[header] How to handle people who repeatedly violate boundaries [title] Know that you're in charge. [step] If someone is repeatedly violating a boundary and it is impacting you, you've got to take charge of the situation. As a result, you need to be comfortable with the idea that you're in charge when it comes to resolving that issue. 
[substeps] Tell yourself that you won't be bullied or taken advantage of by anyone. Don't question the validity of your feelings.