I'd like to know if is it possible for my spouse to apply for the VA home loan program?
Possibly we can apply to see if you qualify.
Is it possible to avoid foreclosure? I was told, or so I thought, that I could sign over my house.
You might be talking about Deed in lieu of foreclosure, this plan lets you avoid the foreclosure process by signing over the deed to the home to your servicer. The home will then belong to the servicer.