[header] How to get alimony from a cheating spouse [title] Ask friends or family for recommendations. [step] Particularly when you're looking for a divorce attorney, recommendations from your family or friends may be the strongest options for you to find an attorney. These people know you and your situation, and may be best suited to recommend someone with whom you'd work well. 
[substeps] You are already dealing with the feelings of betrayal and personal trauma that come from discovering that your spouse is cheating on you. For this reason, you need an attorney you trust and who makes you feel at ease.