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Yup. Dated plenty of both men and women. Women are just more open and, I think, more often looking for the sum total of an experience with someone instead of just looks. 

I'm over 40, and I don't know what creeps me out more: the guys to whom I am invisible because I'm not a totally perfect young specimen, or the young guys who fetishize me as their daddy. Both are reasons I never approach any guys under 30 anymore. 

On the other hand, guys are often up for just having sex together with no strings attached, and to me, that's a plus. 
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Safe Open-ended question Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members [An actual topic of discussion]