You must be convicted of the traffic violation before points are added to your driving record. Your point total is calculated based on the date of the violation , not the date of the conviction. The points for violations that all occurred within the last 18 months are added to calculate your point total.
Are there any violations that I could commit that are not worthy of points?
Yes... bicycle violations, pedestrian violations and parking violations.
What happens if I am in New York and receive more than 6 points in 18 months?