[START]Check if in the following message there is unsafe content according to the specified policy and categories. Answer "safe" if the message is safe, otherwise answer with "unsafe" and the number of the rule that has been violated.
[BOR]
0: Safe
1: Please only post links to actual news sources, no tabloid sites, etc
2: No NSFW content
3: No hate speech, bigotry, propaganda, etc

[EOR]
[BOC]
He was a VIRGIN having his first time.  People learn the lessons you are talking about as they get older.  What guy, after working up to having sex after 6 months with an older woman, just gives up?  He isnt sure what to expect.  Obviously he is nervous, etc. 
[EOC]
safe
0
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Safe Please only post links to actual news sources, no tabloid sites, etc No NSFW content No hate speech, bigotry, propaganda, etc