text:  But since it is not to be expected that they will pursue virtue piety good sense and good breeding for their own sakes and as these attributes when they exist in fashionable life--and they _do_ exist among the most fashionable of fashionable people--are in their nature retiring and unobtrusive while all that is bad in good society is pushed into notoriety for the example of the mob we must take pains to point out at some length the difference between really "good society" and what is vulgarly called good society; that is in fact the difference between good and bad and to mark the distinguishing characteristics of the truly fashionable and the vulgarly fashionable man as wide and deep as is the gulf between a gent and a gentleman