[header] How to confront a friend [title] Think about the situation. [step] Make sure you know exactly what you're going to confront your friend about and why you want to do it. [substeps] It's easy to get blinded by emotions, so take your time to think about the situation logically. 
Also, try to consider how your friend might feel about the situation. Consider if the incident you want to confront your friend about was a one-time thing or if it was representative of her normal behavior.