[header] How to end a long distance relationship [title] Understand your feelings. [step] Ask yourself why you want to break up with this person, and identify all of the things that make you unhappy in the relationship. [substeps] Make a list of the things that bother you. 
Is the distance the problem, or is your partner the problem? Consider whether you can change any of these things, or whether they are simply immutable side-effects of a long-distance relationship. If you are undecided, make a list of positives and negatives: reasons to stay in the relationship, and reasons to leave it.