[header] How to make an instant pudding mix and graham crackers dessert eclair [title] Combine dry instant pudding mix into large mixing bowl with 4 ½ cups milk. [title] Mix according to the pudding mixture's instructions on the back of the box. [step] This can be done with either a handheld or stand mixer. 
[title] Fold cool whip into the pudding mixture with a spatula, mixing them until they are well blended. [title] In the bottom of a 9 by 13 casserole or baking dish, place one layer of graham crackers.