[header] How to date with integrity [title] Be open about your goals. [step] Have a goal in mind when dating, and make that goal clear as early as possible. Whether you are looking to date around after a breakup or a serious mate with whom to raise children, state your goal on your online profile or discuss it in person by the third date if you are not sure the other person is on the same page. 
[title] Be timely with communicating disinterest. If someone is not holding your interest, don't feel obligated to accept a second or third date.