[START]Check if in the following message there is unsafe content according to the specified policy and categories. Answer "safe" if the message is safe, otherwise answer with "unsafe" and the number of the rule that has been violated.
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0: Safe
1: Be Vegan.
2: Post home cooking.
3: Join the Discord
4: Do not make any rude comments or digs at anyone’s food, cooking style, specific diet, restrictions or technique.
5: Do not use trademarked brands
6: Do not ask for a recipe without otherwise engaging the OP
7: Careful with making unasked for suggestions.
8: Adults Only.

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[BOC]
This is what I came here to say. The more you do something the more natural it becomes. By contrast I don't go out with people I don't have an interest in. Get out there and be social. I joined Meetup and a bunch of singles groups in it. From that I don't have a shortage of prospects. I'm a hardcore introvert, but I've put a lot of energy into being good at communicating and apparently come off as somewhat charming. Keep trying you'll pick it up eventually.

As /u/benuntu said, the secret is to keep the other person chatting.  Find out what they're into and show genuine interest in what drives them.
[EOC]
safe
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Safe Be Vegan. Post home cooking. Join the Discord Do not make any rude comments or digs at anyone’s food, cooking style, specific diet, restrictions or technique. Do not use trademarked brands Do not ask for a recipe without otherwise engaging the OP Careful with making unasked for suggestions. Adults Only.