[header] How to redeem yourself [title] Determine what you did wrong. [step] Wrongdoing (or betrayal) can include a number of different situations. In general it means that you've broken some sort of agreement (formal or informal) with someone or something. 
[substeps] Examples of possible wrongdoings-you might have wronged your spouse through cheating, broken someone's trust by lying, or gone against your moral or ethical code by stealing something. [title] Acknowledge your wrongdoing before the other person finds out.