[header] How to please god [title] Know that you are god's child. [step] You need to look at your relationship with god in the same way that god does. This means viewing god as a heavenly father and not as an impersonal deity. 
[substeps] Your relationship with god should be based on love and not on the blind obedience of rules. Think about family relationships among humans, focusing primarily on the relationship between parent and child.