[header] How to stop a wedding [title] Consider your motivations. [step] Before attempting to stop a wedding you need to think about why you have decided to take this on. Ask yourself if you believe you have the best intentions for both individuals by stopping their wedding. 
Try to understand why the couple has decided to get married and if you may be the only person feeling otherwise. [substeps] Talk with family members or other people involved in the wedding to find out if someone else feels similarly.