Yes, you can ask for the Women Veterans Program Manager.  I can help you find the nearest VA medical center so they can work with you.
can you help if we need assistance ASAP?
Yes, you can connect with our qualified Veterans Crisis Line responders for confidential help.  Many of them are Veterans themselves .The service is private , free , and available 24/7 .
and about the housing assistance, can you also help me with the certificate of eligibility?