Abolaji attended Eaglecrest High School in Aurora, Colorado and played college soccer at Barton County Community College in Kansas, where he was named to the NJCAA Region VI All-Region second team in 2003.
Abolaji graduated from Eaglecrest High School in Aurora, Colorado, and went on to play collegiate soccer at Barton County Community College in Kansas, earning recognition as a second-team all-region player in 2003.