[header] How to heal spiritually [title] Love yourself. [step] This is always the first step to connecting with your spirit. If you've been bashing yourself for living the " wrong " life or mulling over the past, now is the right moment to stop that. 
Know that when you say negative messages to yourself, you are diminishing your own spirit, taking you further away from where you want to be. A great exercise to try is to observe your thoughts for one day, without labelling them either good or bad, and instead just watching them.