As Gross notes, "For many oppressed groups the experience of commonality is largely the commonality of their difference from, and oppression by, the dominant culture". In order to function and achieve success within the dominant culture, LGBT groups must adopt certain communication strategies to match the social norms.
According to Gross, "For many oppressed groups, the experience of shared identity is often based on their differences from and experiences of oppression by the dominant culture." To thrive in the dominant society, LGBT communities need to adapt their communication styles to align with prevailing social norms.