[header] How to throw a children's tea party [title] Select a theme. [step] Pick something fun that will appeal to the age group you're throwing the party for. For young girls, a princess theme or fairy theme might appeal to them. 
For older children, you could throw a more sophisticated victorian tea party. [substeps] Other possible themes are alice in wonderland, strawberry shortcake, flowers and herbs, or your child's favorite color.