[header] How to decorate for a bridal shower [title] Talk to the bride about the guest list. [step] Unless the shower is a surprise, it is a good idea to get as much input as possible from the bride. Traditionally, a bridal shower is for the bride, her bridesmaids, and other close female friends and family. 
She may want to stick to this tradition or she may want to include older family members, children, or even partners of her friends. [substeps] This is valuable information when choosing a theme and deciding on your decorations.