[header] How to receive alimony or spousal support before your divorce [title] List the household budget prior to the separation. [step] This will include both your and your spouse's income and all expenses that you both incur. Be sure that any joint debts (credit cards or loans in both of your names) and joint assets (bank accounts, etc. 
That are in both names) are listed and noted as such. This will help you and a court know all of the assets, income, and liabilities there are to work with and remind you to take care of those joint items, as well.