[header] How to get your boyfriend to hang out with you [title] Examine your feelings. [step] Write about your frustrations, or talk to a trustworthy friend. Perhaps you feel neglected, or frustrated, or insecure-or all of these things. 
Try to determine whether he is truly failing to keep up his end of the relationship agreement, or whether you are holding him up to unrealistic expectations. Think about how your feelings have changed over time, and consider whether this problem is symptomatic of any other problems in your relationship.