[header] How to tell if a girl is using you [title] Assess your status. [step] Look at what you have that a girl could want. From good looks to a nice cash flow or a good car, you could be used for any number of things. 
You can also be used for your clout, whether it's being a big name on a small campus or even becoming moderately famous. [substeps] Of course, you don't have to be a big deal to be used.