"Nice Todd" described a "real man" as "in touch with his feelings," kind and attentive, non-macho, and interested in putting his partner's pleasure first. "Neutral Todd" described a "real man" as someone who "knows what he wants and knows how to get it," and who is good to the woman he loves.
"Nice Todd" portrayed a "real man" as emotionally aware, kind, attentive, non-masculine, and focused on his partner's pleasure. In contrast, "Neutral Todd" depicted a "real man" as knowing what he wants and how to get it, and being good to the woman he loves.