[header] How to date an otaku girl [title] Check the stereotypes at the door. [step] The trouble with any label is that it tends to reduce people to nothing more than stereotypes and hollow shells. Before you approach an otaku girl, remind yourself that she is an individual person with her own quirks, beliefs, and personality. 
Some of her characteristics might scream " typical " otaku, but many won't. [substeps] The same thing can be said about impressing her once you've already met and started to date.