[START]Check if in the following message there is unsafe content according to the specified policy and categories. Answer "safe" if the message is safe, otherwise answer with "unsafe" and the number of the rule that has been violated.
[BOR]
0: Safe
1: Be kind.
2: All posts must make an attempt to be funny.
3: Obey the general sh.itjust.works instance rules.
4: No politics or political figures. There are plenty of other politics communities to choose from.
5: Don't post anything grotesque or potentially illegal. Examples include pornography, gore, animal cruelty, inappropriate jokes involving kids, etc.

[EOR]
[BOC]
My wife had a disability from before we were married so I was in the position that your SO is in now.I never felt a single bit of resentment because I loved her and the disability was not who she was, but, and unfortunate circumstance.Your SO obviously feels the same way.It is hard caring for a person with a disability and/or a terminal disease, but, you have no reason to feel guilt.Just tell the man you love him and how much you appreciate him.
[EOC]
safe
0
[END]

Safe Be kind. All posts must make an attempt to be funny. Obey the general sh.itjust.works instance rules. No politics or political figures. There are plenty of other politics communities to choose from. Don't post anything grotesque or potentially illegal. Examples include pornography, gore, animal cruelty, inappropriate jokes involving kids, etc.