[header] How to avoid politics with stubborn relatives [title] Consider your comfort level with politics before an event. [step] Before you attend a family event, set boundaries for yourself. Decide what you are and are not comfortable talking about with your family. 
It's okay if some items are simply off limits for discussion, and you should pick your battles when it comes to politics and family. Draw lines when it comes to topics of discussion, and then stick by these lines to prevent yourself from getting sucked into an argument.