[header] How to have a relationship with a much older man [title] Focus on personality more than age. [step] An older person can seem full of life and enthusiasm. Likewise, a younger person can be mature and have a lot of meaningful life experiences. 
Instead of focusing on the number, always focus on the person and how they make you feel. [substeps] If the difference in age does present an issue, make a list to remind yourself of why you fell for this person in the first place.