[header] How to ask a girl to hang out [title] Invite her along to things you plan on doing anyway. [step] Be subtle and natural with the girl you want to hang out with by inviting her to activities you were already planning on doing. If you plan on going to a barbeque, ask her if she wants to hang out there. 
Enjoy yourself regardless of whether she comes along or not. [substeps] Say, " hey, i'm going to this cookout tomorrow if you want to stop by.