[header] How to ask your ex out [title] Give your ex some time and space. [step] After the initial breakup, both you and your ex will doubtlessly need time and space away from each other to process the breakup and recover emotionally. Even if you decide the next day that you want to get back together, give your ex at least a month or two before you start making new overtures. 
[substeps] If you like, use this time as an opportunity to meet and even date other people. If you date someone new, you may find that your desire for your ex fades with time.