[header] How to bond with a cockatoo [title] Allow the cockatoo to get used to its surroundings. [step] Do not overwhelm the cockatoo when it first enters your home. Let it roam around, under your supervision, and explore its new surroundings. 
Keep handling it to a minimum so it has time to hop around and get used to its home. [substeps] You should also give the cockatoo time to get used to its cage.