Kierkegaard says, "the upbuilding discourse is a good in itself" (p. 95) and should not be taken in vain, but before the upbuilding comes the "terrifying".(p. 95-96) Suffering comes but it is a transition to something that lasts forever.
Kierkegaard asserts, "the edifying conversation is a valuable thing in itself" (p. 95) and should not be exploited, but prior to the edifying comes the "frightening".(p. 95-96) Suffering occurs but it serves as a transition to something that endures eternally.