text:  When we find that in order to be relieved from domestic cares we are to have _no home at all_; that our parental government in order to provide for our children begins by taking them away from us; when we picture to ourselves the sort of wooden melancholy figures we must become (something like the large painted dolls in a Dutch garden stuck here and there without choice or locomotion of their own ) we speedily lose all inclination to enter upon this discipline of happiness