[header] How to bond with a needy dog [title] Play with your dog. [step] Instead of giving into your needy dog by coddling or holding then when they whine, interact with them by playing with them. Wait until a time when they are not whining or barking for your attention, then engage with them. 
[substeps] Try playing fetch, running together, or playing tug-of-war. Note that tugging games can make some breeds, such as terriers, overly excited.