[header] How to meet gay and bisexual men [title] Know the lgbt community in your state. [step] In the last few decades, studies have been dedicated to create maps of demographics of sexual orientation. The studies show that the west coast and the states of new england have the highest percentage of lgbt people. 
States in the midwest have a very low percentage. If you are looking to surround yourself with gay and bisexual men, it will be easier to do if you live in a state with a more expansive lgbt community.