[header] How to stay a virgin [title] Consider your reasons. [step] Understanding why this decision is important to you is a big part of maintaining it. Take some time to examine your reasoning. 
Don't be a virgin because of your parent (s), your religious leaders, your partner, or a wikihow article--be a virgin if it feels like what is best for. Try listing your thoughts in a journal, so you can look at them whenever you feel like it.