[header] How to cope if members are rude or upset you on a forum [title] Think before you post your problem or topic on the forum. [step] If it is a very personal problem it may be better solved by going to an advice center, or legal advice center if it is a legal problem. Not posting it on a forum. 
[title] Bear in mind that the forum is public, and so everyone will read what you post. [step] So if you do choose to post on a forum, if it is a personal problem you should choose a username that is different from your real name.