[header] How to get your cousin to feel sorry for you [title] Start talking to your cousin less and less. [step] Like for example, start making conversations shorter and shorter each time you talk to them. If they try talking to you for a long time, say, " oh, i need to go to the restroom. 
Bye! " or something like that then leave. Or you can let them see you with other family or cousins and whenever they talk to you, make the conversation really short.