[header] How to react when your teenager is wearing diapers [title] Write out your feelings in a letter. [step] It can be shocking to discover your teen is wearing diapers. However, it's important to remain calm and address the situation from a place of love and support. 
It can be helpful to write out your feelings in a letter ahead of time so you do not confront your teen when you are still emotional and confused. [substeps] Write a letter you do not intend to send.