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0: Safe
1: Be civil and nice.
2: Try not to excessively repost, as a rule of thumb, wait at least 2 months to do it if you *have* to.

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&gt;The fact she had to actually say that nothing physically happened indicates you asked her, which indicates you were jumping to conclusions

Yeah, but when you ask about your wife's day, and she doesn't tell you about meeting up with an old ex-boyfriend, and then she makes more plans to hang out with him in the future, and you find this out at some later point, you ask questions like "how long has this been going on for? What has happened between you?", etc., because she has actively lied to you.

I fail to see how that's an overreaction.
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