[header] How to help a friend who has an eating disorder [title] Set aside time to talk one on one. [step] Make sure you talk to your friend privately in a space where she feels comfortable, such as your home or her home. Pick a spot where there will be no distractions or interruptions. 
[substeps] Having a one on one conversation will also prevent other people from entering the conversation and firing accusations or opinions at your friend. Avoid sitting down with a group of people and your friend, as this can feel like an aggressive environment or an attack on your friend, rather than a supportive conversation.