Yeah.
And actually ,  you know , the point is not about an individual , it 's the point about  tendencies toward  you know , different styles , different speaker styles.
Oh sure.
And  it would be , you know  of course ,  there 's also the question of what type of overlap was this , and w what were they , and i and I  and I know that I can distinguish at least three types and , probably more , I mean , the  general   cultural idea which w uh , the conversation analysts originally started with in the seventies was that we have this  strict model where politeness involves that you let the person finish th before you start talking , and  and you know , I mean ,  w we know that   an and they 've loosened up on that too s in the intervening time , that  that that 's  that 's viewed as being  a culturally - relative thing , I mean ,  that you have the high - involvement style from the East Coast where people  will overlap often as an indication of interest in what the other person is saying. And