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The thing is, I feel having arranged the date [for tomorrow], it would be incredibly mean to just say actually, I've changed my mind. As I said in the description I am into the idea of having a relationship right now definitely, in fact I think this might've been part of the reason why I asked her out without really knowing her! In terms of the hooking up thing, it definitely was 'just a hookup' until **I** decided to ask her out and try and take the relationship further. That said now I have u-turned and made me realise, especially in the state I am in at the minute of really badly wanting a relationship, I do need to think a bit more with my head than my heart. The line about it not being fair is incredibly true and I think that that'd be an important thing to say.

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