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So I have to throw out the Doctor card again like I do every time someone brings this up...

Please don't take any ED medication unless medically necessary.  But I know you are going to do it anyway, so if you have to, please consult a real live physician.  

Go to your family doctor and say: "My wife and I are swingers and I need something to help at parties."  Your doctor is not going to judge you... actually he will, but he won't say it in front of you... and odds are he will write the prescription and give you advice on dosage.

Please don't show up in my emergency room with concrete pills tearing holes in your bowels.

Or... just go and relax.  It will happen with enough time and familiarity with the lifestyle.  If need be, see if both girls can play with you while the other male watches.  

Although my wife and I have had a "same room" rule for a long time, I have left the room on occasion when the other male had trouble performing.   A good couple will understand.

Or... try not to ejaculate for a few days prior to the event.
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