[header] How to talk to a crush who hates you [title] Find out why they hate you through a friend. [step] Seek out a mutual friend to better understand why your crush might hate you. Sometimes your crush doesn't hate you at all, and your perception is wrong. 
[substeps] You could ask a friend by saying, " i'd really like to get to know john better, but i think he hates me. Do you know if there's any truth to that? " [title] Address any misunderstandings.