[header] How to get your ex boyfriend back [title] Reflect on why the breakup happened. [step] The first thing you need to do is take a long, hard look at what factors led up to the breakup. Consider whether these same difficulties are likely to cause more relationship problems if you try to get back together, or if you might be able to get past them. 
[substeps] It's important to think about what you might have done to cause the breakup. Blaming your ex for everything is not a great way to get him back! [title] Think about why you want him back.