[header] How to react when your girlfriend tells you she's pregnant [title] Listen to your girlfriend. [step] When your girlfriend tells you that she's pregnant, you should remember that the situation will affect her more than anyone else. Let her say what's on her mind before you talk. 
She may want to express her feelings, which can range from shock to denial to joy, or a mixture of many emotions at once. [substeps] If your girlfriend tells you she's pregnant, and doesn't really say anything else, she might be looking for a sign that you care.