[header] How to write a poem about someone you've lost [title] Write everything you wish you could say. [step] Writing out what you'd like to say to the person you've lost is a great way to gather your thoughts and process their death. As you collect your thoughts, you may want to write a list, a letter, or even an essay. 
[substeps] Think about all the things you would tell that person. You might be feeling sad or angry, or you might recall happy memories and feel grateful.