[header] How to bond with small children [title] Be honest. [step] T's okay to admit when you don't know the answer or even that something had you a little scared. Children, especially older ones, can sense insincerity. 
Being honest with children lets them know that you are authentic and that they can trust you, which is one of the biggest part of forming a bond. It also sets an example for how you would like them to be with you.