[header] How to be confident around girls if you're shy [title] Understand what it means to be shy. [step] Characteristics of being shy can be manifested in different ways under different circumstances for each individual. Knowing what situations cause your feelings of shyness can help you address the symptoms of shyness when they occur : [substeps] Being hesitant to speak up in social situations mumbling or talking softly avoiding social gatherings being overly talkative due to nervousness. 
[title] Recognize what situations make you feel shy. [step] Understanding that almost everyone feels shy at some point can help you overcome your own feelings of shyness.