[header] How to choose the right man to marry [title] Ask yourself what you want. [step] Think about what qualities you want in a man. Ask yourself what you admire in a man and how you want to enjoy the time you spend together. 
You might want to write a list of the things you desire and the things you aren't willing to budge on, like kids or religion. Think about what kind of man you would like to build a future with.