[header] How to reinvent yourself after a break up (girls ) [title] Be gentle with yourself. [step] Right after a break up, it's very common for women to blame themselves. However, instead of piling guilt on top of the negativity you might be experiencing, try your best to be positive and kind to yourself. 
Remember that you want to reinvent yourself for yourself, not to get your partner back or to prove something to the rest of the world. [substeps] Cut out the negative self-talk.