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I'm a big fan of people waiting until they're at least 25-26 to get married (doesn't mean you can't *meet* them before then, though), because that's when your brain is finally done cooking, and divorce rates drop.

But a lot of people are just way too poor to consider it. It's awesome that you've had the luck of everything going according to plan for you, but a lot of people don't feel like grownups, because we spend years trying to find a real career. I know I get skittish about the idea, now. With my one ex, I felt okay admitting I'd want to marry him in a few years, but we'd also been friends for five years before we dated, so.

Have you tried online dating? Something like match or OKC will probably help you find the people looking to settle down and have a family more easily.
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Safe Post only links to articles, Title must fairly describe link contents. If your title differs from the site’s, it should only be to add context or be more descriptive. Articles must be relevant to politics. Links must be to quality and original content. Articles should be worth reading. Clickbait, stub articles, and rehosted or stolen content are not allowed. Be civil, No violations of [TOS](https://mastodon.world/about). No memes, trolling, or low-effort comments. Vote based on comment quality, not agreement. This community aims to foster discussion; please reward people for putting effort into articulating their viewpoint, even if you disagree with it. No hate speech, slurs, celebrating death, advocating violence, or abusive language. This will result in a ban.