[header] How to respond to guys on tinder [title] Send a brief response if he sends a short message. [step] If you are shy, but want to show interest, respond with something simple just to keep the conversation alive. You can add a hand-waving emoji if you want it to seem more friendly. 
This response will at least get you on his radar. [substeps] Respond with something like, " hey eric! It's nice to meet you.