[header] How to date without your parents knowing [title] Consider how dating without telling your parents affects your relationship with your parents. [step] You're going to be lying to your parents constantly about something that is a big deal. Yes, it is a big deal. 
It matters enough to them to consider that you're not yet ready to date, so you must really think through the consequences of lying constantly and the potential of being caught out. Think about the following before going ahead with dating without telling them : [substeps] You cannot share the joy of your feelings with your parents.