[header] How to deal with former bullies at a high school reunion [title] Plan ahead. [step] Contact the reunion committee--the group that organized the reunion--and have them email you a full list of everyone who will be attending. If the bully's name is on it and you really don't want to see them, there is no shame in not attending. 
[substeps] However, you should carefully weigh whether avoiding a former bully is more important than the chance to meet other alumni from your graduating class. When you contact the organizing committee, thank them for their hard work in putting the reunion together.