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0: Safe
1: Be civil and nice.
2: Try not to excessively repost, as a rule of thumb, wait at least 2 months to do it if you *have* to.

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Personally, I find /r/married redpill one of the saddest reddit out there. 

He thinks being cold and distant will give him the upper hand and turn you into a Stepford sex doll.  Personally, I would turn some of these tactics back on him. 

Concentrate on those things that give you validation, and ignore him. Protect your feelings and take care of yourself, because he is obviously more invested in emotional manipulation than being a loving partner. Close the valves that show love - he doesn't value it, and worse, is trying to use your feelings against you. Do one thing a day that could enable you to walk away: learn finances, make a budget, concentrate of your studies. Become strong enough to leave. 

People have suggested marriage counseling, but married redpill has a lot of discussions on how to avoid this, so I wouldn't count on him agreeing. Go to counseling on your own. You are strong enough to do this, and it will be ok. 

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