[header] How to take care of your wife or girlfriend during pregnancy [title] Go with her to doctor appointments. [step] Depending on your wife or girlfriend's health and age, she may be going to the doctor or midwife a lot. Going with her to as many appointments as you can is important. 
She may need help walking up the stairs, undressing for the appointment, and so on. Your presence at the appointments also demonstrates your role as a new parent, and shows support.