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Every time someone doesn't want to get married to their partner, even when their partner has been with them for years, is in a stable and happy relationship, and *wants* to be married... I always end up sensing commitment issues...

Let's be honest -- if you think you're going to stay with your partner for the rest of your life, you may as well *get* married. (At least if you're living in the US). There's a lot of clear tax benefits, social security benefits, financial benefits, and medical emergency benefits that come from being married.

In fact, there are only 2 really good reasons *not* to get married, if you're in a very stable, long-term relationship:

1) One or both partners has a moral/legal/political bone to pick with the concept of marriage; or

2) One or both partners wants a relatively easy "out," in case the relationship doesn't work out. Breaking up is hard enough for anyone in a multi-year relationship; getting a divorce is even *more* terrifying. The spectre of alimony haunts many commitment-resistant people.

Your partner seems to want to say that he's in Slot 1. It's up to you to decide if that's it truly.
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Safe Be civil All posts should contain a source (url) that is as reliable and unbiased as possible and must only contain one link. No bots, spam or self-promotion. Post titles should be the same as the article used as source. Posts must be news from the most recent 30 days. No opinion pieces, Listicles, editorials or celebrity gossip is allowed. No duplicate posts. Misinformation / propaganda is strictly prohibited. No link shorteners. Don't copy entire article in your post body