[header] How to get support when you have a terminal illness [title] Bring someone to your medical appointments. [step] The shock of being given a terminal diagnosis can make it difficult for you to focus on the information that comes next. Rely on someone else whom you trust to remain relatively composed to provide a second set of ears to gather the information and advice you need going forward. 
[substeps] If your terminal diagnosis comes without warning and you are all alone at the appointment, ask if you can return within a few days along with your chosen support person. Make sure important information about your condition and your options is put in writing for your later reference.