[header] How to give gifts unconditionally [title] Find a gift that means something about the other person to you. [step] Be proud of what you choose. Don't just buy something because it is in the bargain bin or because it was the most expensive item in the store. 
Put effort, care and consideration into the purchase or creation of the gift. Making the gift yourself is definitely an option too, and is even more a " piece of you ", so feel free to do so.