the present invention is to a system and method for connecting an outgoing message of a first party (“ sender ”) with a communications terminal of a second party (“ recipient ”) who has been identified by the first party only by visual identifying parameters pertaining to the vehicle of the second party such as the vehicle license plate number , registration decal , or other identifying information . as shown in fig1 and 4 , a first driver 10 operating a vehicle 11 observes a second driver 12 operating a vehicle 14 within his visual range and wants to send a message to the second driver . the vehicle 14 has identifying information that is visually ascertainable such as the model , vehicle color , number of doors , license plate number and state . the vehicle may have additional information that is only ascertainable from up close or at certain angles , or via certain technologies , such as a roof top identification number , vehicle identification number , taxi badge number , bluetooth , or rfid code , etc . additionally the vehicle may have other identifying information that is ascertainable through electronic broadcast or other methods . the information 16 is cumulatively the vehicle identifying information (“ vii ”). a number of reasons may occur why the first driver would want to contact the second driver . for instance , the first driver may want to tell the second driver to slow down or that his tail light is out . currently there is no method other than to flag down the driver or to beep at the driver until the driver pulls over to see why he is being flagged down . however , it is likely that the second driver will either fail to see or hear the signals , or fearing foul play of some kind will choose to ignore the signals and speed off without receiving the information which could be important or helpful to the driver . currently the only way that it is possible for the first driver (“ sender ”) to send information is if the sender recognizes the driver of the second vehicle (“ recipient ”) and already knows how to contact the recipient , or at a minimum knows the name of the recipient and can find the recipient &# 39 ; s address indexed by his name . the likelihood that the sender knows any driver at a random intersection or stretch of highway is extremely small . and the likelihood that the sender can track down contact information on the web , if it is available at all or up to date , in time to send a useful message , while simultaneously paying attention to driving , is even smaller . according to the present invention , a service is provided via a combination of telecommunications and a database which allows the first driver to easily send a message by phone , over the internet , by e - mail or similar form , to the second driver without having prior knowledge of the second driver &# 39 ; s contact information , if the second driver is registered with the inter vehicle communication system (“ ivcs ”). a central aspect of the current invention is the registration service . the registration satisfies at least two main goals of the service . first is the collection of correlation data on a user such as his name , address , e - mail address , license plate number , and / or other vehicle identification information . the second is to ascertain that the user wishes to receive information from any individual trying to forward the information to him . to initiate registration , as best shown in fig2 , a user logs onto the webpage ( fig3 ) of the inter vehicle communication services (“ ivcs ”). it is to be understood that the particular computer used at any time is irrelevant , so long as the computer is internet - capable and is logged onto a service provider such that it may send and receive e - mail addressed to the user . the webpage 42 ( fig3 ) is then presented on the computer monitor 44 . once the user is logged onto the webpage 42 , the user selects “ register vehicle ” to initiate the log on process . the “ register vehicle ” button 43 may be graphical , hypertext , hyperlinked , or otherwise programmed to send the user to the registration page . the registration page may be graphical or text based . fig2 shows a flow diagram representing the registration steps for a preferred registration process . once at the registration page , the user is queried 50 whether or not he agrees to a waiver of liability . this is preferred so that the ivcs does not have to control the content or transmission of information between the parties . if the user does not agree , then the webpage ends 52 the registration process and sends the user out of the registration process back to the main page 42 . if the user agrees to waive liability against the service , then the user negotiates a unique login name and password process 56 for future access and registration to the system . this process is well known to one of ordinary skill in the art and will not be described further . if the user signs onto the ivcs again , the user can be matched with his profile and rights by re - entering the id and password , or by automatic identification through the use of instant message id , caller id , internet cookies or other methods . after establishing the login and password , the user must be authenticated 58 both to establish the true identity of the user and to limit “ false ” users that could clog the database with extraneous information . authentication of the user may take any of several forms . most commonly , the user enters his name and address information and authenticates himself by providing a credit card number which can be verified . however , other common means are now available and will soon be implemented which could be used as well . these methods include a telecommunications verification source , an independent internet verification source , a secure authorization site , or verification by paypal ™ or a similar service provider . now that the user has been given a login identification and has been authenticated , the user can proceeds to the step 60 of entering personal data about himself and his vehicle . the following data are representative only and could include more or less data identifying the user and his vehicle : the information could also include other types of visual or non - visual identifying numbers available to certain segments of the population such as police enforcement , truckers , specialized licensee such as taxi drivers , etc . this information could include : in addition , the ivcs could issue identification numbers on decals ( 70 , fig5 ) placed in the window of the vehicle or otherwise affixed to the vehicle which identify the vehicle by a number or code 72 or mark which vehicles are members of the service . the code 72 could consist of number , letters , symbols or a combination thereof . the ivcs then stores 62 the information into a database . the database records are linked such that a search by any one field can retrieve data linked to that field . for example , a search of the license plate 555aaa can retrieve the name of the user ( e . g . “ john doe ”) who registered the particular license plate . various fields may be searched such as a entering a partial license plate along with color and type of vehicle to find a likely match , or the search may be only for the unique vehicle identification number to find the name of the registrant . or instead of recalling the registrant &# 39 ; s name , the database could present only the e - mail address of the registrant , a proxy for the e - mail address ( that is an e - mail address that forwards a message to the registrant &# 39 ; s e - mail address ) or any other data found in the database . it is a key feature of this patent that the public or private characteristic of each field of the data base is under control of the registrant . in operation , a sender 10 having access to a communications device 80 and viewing a second vehicle 14 desires to contact the driver of the second vehicle . as best shown in fig1 and 4 , the sender initiates communication via a telephone or handheld computer 80 and accesses the interface to the ivcs service and database . after pulling his vehicle off to a safe place ( not shown ), the sender then selects “ send message ” 90 from the graphical or audio menu sending him into the routine shown in the flow diagram of fig1 . the sender is then prompted 92 for the license plate number of the vehicle that he wishes to contact , including the state designator for the plate , if necessary . the sender is then prompted 94 for the text of the message to be sent . alternatively , the sender can choose from a table 96 ( fig6 ) of form messages that can be sent . the form messages may include those shown in fig6 . thus if the sender enters code “ 3 ”, the message “ share the road ” is selected to be sent to the second vehicle 86 . the message can also take the form of voice , audio , video , or other data which can be converted to a digital signal and sent to any communications terminal , though text is preferred to maintain the size of the message at a minimal byte count . the message is then prepared 95 for transmission 97 . the message includes address information identifying the intended recipient solely by the license plate number or other vehicle identifying information (“ vii ”). the ivcs database receives the message or encrypted message and reconstructs 98 the message , including the address information . the ivcs then separates out the address information including the license plate number or vii . the ivcs compares 99 the license plate number or vii to member profiles in its database . if the information matches the profile of a particular member , and the member profile authorizes the transmission of the information , then the ivcs retrieves 100 the contact information of the member 12 from the database and formats a new message addressed to the registered member 12 and containing the original message information of the first party &# 39 ; s 10 message . the message is then forwarded 102 to the second party via the designated communications methods . the message may include a return address for the sender , so that a reply can be returned merely by hitting the “ reply to ” or “ call back ” button on the message . one skilled in the art would also recognize that the message could be sent anonymously or by a non - returnable address . alternatively , the message could be a general broadcast sent by a police officer or other official sending a warning message to speeders or an informational message such as “ road closed ahead ” or other message . one skilled in the art would appreciate that the sender 10 could also be in a stationary position such as a house or yard or somewhere else where he can observe the vehicle and utilize the system according to the present invention without departing from scope and teaching of the present invention . additionally , in the case where both the sender 10 and recipient 12 are registered members of the ivcs , instead of forwarding the message as a one - way communication , an “ instant message ” screen could be presented instead allowing for the instantaneous transmission of messages between the users on a split screen . the top screen preferably showing incoming messages and the bottom screen showing messages sent or under being typed for transmission . preferably , voice communication between the two parties either through a web - based program or by hot linking the wireless communications systems supporting the modems of the computer browsers , the two parties can talk directly to each other . the preferred method of communication used will be dictated by the technology currently available — modem speed , encryption methods , integration of computers and telephones , and standards currently in effect . revenue for the project will be provided preferably in two levels . a low level service will be available free of charge to the subscriber . the fees will be provided instead through advertisers to the service and links to travel related services or other marketers as appropriate . this level might only allow a subscriber to receive only e - mail . by paying a subscription fee , the user would have access to other services such as filtering ( based on key words or message codes ) or voice communication , private chat or instant messaging , or other services . it is to be understood that the present invention is not limited to the sole embodiment described above , but encompasses any and all embodiments within the scope of the following claims .