Is there a possibility that the benefits that are paid to me as a spouse decrease what my spouse will get at retirement? Because if so, I would not want to continue in this program I like things are fair
Actually the value of the spouse's benefits you receive, could be added to their benefits and may help your spouse decide to take benefits sooner.
What is the amount you could pay family benefits?
The total depends on your spouse's benefit amount and how many family members that would qualify on the same record.