[header] How to live together before marriage [title] Decide where you both will live. [step] You should start by discussing where you and your partner will live once you move in together. Maybe you will move into your partner's place and you will work together to make the place suitable for you both. 
Maybe your partner will move in with you or you will both move into a new place together. Decide the terms of where you are both going to be living and try to find an option that is affordable and comfortable for you both.