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When Ellen was pregnant with Olivia , friends with older children often reminded us , " Every kid is different . I took it to an extreme with Olivia , but self-respecting , really intelligent women also get involved in these incredibly degrading , horrible relationships . No matter though - - they were fast friends again , and playing with Olivia 's Barbie collection , in a matter of minutes . But just as we could n't imagine what life would be like with Olivia before she was born , I have no idea what life with this new baby will bring .