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Most therapists will give you a cut rate if you're struggling with money issues. And most anti depressants suck, but it sounds like you need something (besides xanex). Wellbutrin is the most well tolerated anti depressant for the majority of people who have trouble tolerating SSRI's. But there are other meds with off label uses that work too. I get that you don't want to disappoint anyone. But your SO won't be able to help, if he doesn't know. Most people, if they're afraid of someone not loving them because they find out they have a problem, find out just how much the opposite is true and how much the person they love will (be happy to) help them once they know. I've seen this, first hand. If someone really loves you, they will want to help you. Think of it as a gift you're giving him. Letting someone help you, usually makes them feel good about themselves. Good luck, and I hope things get better for you. Sometimes when you're overwhelmed, it seems like there's no solution. But there almost always is. 
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Safe Be civil and nice. Try not to excessively repost, as a rule of thumb, wait at least 2 months to do it if you *have* to.