[header] How to be a good band girlfriend [title] Show up when you can. [step] One way to support your partner is to just be there when he or she is playing. Showing up to gigs when they are in town and when you have the opportunity to do so to lets your partner know that you support his or her art. 
[substeps] That doesn't mean you need to come to every show. In fact, sometimes it's good to develop your own interests and spend time with other people.