[header] How to prepare a divorce settlement agreement in california [title] Decide what you want. [step] You will be more effective if you decide ahead of time what you want. Do you want full custody of the children? Do you want spousal support? And if you do, how much support do you need? To answer these questions, do the following : [substeps] Identify where you want to live. 
You might want to stay in your house because you have a job nearby or for another reason. If you want to move, figure out where.