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This drop-off is , in equal parts , guilt induced ( the nanny does everything else for the rest of the day ) and an important social networking opportunity . It starts and finishes in the remote desert outpost of Boulder , Utah , which is halfway between the last mountain range ( the Henrys ) and the last major river ( the Escalante ) to be discovered in the contiguous United States . The Bedford wears haute couture riding clothes when she drives into the city in her car ( Range Rover , black ) to have her hair done . Manicurists were spreading towels across laps and dipping bejeweled hands into bowls as telephones rang and little dogs scurried underfoot . When a man is ashamed , he blushes ; when he is afraid , he becomes pale , and so on . The man who blushes through shame is not said to be a constitutional blusher , nor is the man who becomes pale through fear said to be constitutionally pale . But substance is not said to be more or less that which it is : a man is not more truly a man at one time than he was before , nor is anything , if it is substance , more or less what it is .