[header] How to stop your kids from using your divorce to their advantage [title] Try to see things from your child's point of view. [step] If you are getting divorced, you will be going through a difficult and emotional period. It is important, however, that you pay attention to how your children are experiencing the divorce. 
Your kids will have their own perspective on what is happening and it's helpful if you can try to see things from their perspective. [substeps] Children, especially young children, will have a hard time understanding the situation and the complicated reasons behind your divorce.