[header] How to recognise your soulmate [title] Focus on yourself first. [step] In general, people who place a high value and confidence in themselves are able to give more of themselves to other people. This includes tending to mind and body, as well as your lifestyle, before trying to find someone to share it with. 
[substeps] Taking care of your body will make you feel more like yourself. Improving your appearance will also make you more physically attractive, making it easier to attract someone.