[header] How to gain that much required sense of self confidence (girls ) [title] Make a list of all dreams and aspirations. [step] Make a list of present and future aspirations whether it be just scribbling something on a scrap piece of paper. This, in itself, is a step-by-step process that you personally want to accomplish. 
Remember that there is no limit to your dreams, they can be infinitive: never believe that your goal is impossible. There is no deadline (you can do within your own time).