[header] How to flirt with a boy when you are 13 or 14 [title] Learn how to relax around guys. [step] Boys don't like an uptight girl who will adjust her makeup and hair every five seconds. The point is to not be so girly, but don't be one of the guys either. 
You will not be able to flirt unless you can find the perfect balance between one of the boys and a girly-girl. [title] Practice flirting on guys you don't know and ones that you most likely will not see again.