[header] How to be the strong silent type [title] Have self-confidence. [step] A strong and silent type is generally thought of as someone who projects a real sense of self-confidence and assurance, without coming across as arrogant or dismissive of others. Self-confidence is about knowing yourself and trusting yourself to rise to challenges and deal with difficult situations. 
[substeps] Learning more about yourself and the world can help you to develop your self-confidence. Try to trust yourself and give yourself credit for your achievements.