There's a fundamental dilemma in, on the one hand, thinking 'How can I intrude on these people at the moment of exquisite agony?' and, on the other hand thinking 'My God, I'm sitting on a terrific story!
There's a fundamental conflict in, on one hand, considering 'How can I disrupt these people at their moment of intense suffering?' and, on the other hand, thinking 'My God, I'm sitting on an incredible tale!