[header] How to get rid of a manipulative boyfriend [title] Accept the relationship for what it is. [step] The first step to ditching a manipulative boyfriend is to step away from denial. If you're still hesitating at all, strive to see the relationship for what it is accurately. 
[substeps] Think about how you feel around your boyfriend. If he's manipulating you, you're likely drained or exhausted in his presence.