[header] How to deal with your friend taking your boyfriend or girlfriend [title] Think about why it happened. [step] Write down whatever comes to mind. Do not think, " what could i have done to change that they are together now? " you've done what you could! The harsh truth of the matter is that he or she did not like the real you and you should never change who you are for someone else. 
It is important to stay true to yourself. Someday you will find someone who loves the real you.