[header] How to be a happy, spiritual family [title] Create a family identity. [step] Forging a family identity together can create a sense of cohesion and purpose as a family. Begin by finding a family motto that each member of the family has contributed to, whether by way of words, ideas, or reflections. 
[substeps] What will your family motto be? Write a family vision statement. Describe your family's goals and dreams.