[header] How to deal with a same sex crush (girls ) [title] Assess your feelings. [step] Sometimes it's hard to pinpoint exactly how you are feeling when you have interest in a new person. You may want to spend a lot of time with someone, and think about them a lot, but you're not sure exactly what that means. 
In order to move forward, you need to understand what your feelings actually are. [substeps] You need to be able to distinguish between wanting to be friends and a sexual crush.