[header] How to know if the relationship is over [title] Record how often you fight with your significant other. [step] Fighting can be a healthy and productive way to communicate and resolve conflict. However, fighting incessantly and spending most of your time together engaged in fights may be a sign that your relationship is nearing its end. 
[substeps] Picking fights over inconsequential things might be a cry for attention or a way to lash out, and could be a sign of the end. Leaving an argument feeling angry, resentful, bitter, and unwilling to make-up are signs that your relationship is failing.