[header] How to talk to the resistant parent of a gay child [title] Talk with them. [step] Talking with the parents of a gay child has to be done very delicately to determine if they want to discuss the situation. Determine if the parents are even willing to have dialog. 
If they are not willing, then there is simply nothing that anyone can do. [title] If the parents are willing, then do your best to reassure without being condescending.