[header] How to get what you want without being annoying [title] Be polite. [step] Whether communicating in person, over the phone, via text, or through email, it's important to be courteous. If you are wanting or needing something from someone, it's particularly important to be respectful. 
You may be asking a favor of them, and they may not have to honor that favor. [substeps] People are less likely to see you as annoying if you are genuinely polite, respectful, and friendly.