[header] How to ask for a reference from an employer [title] Ask someone who will sing your praises. [step] Letters of reference should be glowing, lukewarm references are not helpful. Think of an employer you've worked closely with who knows your style, skills and strengths. 
The most important thing is to ask people who will have good things to say about you. [substeps] Reflect on what a potential reference would say about your background and performance before you ask.