[header] How to determine if you've found your soulmate [title] Look for a partner that complements you. [step] To build a solid foundation for long-lasting love look for someone that adds balance to your life. [substeps] Don't rely too much on the old adage " opposites attract. 
" relationships between opposites can sometimes devolve into dysfunctional relationships. For example, if you're the quiet type don't assume you need a partner who is loud.