You can talk privately with a trained VA counselor for free, just call the National Call Center for Homeless Veterans at 877-424-3838.  they are available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week
On a somewhat related note, I am hesitating. Since I'm already enrolled, shouldn't I have a care team assigned to me already?
You may also be able to get a provider in the local community instead through community care.
Is it possible to learn more about priority groups?