During this period, the groom typically does not see the bride until she has agreed to marry or at least has agreed to stay. The kidnapped woman's family may also become involved, either urging the woman to stay (particularly if the marriage is believed socially acceptable or advantageous for the prospective bride and her family), or opposing the marriage on various grounds and helping to liberate the woman.
During this period, a groom typically does not see his bride until she has agreed to marry or at least agrees to remain in the relationship. The kidnapped woman's family may also become involved, either urging her to stay (especially if the marriage is considered socially acceptable or beneficial for both parties), or opposing it and aiding in her release.