[header] How to accept and deal with people labeling you as a lesbian [title] Ignore stereotypes. [step] You could be labeled as a lesbian because you don't fit in with stereotypes people have about women, or because you do fit in with stereotypes people have about lesbians. How you express yourself, what you wear, and what activities you enjoy are up to you. 
Ignore the many stereotypes about women that you may not conform to, even if they might contribute to people labeling you. Remember that : [substeps] Women aren't weak.