text:  Instead of treating love as a quiet and respectable undertaking as I mean to treat it--instead of simmering your love down to a gentlemanly respect and esteem as I mean to simmer it--and waiting patiently for the natural consequences of things as I mean to wait--you must like a boy as you are have it all out in a minute set the whole house by the ears and throw yourself out of it without rhyme or reason or profit to any body