(ROOT (S (S (NP (PRP I)) (VP (VP (VBP 'm) (ADJP (JJ sure) (SBAR (S (NP (PRP$ your) (NNS parents)) (VP (VBP love) (NP (PRP you))))))) (CC and) (VP (MD would) (VP (VB love) (NP (PRP you)) (SBAR (ADVP (RB even)) (IN if) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VBD did) (RB n't) (VP (VB live) (PP (RP up) (PP (IN to) (NP (PRP$ their) (NNS expectations)))))))))))) (, ,) (S (NP (PRP They)) (VP (VBP are) (ADVP (RB probably)) (VP (VBG setting) (NP (DT the) (NN bar)) (S (ADJP (ADJP (RB as) (JJ high)) (PP (IN as) (ADJP (JJ possible))))) (, ,) (SBAR (IN so) (IN that) (S (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (MD will) (VP (VB aim) (ADVP (JJ high))))) (, ,) (S (NP (DT That)) (VP (VBZ 's) (ADJP (JJ right)))) (, ,) (CC but) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VP (VBP need) (NP (DT some) (NN confidence) (SBAR (IN that) (S (NP (PRP they)) (VP (MD 'll) (VP (VB be) (ADVP (RB there)) (S (VP (TO to) (VP (VB catch) (NP (PRP you))))))))))) (, --) (CC and) (VP (VB love) (NP (PRP you)) (NP (NP (RB just) (DT the) (JJ same)) (PRN (, --) (S (SBAR (IN if) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VP (VBP try)) (CC and) (VP (VBP fail) (S (VP (TO to) (VP (VB achieve) (NP (PDT all) (PRP$ their) (NNS goals))))))))) (, ,) (SBAR (IN Because) (S (SBAR (WHNP (WP what)) (S (NP (PRP they)) (VP (VBP 're) (VP (VBG doing) (ADVP (RB now)))))) (VP (MD could) (VP (VB lead) (PP (IN to) (NP (NP (DT some) (JJ unexpected) (NNS results)) (CC .and) (RB not) (JJ good) (NNS ones)))))))))))))))))) (. .)))
I'm sure your parents love you and would love you even if you didn't live up to their expectations, They are probably setting the bar as high as possible, so that you will aim high, That's right, but you need some confidence that they'll be there to catch you--and love you just the same--if you try and fail to achieve all their goals, Because what they're doing now could lead to some unexpected results .and not good ones.
nsubj
Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs
I
I
PRON
PRP
cop
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
be
'm
AUX
VBP
root
Degree=Pos
sure
sure
ADJ
JJ
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Person=2|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
your
your
PRON
PRP$
nsubj
Number=Plur
parent
parents
NOUN
NNS
ccomp
Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
love
love
VERB
VBP
obj
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
cc
and
and
CCONJ
CC
aux
VerbForm=Fin
would
would
AUX
MD
conj
VerbForm=Inf
love
love
VERB
VB
obj
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
advmod
even
even
ADV
RB
mark
if
if
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
aux
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin
do
did
AUX
VBD
advmod
not
n't
PART
RB
advcl
VerbForm=Inf
live
live
VERB
VB
compound:prt
up
up
ADP
RP
case
to
to
ADP
IN
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Number=Plur|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
their
their
PRON
PRP$
obl
Number=Plur
expectation
expectations
NOUN
NNS
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
nsubj
Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs
they
They
PRON
PRP
aux
Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
be
are
AUX
VBP
advmod
probably
probably
ADV
RB
parataxis
Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part
set
setting
VERB
VBG
det
Definite=Def|PronType=Art
the
the
DET
DT
obj
Number=Sing
bar
bar
NOUN
NN
advmod
as
as
ADV
RB
advmod
Degree=Pos
high
high
ADJ
JJ
mark
as
as
SCONJ
IN
advcl
Degree=Pos
possible
possible
ADJ
JJ
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
mark
so
so
SCONJ
IN
fixed
that
that
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
aux
VerbForm=Fin
will
will
AUX
MD
advcl
VerbForm=Inf
aim
aim
VERB
VB
xcomp
Degree=Pos
high
high
ADJ
JJ
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
nsubj
Number=Sing|PronType=Dem
that
That
PRON
DT
cop
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
be
's
AUX
VBZ
parataxis
Degree=Pos
right
right
ADJ
JJ
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
cc
but
but
CCONJ
CC
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
conj
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
need
need
VERB
VBP
det
some
some
DET
DT
obj
Number=Sing
confidence
confidence
NOUN
NN
mark
that
that
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs
they
they
PRON
PRP
aux
VerbForm=Fin
will
'll
AUX
MD
cop
VerbForm=Inf
be
be
AUX
VB
acl
PronType=Dem
there
there
ADV
RB
mark
to
to
PART
TO
advcl
VerbForm=Inf
catch
catch
VERB
VB
obj
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
punct
--
--
PUNCT
,
cc
and
and
CCONJ
CC
conj
VerbForm=Inf
love
love
VERB
VB
obj
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
advmod
just
just
ADV
RB
det
Definite=Def|PronType=Art
the
the
DET
DT
xcomp
Degree=Pos
same
same
ADJ
JJ
punct
--
--
PUNCT
,
mark
if
if
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
advcl
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
try
try
VERB
VBP
cc
and
and
CCONJ
CC
conj
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
fail
fail
VERB
VBP
mark
to
to
PART
TO
xcomp
VerbForm=Inf
achieve
achieve
VERB
VB
det:predet
all
all
DET
PDT
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Number=Plur|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
their
their
PRON
PRP$
obj
Number=Plur
goal
goals
NOUN
NNS
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
mark
because
Because
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
PronType=Rel
what
what
PRON
WP
nsubj
Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs
they
they
PRON
PRP
aux
Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
be
're
AUX
VBP
acl:relcl
Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part
do
doing
VERB
VBG
advmod
now
now
ADV
RB
aux
VerbForm=Fin
could
could
AUX
MD
advcl
VerbForm=Inf
lead
lead
VERB
VB
case
to
to
ADP
IN
det
some
some
DET
DT
amod
Degree=Pos
unexpected
unexpected
ADJ
JJ
obl
Number=Plur
result
results
NOUN
NNS
cc
.and
.and
CCONJ
CC
advmod
not
not
PART
RB
amod
Degree=Pos
good
good
ADJ
JJ
conj
Number=Plur
one
ones
NOUN
NNS
punct
.
.
PUNCT
.
(ROOT (NFP  ))
root
PUNCT
NFP
(ROOT (S (S (S (VP (VBG Giving) (NP (PRP you)) (S (NP (NP (DT a) (NN lecture)) (PP (IN for) (S (VP (VBG achieving) (NP (DT an) (NN A)))))) (VP (VBZ is) (NP (DT a) (JJ big) (NN mistake)))))) (, ,) (NP (PRP$ Your) (NNS parents)) (VP (MD might) (VP (VB think) (SBAR (S (NP (PRP they)) (VP (VBP 're) (VP (VBG giving) (NP (PRP you)) (NP (NP (DT the) (NN motivation)) (PP (IN for) (NP (VBG succeeding))))))))))) (, ,) (CC but) (S (S (NP (PDT all) (DT this) (NN pressure)) (VP (VBZ is) (VP (VBG making) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VB feel) (SBAR (IN like) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (MD can) (ADVP (RB never)) (VP (VB be) (ADJP (JJ good) (RB enough))))))))))) (, ,) (S (NP (DT The) (NN risk)) (VP (VBZ is) (SBAR (IN that) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (MD 'll) (VP (VB stop) (S (VP (VBG trying) (NP (NN anything)))) (SBAR (IN unless) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VBP are) (ADJP (JJ sure) (SBAR (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (MD 'll) (VP (VB be) (NP (DT the) (JJS best)) (PP (IN at) (NP (PRP it)))))))))))))))))) (. .)))
Giving you a lecture for achieving an A is a big mistake, Your parents might think they're giving you the motivation for succeeding, but all this pressure is making you feel like you can never be good enough, The risk is that you'll stop trying anything unless you are sure you'll be the best at it.
csubj
VerbForm=Ger
give
Giving
VERB
VBG
iobj
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
det
Definite=Ind|PronType=Art
a
a
DET
DT
obj
Number=Sing
lecture
lecture
NOUN
NN
mark
for
for
SCONJ
IN
acl
VerbForm=Ger
achieve
achieving
VERB
VBG
det
Definite=Ind|PronType=Art
a
an
DET
DT
obj
Number=Sing
A
A
NOUN
NN
cop
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
be
is
AUX
VBZ
det
Definite=Ind|PronType=Art
a
a
DET
DT
amod
Degree=Pos
big
big
ADJ
JJ
root
Number=Sing
mistake
mistake
NOUN
NN
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Person=2|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
your
Your
PRON
PRP$
nsubj
Number=Plur
parent
parents
NOUN
NNS
aux
VerbForm=Fin
might
might
AUX
MD
parataxis
VerbForm=Inf
think
think
VERB
VB
nsubj
Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs
they
they
PRON
PRP
aux
Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
be
're
AUX
VBP
ccomp
Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part
give
giving
VERB
VBG
iobj
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
det
Definite=Def|PronType=Art
the
the
DET
DT
obj
Number=Sing
motivation
motivation
NOUN
NN
mark
for
for
SCONJ
IN
acl
VerbForm=Ger
succeed
succeeding
VERB
VBG
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
cc
but
but
CCONJ
CC
det:predet
all
all
DET
PDT
det
Number=Sing|PronType=Dem
this
this
DET
DT
nsubj
Number=Sing
pressure
pressure
NOUN
NN
aux
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
be
is
AUX
VBZ
conj
Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part
make
making
VERB
VBG
obj
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
xcomp
VerbForm=Inf
feel
feel
VERB
VB
mark
like
like
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
aux
VerbForm=Fin
can
can
AUX
MD
advmod
never
never
ADV
RB
cop
VerbForm=Inf
be
be
AUX
VB
advcl
Degree=Pos
good
good
ADJ
JJ
advmod
enough
enough
ADV
RB
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
det
Definite=Def|PronType=Art
the
The
DET
DT
nsubj:outer
Number=Sing
risk
risk
NOUN
NN
cop
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
be
is
AUX
VBZ
mark
that
that
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
aux
VerbForm=Fin
will
'll
AUX
MD
parataxis
VerbForm=Inf
stop
stop
VERB
VB
xcomp
VerbForm=Ger
try
trying
VERB
VBG
obj
Number=Sing|PronType=Ind
anything
anything
PRON
NN
mark
unless
unless
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
cop
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
be
are
AUX
VBP
advcl
Degree=Pos
sure
sure
ADJ
JJ
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
aux
VerbForm=Fin
will
'll
AUX
MD
cop
VerbForm=Inf
be
be
AUX
VB
det
Definite=Def|PronType=Art
the
the
DET
DT
ccomp
Degree=Sup
good
best
ADJ
JJS
case
at
at
ADP
IN
obl
Case=Acc|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs
it
it
PRON
PRP
punct
.
.
PUNCT
.
(ROOT (S (CC And) (NP (DT that)) (VP (MD can) (ADVP (RB actually)) (VP (VB cause) (S (NP (PRP$ your) (NNS grades)) (VP (TO to) (VP (VB fall) (ADVP (RB downwards))))) (, ,) (S (VP (VBG creating) (NP (NP (DT the) (JJ opposite) (NN effect)) (SBAR (IN than) (NP (NP (PRP you) (NNS parents)) (ADVP (RB indeed))))))))) (. .)))
And that can actually cause your grades to fall downwards, creating the opposite effect than you parents indeed.
cc
and
And
CCONJ
CC
nsubj
Number=Sing|PronType=Dem
that
that
PRON
DT
aux
VerbForm=Fin
can
can
AUX
MD
advmod
actually
actually
ADV
RB
root
VerbForm=Inf
cause
cause
VERB
VB
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Person=2|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
your
your
PRON
PRP$
iobj
Number=Plur
grade
grades
NOUN
NNS
mark
to
to
PART
TO
xcomp
VerbForm=Inf
fall
fall
VERB
VB
advmod
downwards
downwards
ADV
RB
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
advcl
VerbForm=Ger
create
creating
VERB
VBG
det
Definite=Def|PronType=Art
the
the
DET
DT
amod
Degree=Pos
opposite
opposite
ADJ
JJ
obj
Number=Sing
effect
effect
NOUN
NN
case
than
than
ADP
IN
nmod:poss
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
nmod
Number=Plur
parent
parents
NOUN
NNS
advmod
indeed
indeed
ADV
RB
punct
.
.
PUNCT
.
(ROOT (NFP  ))
root
PUNCT
NFP
(ROOT (S (VP (VB Show) (NP (PRP$ your) (NNS parents)) (NP (NP (NP (DT this) (NN letter)) (SBAR (WHNP (WDT that)) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VBD wrote) (PP (IN to) (NP (PRP me))))))) (, ,) (VP (VB Tell) (NP (PRP them)) (SBAR (IN that) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VBP love) (NP (PRP them)) (ADVP (RB so) (RB much)))))) (, ,) (CC and) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VBP worry) (SBAR (S (NP (PRP they)) (VP (MD wo) (RB n't) (VP (VB love) (NP (PRP you)) (SBAR (IN if) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VBP do) (RB n't) (VP (VB achieve) (SBAR (WHNP (WP what)) (S (NP (PRP they)) (VP (VBP want)))))))))))))) (, ,) (CC and) (SBAR (WHADVP (WRB how)) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VBP suspect) (SBAR (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (MD may) (RB not) (VP (VB be) (PP (RB up) (PP (IN to) (NP (DT the) (NN challenge)))) (, ,) (S (VP (VB Explain) (SBAR (IN that) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VBP have) (NP (NP (JJ other) (NNS qualities)) (SBAR (WHNP (WDT that)) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VBP wish) (SBAR (S (NP (PRP they)) (VP (MD would) (VP (VB value) (NP (PRP you)) (PP (IN for) (, --) (PP (JJ such) (IN as) (NP (NP (PRP$ your) (NN kindness)) (, ,) (NP (NP (PRP$ your) (NN sense)) (PP (IN of) (NP (NN humor)))) (, ,) (NP (PRP$ your) (NN willingness) (S (VP (TO to) (VP (VP (VB try)) (CC and) (VP (VB try) (ADVP (RB again))))))) (, ,) (CC and) (ADVP (RB so) (RB on))))))))))))))))))))))))))) (. .)))
Show your parents this letter that you wrote to me, Tell them that you love them so much, and you worry they won't love you if you don't achieve what they want, and how you suspect you may not be up to the challenge, Explain that you have other qualities that you wish they would value you for--such as your kindness, your sense of humor, your willingness to try and try again, and so on.
root
Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin
show
Show
VERB
VB
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Person=2|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
your
your
PRON
PRP$
iobj
Number=Plur
parent
parents
NOUN
NNS
det
Number=Sing|PronType=Dem
this
this
DET
DT
obj
Number=Sing
letter
letter
NOUN
NN
obj
PronType=Rel
that
that
PRON
WDT
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
acl:relcl
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin
write
wrote
VERB
VBD
case
to
to
ADP
IN
obl
Case=Acc|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs
I
me
PRON
PRP
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
parataxis
Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin
tell
Tell
VERB
VB
iobj
Case=Acc|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs
they
them
PRON
PRP
mark
that
that
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
ccomp
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
love
love
VERB
VBP
obj
Case=Acc|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs
they
them
PRON
PRP
advmod
so
so
ADV
RB
advmod
much
much
ADV
RB
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
cc
and
and
CCONJ
CC
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
conj
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
worry
worry
VERB
VBP
nsubj
Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs
they
they
PRON
PRP
aux
VerbForm=Fin
will
wo
AUX
MD
advmod
not
n't
PART
RB
ccomp
VerbForm=Inf
love
love
VERB
VB
obj
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
mark
if
if
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
aux
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
do
do
AUX
VBP
advmod
not
n't
PART
RB
advcl
VerbForm=Inf
achieve
achieve
VERB
VB
obj
PronType=Rel
what
what
PRON
WP
nsubj
Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs
they
they
PRON
PRP
acl:relcl
Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
want
want
VERB
VBP
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
cc
and
and
CCONJ
CC
advmod
PronType=Int
how
how
ADV
WRB
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
advcl:relcl
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
suspect
suspect
VERB
VBP
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
aux
VerbForm=Fin
may
may
AUX
MD
advmod
not
not
PART
RB
cop
VerbForm=Inf
be
be
AUX
VB
conj
up
up
ADV
RB
case
to
to
ADP
IN
det
Definite=Def|PronType=Art
the
the
DET
DT
obl
Number=Sing
challenge
challenge
NOUN
NN
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
parataxis
Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin
explain
Explain
VERB
VB
mark
that
that
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
ccomp
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
have
have
VERB
VBP
amod
Degree=Pos
other
other
ADJ
JJ
obj
Number=Plur
quality
qualities
NOUN
NNS
obl
PronType=Rel
that
that
PRON
WDT
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
acl:relcl
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
wish
wish
VERB
VBP
nsubj
Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs
they
they
PRON
PRP
aux
VerbForm=Fin
would
would
AUX
MD
ccomp
VerbForm=Inf
value
value
VERB
VB
obj
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
case
for
for
ADP
IN
punct
--
--
PUNCT
,
case
Degree=Pos
such
such
ADJ
JJ
fixed
as
as
ADP
IN
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Person=2|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
your
your
PRON
PRP$
nmod
Number=Sing
kindness
kindness
NOUN
NN
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Person=2|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
your
your
PRON
PRP$
conj
Number=Sing
sense
sense
NOUN
NN
case
of
of
ADP
IN
nmod
Number=Sing
humor
humor
NOUN
NN
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Person=2|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
your
your
PRON
PRP$
conj
Number=Sing
willingness
willingness
NOUN
NN
mark
to
to
PART
TO
acl
VerbForm=Inf
try
try
VERB
VB
cc
and
and
CCONJ
CC
conj
VerbForm=Inf
try
try
VERB
VB
advmod
again
again
ADV
RB
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
cc
and
and
CCONJ
CC
advmod
so
so
ADV
RB
conj
on
on
ADV
RB
punct
.
.
PUNCT
.
(ROOT (NFP  ))
root
PUNCT
NFP
(ROOT (S (S (VP (VB Have) (NP (NP (DT an) (JJ honest) (NN talk)) (PP (IN with) (NP (PRP$ your) (NNS parents)))) (PP (IN about) (WHADVP (WRB how) (S (NP (NP (PDT all) (DT this) (NN pressure)) (SBAR (S (VP (TO to) (VP (VB be) (ADJP (JJ perfect))))))) (VP (VBZ is) (VP (VBG affecting) (NP (PRP you))))))))) (, ,) (S (SBAR (IN If) (S (NP (PRP he)) (VP (VBP talk)))) (VP (VBZ does) (RB n't) (VP (VB go) (NP (NP (DT the) (NN way)) (SBAR (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (VBP hope)))))))) (, ,) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (MD might) (VP (VB want) (S (VP (TO to) (VP (VB schedule) (NP (NP (DT a) (NN meeting)) (PP (IN between) (NP (NP (PRP you)) (, ,) (NP (PRP$ your) (NNS parents)) (CC and) (NP (NP (DT a) (NN counselor)) (PP (IN at) (NP (NN school))))))))))))) (, ,) (S (NP (DT The) (NN counselor)) (VP (VP (MD can) (ADVP (RB certainly)) (VP (VB help) (S (NP (PRP$ your) (NNS parents)) (VP (VB understand) (SBAR (WHADVP (WRB how)) (S (NP (NP (DT this) (NN kind)) (PP (IN of) (NP (JJ unhealthy) (NN pressure)))) (VP (MD can) (VP (VB lead) (PP (IN to) (NP (JJ negative) (NNS results))))))))))) (, ,) (CC and) (VP (VB give) (NP (PRP them)) (NP (NP (NN advice)) (PP (IN about) (SBAR (WHADVP (WRB how)) (S (VP (TO to) (ADVP (RBR better)) (VP (VB encourage) (NP (PRP you)) (S (VP (TO to) (VP (VB be) (NP (NP (DT all)) (SBAR (WHNP (WDT that)) (S (NP (PRP you)) (VP (MD can) (VP (VB be) (, ,) (PP (PP (IN at) (NP (NN school))) (CC and) (ADVP (RB outside) (PP (IN of) (NP (PRP it)))))))))))))))))))))) (. .)))
Have an honest talk with your parents about how all this pressure to be perfect is affecting you, If he talk doesn't go the way you hope, you might want to schedule a meeting between you, your parents and a counselor at school, The counselor can certainly help your parents understand how this kind of unhealthy pressure can lead to negative results, and give them advice about how to better encourage you to be all that you can be, at school and outside of it.
root
Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin
have
Have
VERB
VB
det
Definite=Ind|PronType=Art
a
an
DET
DT
amod
Degree=Pos
honest
honest
ADJ
JJ
obj
Number=Sing
talk
talk
NOUN
NN
case
with
with
ADP
IN
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Person=2|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
your
your
PRON
PRP$
nmod
Number=Plur
parent
parents
NOUN
NNS
mark
about
about
ADP
IN
advmod
PronType=Int
how
how
ADV
WRB
det:predet
all
all
DET
PDT
det
Number=Sing|PronType=Dem
this
this
DET
DT
nsubj
Number=Sing
pressure
pressure
NOUN
NN
mark
to
to
PART
TO
cop
VerbForm=Inf
be
be
AUX
VB
acl
Degree=Pos
perfect
perfect
ADJ
JJ
aux
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
be
is
AUX
VBZ
advcl
Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part
affect
affecting
VERB
VBG
obj
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
mark
if
If
SCONJ
IN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Gender=Masc|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs
he
he
PRON
PRP
advcl
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
talk
talk
VERB
VBP
aux
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
do
does
AUX
VBZ
advmod
not
n't
PART
RB
parataxis
VerbForm=Inf
go
go
VERB
VB
det
Definite=Def|PronType=Art
the
the
DET
DT
obj
Number=Sing
way
way
NOUN
NN
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
acl:relcl
Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
hope
hope
VERB
VBP
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
aux
VerbForm=Fin
might
might
AUX
MD
parataxis
VerbForm=Inf
want
want
VERB
VB
mark
to
to
PART
TO
xcomp
VerbForm=Inf
schedule
schedule
VERB
VB
det
Definite=Ind|PronType=Art
a
a
DET
DT
obj
Number=Sing
meeting
meeting
NOUN
NN
case
between
between
ADP
IN
nmod
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Person=2|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
your
your
PRON
PRP$
conj
Number=Plur
parent
parents
NOUN
NNS
cc
and
and
CCONJ
CC
det
Definite=Ind|PronType=Art
a
a
DET
DT
conj
Number=Sing
counselor
counselor
NOUN
NN
case
at
at
ADP
IN
obl
Number=Sing
school
school
NOUN
NN
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
det
Definite=Def|PronType=Art
the
The
DET
DT
nsubj
Number=Sing
counselor
counselor
NOUN
NN
aux
VerbForm=Fin
can
can
AUX
MD
advmod
certainly
certainly
ADV
RB
parataxis
VerbForm=Inf
help
help
VERB
VB
nmod:poss
Case=Gen|Person=2|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
your
your
PRON
PRP$
obj
Number=Plur
parent
parents
NOUN
NNS
xcomp
VerbForm=Inf
understand
understand
VERB
VB
obj
PronType=Int
how
how
ADV
WRB
det
Number=Sing|PronType=Dem
this
this
DET
DT
nsubj
Number=Sing
kind
kind
NOUN
NN
case
of
of
ADP
IN
amod
Degree=Pos
unhealthy
unhealthy
ADJ
JJ
nmod
Number=Sing
pressure
pressure
NOUN
NN
aux
VerbForm=Fin
can
can
AUX
MD
advcl:relcl
VerbForm=Inf
lead
lead
VERB
VB
case
to
to
ADP
IN
amod
Degree=Pos
negative
negative
ADJ
JJ
obl
Number=Plur
result
results
NOUN
NNS
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
cc
and
and
CCONJ
CC
conj
VerbForm=Inf
give
give
VERB
VB
iobj
Case=Acc|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs
they
them
PRON
PRP
obj
Number=Sing
advice
advice
NOUN
NN
case
about
about
ADP
IN
nmod
PronType=Int
how
how
ADV
WRB
mark
to
to
PART
TO
advmod
Degree=Cmp
well
better
ADV
RBR
acl
VerbForm=Inf
encourage
encourage
VERB
VB
obj
Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
mark
to
to
PART
TO
cop
VerbForm=Inf
be
be
AUX
VB
xcomp
all
all
DET
DT
obj
PronType=Rel
that
that
PRON
WDT
nsubj
Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs
you
you
PRON
PRP
aux
VerbForm=Fin
can
can
AUX
MD
acl:relcl
VerbForm=Inf
be
be
AUX
VB
punct
,
,
PUNCT
,
case
at
at
ADP
IN
obl
Number=Sing
school
school
NOUN
NN
cc
and
and
CCONJ
CC
advmod
outside
outside
ADV
RB
case
of
of
ADP
IN
conj
Case=Acc|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs
it
it
PRON
PRP
punct
.
.
PUNCT
.
I'm sure your parents love you and would love you even if you didn't live up to their expectations, They are probably setting the bar as high as possible, so that you will aim high, That's right, but you need some confidence that they'll be there to catch you--and love you just the same--if you try and fail to achieve all their goals, Because what they're doing now could lead to some unexpected results .and not good ones.  Giving you a lecture for achieving an A is a big mistake, Your parents might think they're giving you the motivation for succeeding, but all this pressure is making you feel like you can never be good enough, The risk is that you'll stop trying anything unless you are sure you'll be the best at it. And that can actually cause your grades to fall downwards, creating the opposite effect than you parents indeed.  Show your parents this letter that you wrote to me, Tell them that you love them so much, and you worry they won't love you if you don't achieve what they want, and how you suspect you may not be up to the challenge, Explain that you have other qualities that you wish they would value you for--such as your kindness, your sense of humor, your willingness to try and try again, and so on.  Have an honest talk with your parents about how all this pressure to be perfect is affecting you, If he talk doesn't go the way you hope, you might want to schedule a meeting between you, your parents and a counselor at school, The counselor can certainly help your parents understand how this kind of unhealthy pressure can lead to negative results, and give them advice about how to better encourage you to be all that you can be, at school and outside of it.