[header] How to tell your girlfriend you are not a lesbian [title] Gather up your knowledge of this girl you've become smitten with. [step] You're going to have to think of the least painful way to break it off, and only you will know how. [title] Find a secluded place where there won't be any onlookers. 
[step] You don't want a public scene-you don't want to embarrass or hurt her any more than necessary. Try to find a place that doesn't hold any loving memories; that will make it harder on both of you.