[header] How to love a married man [title] Consider the balance of any relationship. [step] All relationships are based on the following concepts : [substeps] Desire: this is when a person observes (visual) a person's actions and or appearance creating an image of interest. Attraction: this takes place when a person feels (emotion) a connection with a person beyond the image. 
Love: this is a combination of levels of both desire and attraction which creates a certain level or depth of love. [title] Realize that, in relationships, there are different depths of desire, attraction, and love.