How to break up with someone who is threatening suicide [title] Emphasize that you care about the other person. [step] Tell your boyfriend or girlfriend that they are still important to you, even though you're breaking up. Let them know that you don't want them to hurt themselves. 
[substeps] Say something like, " i still really care about you, and i'm sorry this is so hard for you. " you might also say, " it hurts me to hear you say you'll hurt yourself.