In 1990, Shand married Clio Goldsmith, a French former actress, daughter of Edward Goldsmith and niece of Sir James Goldsmith, who were all members of the prominent Goldsmith family. They lived in Rome and had a daughter, Ayesha (born 1995).
In 1990, Shand tied the knot with Clio Goldsmith, a French actress whose family included prominent members of the Goldsmith clan. They resided in Rome and welcomed a daughter named Ayesha into their lives in 1995.