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1: Open-ended question
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That’s literally how societies work.  You can do everything yourself, or you can cooperate with other people.  Cooperating means spending some of your time doing their stuff so they spend some of their time doing your stuff.  Cooperating means giving up some free time but probably having more free time overall.

As is, you can have hobbies and interests now.  Society isn’t stopping you from that either.  You need to realize that your happiness is your responsibility instead of projecting onto the rest of us.  

A “not stupid” version of your question might have been “what would you like to spend more time doing.”  But that’s not the question you asked.  You decide to blame society for you being kind of a pathetic person.
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