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I had this conversation in an nutshell with my wife: 

"My colleague is polyamorous.  My brother is non-monogamous. My friend is a swinger. I'm interested in exploring that but I want to remain faithful to you if that's what you want. Can we at least learn about it together?"

It was genuine on my part. I had been monogamous for over a decade with her and I could be monogamous my entire life if that's what she asked of me.  We spent about a year reading, watching and devouring anything non-monogamy.  I remember stumbling on https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w8SOQEitsJI and watching it with my wife in bed.  We watched movies on polyamory, documentaries on swinging, shows, anything we could get our hands on.

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To be fair it has to be done compassionately. You have to do everything in your power to prepare him for it but if he's not up for it you have to respect that.
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