[header] How to create conversation with an untalkative boyfriend [title] Practice active listening. [step] Make sure you're being a good listener when he speaks. If he feels like you're ignoring him or that you're distracted, he may not want to open up. 
Give your full attention when he's talking and don't get distracted by the television, your phone, or other things. [substeps] Nod occasionally and appear engaged by leaning in and keeping an open posture.