[header] How to get your ex to fall for you again [title] Keep your distance. [step] While you are deciding whether or not you want to get back together with your ex, you should not be in contact with him or her. It is important to have no contact with your ex to deal with your emotions, process the breakup, and prepare to move on. 
Even if you decide that you want to get back together, you will still need time to yourself and so will your ex. [substeps] Don't text your ex or respond to text messages from him or her until you feel you have had adequate time to process your breakup.