according to an embodiment , a coupling system 100 is shown in fig1 . coupling system 100 may include a male portion 110 , a female portion 120 , a retaining member 130 , and a locking member 140 . an alternate locking member 150 may also be included in the system 100 . according to embodiments , male portion 110 may include an insert portion 112 , a boss 114 , and a hose receiving portion 116 . female portion 120 may include a receptacle portion 122 , threads 124 , a ridge 125 , a wrenching section 126 , locking groove 127 , and connection portion 128 . retaining member 130 may include threads 132 , an abutment portion 134 , retainer orifice ( s ) 136 , a lip 137 , knurling 138 and a wrenching section 139 . insert portion 112 , of male portion 110 may be capable of generally coupling with receptacle portion 122 of female portion 120 in a non - interference - type fit . boss 114 may then generally provide a stop or may be adjacent to or abut female portion 120 . there may be created a seal between male portion 110 and female portion 120 , preferably between their cylindrical surfaces . this may allow fluid to pass therebetween . female portion 120 may also include a seal groove 129 , which may be capable of retaining a seal such as an o - ring ( not shown ). this may be one configuration which may enhance the sealing ability of the coupling system 100 . alternately , a seal groove capable of retaining a seal such as an o - ring may be included on male insert portion 112 . optionally , dust seal ( s ) ( not shown ) may be included , for example near ridge 125 or groove 127 or near abutment portion 134 , for example , in order to keep foreign matter out of the threads . it should be understood that ridge 125 , aspects of groove 127 , and lip 137 are optional and may be omitted or reconfigured as desired provided the requisite locking functionality is present . retaining member 130 may then generally slide over male portion 110 , such that threads 132 of retaining member 130 may engage corresponding threads 124 of female portion 120 . male portion 110 may generally extend through retaining member 130 . boss 114 of male portion 110 may then be in contact with abutment portion 134 of retaining member 130 . this may secure together male portion 110 , female portion 120 and retaining member 130 , and may enhance the sealing between male portion 110 and female portion 120 . once male portion , female portion 120 and retaining member 130 are generally secured together , extension ( s ) 142 of locking member 140 may extend through retainer orifice ( s ) 136 of retaining member 130 and engage female portion 120 at locking groove 127 such that retaining member may not uncouple from female portion 120 . retaining member 130 may be hand tightened , but if there is an application that requires the male portion 110 and female portion 120 to be locked against a possible live swivel , torque may be applied to retaining member 130 similar to other threaded connection systems and methods . for a faster connection , multiple - start threads may be used . according to embodiments , locking member 140 may include an indication portion 146 which may be made to be a visible color such as red , to indicate the coupling system 100 is engaged . this may be used as a safety indicator , and / or lockout to indicate if the coupling system is engaged and able to withstand pressure . furthermore , locking member 140 may be of different configurations , such as locking member 150 . locking member 150 may include an extrusion 152 which may be capable of extending through a retainer orifice 136 to engage locking groove 127 of female portion 120 to generally secure retaining member 130 to other portions of the system . locking member 150 may also include indication portion 154 which be made to be a visible color and / or configuration such as red , to indicate the coupling system 100 is engaged , for safety and / or other reasons . in various embodiments , the locking member may be in the form of a special clip , staple , a snap - in button , or a wire threaded through the nut . this locking feature may not be able to be applied until the threads are fully - engaged , so it may be very clear by visual inspection as to whether a connection is properly made . in another embodiment shown in fig5 , holes 236 may be drilled or formed roughly tangent to locking groove 127 within the retaining member 230 . a plastic or metal wire tie 240 , or other locking member may be threaded through the holes 236 , engaging both locking groove 127 and a locking groove in retaining member 230 ( not visible ) thereby keeping the retaining member from backing off and providing a visual indication of a proper connection . the wire cable tie 240 shown in fig5 is in the form of a cable seal which may be designed for single use ( cut to remove ) or multiple use . seal or tag 246 provides further visual indication of a proper connection and may be labeled for various identification or record - keeping purposes . likewise other kinds of metal or plastic ties or seals may be utilized which may be for single or multiple use , with or without an identification tag , in an embodiment , coupling system 100 may be a coarse - thread connector which may be hand - tightened , having a locking feature that keeps retaining member 130 from backing off , and may further provide a visual indication of a proper connection via indication portion 146 , 154 , 246 of locking member 140 , 150 , 240 . because the seal is generally along a cylinder , or between two cylinders , preload may not be required in the retaining member 130 , and it may not have a torque load requirement . thus hand - tightening is sufficient to fully engage the coupling and withstand the design pressure . once tightened , a visible locking feature ( locking member 140 , 150 , 240 ) may be applied . therefore , this coupling system 100 may provide a visual indicator of a proper connection . an advantage is a threaded retaining member 130 , which provides a mechanical advantage to draw the sealing cylinder in and out of female portion 120 for connection and removal . male portion 110 may include a hose receiving portion 116 , which may be capable of receiving , and coupling to , a hose , manifold or other system or apparatus . in the embodiment of attaching to a hose , hose receiving portion 116 may be generally in the form of a barb or other configuration capable of coupling to a hose . portion 116 may also include a wrenching section to allow torque to be applied to the male portion 110 . female portion 120 may also include a connection portion 128 which may be capable of coupling to a hose or manifold or other suitable structure . it will be appreciated that connection portion 128 may be of many forms to couple to various hoses and other structures . female portion 120 may also include a wrenching portion 126 to allow torque to be applied to the female portion 120 . retaining member 130 may also include knurling 138 or similar surface modification , which may enhance gripping and turning of retaining member 130 , especially during hand tightening . retaining member 130 may also include wrenching adaptations such as a hex , holes , slots , flats , or orifice ( s ) 139 as shown , which are capable of receiving a wrench or other tool used to tighten / loosen and / or generally apply torque to said retaining member . fig2 shows coupling system 100 with retaining member 130 slid over male portion 110 , before coupling to female portion 110 . fig3 shows coupling system 100 fully engaged with retaining member 130 coupling together with male portion 120 and female portion 110 , with locking member 140 extending through retainer orifices 136 and engaging locking groove 127 ( not shown ). fig4 is a cut away view of a portion of coupling system 100 , according to an embodiment . as can be seen in this embodiment , retaining member 130 includes threads 132 which threadingly engage threads 124 of female portion 120 . this configuration does not allow retaining member 130 to unthread from female portion 120 when locking member 140 is in place between lip 137 and the side of groove 127 near the threads 124 . insert portion 112 of male portion 110 , generally fits within , and is coupled to , receptacle portion 124 of female portion 120 . a first side of boss 114 may generally abut and / or be adjacent to female portion 110 . a second side of boss 114 may abut or generally be adjacent to abutment portion of retaining member 130 . the threading of retaining member 130 with female portion 120 may move and / or generally secure male portion 110 to female portion 120 and retaining member 130 , via abutment portion 134 . another embodiment of the invention is shown in fig5 to illustrate some of the variations possible within the scope of the invention . coupling system 200 includes male portion 210 , coupled to female portion 220 , held together by retaining member 230 . as discussed above , locking member 240 is in the form of a cable seal with extending cable 242 threaded through tangential holes 236 with seal or tag 246 preventing unwanted removal and as additional visual indication the coupling is secure . wrenching section 239 on retaining member 230 takes the form of a series of notches which may be suitable for use of a spanner wrench . wrenching section 226 on female portion 220 takes the form of a hex nut . retainer orifices in the form of tangential holes 236 are also shown on retaining member 230 in fig6 . fig6 shows an embodiment with male portion 310 having a hose receiving portion which includes hose barb 312 and ferrule 317 . retaining member 230 may be slid over male portion into the position shown . then ferrule 317 may be staked or swaged or otherwise attached in place as shown . the rear face 234 of retaining member 230 is in fairly close proximity to and opposes the front face 334 of the ferrule . thus , when retaining member 230 is unthreaded from a coupled female portion , rear face 234 will abut front face 334 and thereby draw the male portion out of the female portion thus disconnecting the coupling . other arrangements for connection to pipes , hose or manifolds may be envisioned which provide the abutment needed to draw the male portion out of the female portion when the retaining member is unthreaded , such as a two - piece , stake - collar and ferrule arrangement . on the other hand , the hose receiving portion could be threaded for receiving a hydraulic fitting with mating threads . generally , if the threads are male threads on the hose receiving portion , any mating female fitting that connects via such male threads on the connection portion may have a face equivalent to face 334 which can abut the end 234 of the retaining portion and thus facilitate disconnection . as an alternate to relying on connected fittings , there may instead be a c - clip or other retaining clip or feature attached to the male portion which is specifically adapted to abut the end 234 of retaining portion 230 in order to facilitate disconnection of the coupling . fig7 shows an embodiment of the invention in which the external threads which correspond to the retaining member are on the male portion . in fig7 , coupling system 400 includes male portion 410 , female portion 420 and retaining member 430 . female portion 420 has receptacle portion 422 . insert portion 412 of male portion 410 fits into receptacle portion 422 with o - ring 425 housed in seal retaining groove 429 on insert portion 412 . the 0 - ring thus provides a seal between the male and female portions . retaining member 430 has internal threads 432 which mate with external threads 424 on male portion 410 . retaining member 430 has abutment portion 434 which abuts boss 414 when slipped over female portion 420 . thus when retaining member 430 is threadingly engaged with the threads 424 on male portion 410 , the male portion may be drawn into sealing engagement with female portion 420 . when fully engaged , locking member 240 , shown as a cable tie , may be inserted through holes or openings or orifices in retaining member 430 and thus threaded around the coupling in a passageway defined by or between groove 427 on male portion 410 and lip 437 on retaining member 430 . note that features shown for other embodiments may be adapted for this embodiment and vice versa , including seal placement ( s ) and type ( s ), hose receiving portion ( s ), connection portion ( s ), wrenching section ( s ) or portion ( s ), knurling , orifice style , locking member type , and indication portion . in use , to connect an embodiment of the inventive coupling system , the retaining member may be hand - tightened to pull the male sealing surface into the female with the seal there between . to keep the retaining member from backing off , the cable tie or other locking member is inserted through holes in the retaining member into a groove in the female ( or male , depending on the embodiment ) and locked . to disconnect , the cable may be cut and / or pulled out and removed so that the retaining member can be loosened . unlike conventional staple - lock mine couplings , for example , the cable or locking member does not carry the pressure load . the threads carry the pressure load and therefore the design is capable of much higher pressure rating than a staple - lock coupling of similar diameter . if the retaining member happens to back off enough during operation to resist the locking member pulling out , simply tightening the retaining member farther will eliminate this resistance . once the cable ( or other locking device ) is removed , loosening or unthreading the retaining member may separate the fitting . if necessary , a spanner wrench or other suitable tool may be used to turn the retaining member and release the fitting . the threaded retaining member may even provide enough mechanical advantage to overcome the resistance of debris and corrosion present at assembly or disassembly by hand . coupling system 100 , 200 , 400 or other embodiment of the invention may overcome many issues of other threaded connections , such as assuring adequate preload in the retaining member to overcome the pressure load , easily damaged threads , and having no visual indication of complete connection . it also overcomes issues in non - threaded designs , such as high insertion force , unprotected seals , poor impulse performance , and installation of heavy locking devices such as hammer unions , clamshells or thick staples . the advantages of the invention include the ease of hand tightening or loosening , the greater safety factor of threads over conventional staples , no torque required to seal and hold , and less mass required to achieve a given rating . furthermore , this system may be used with lower pressure systems . this may allow the use of less expensive materials and configurations . the system may be configured to connect hose , pipes , fittings , manifolds or the like . systems disclosed herein may be used with , but are not limited to , 2 - 4 ″ chemical hose , and / or with volume control regulators . the inventive coupling system offers advantages over hammer unions in the oil field industry , including those used for cementing hose , slim hole rotary hose , and the like . it should be noted that other types of locking methods may optionally be used instead of the preferred locking member described above . for example , the locking member could be a c - clip inserted in a suitable groove adjacent a suitable flange . the locking method could be a frictional engagement , or it could be a bayonet style engagement or a latch , or multiple bayonets or latches . although the present disclosure and its advantages have been described in detail , it should be understood that various changes , substitutions , and alterations can be made herein without departing from the scope of the disclosure as defined by the appended claims . moreover , the scope of the present application is not intended to be limited to the particular embodiments of the process , machine , manufacture , composition of matter , means , methods , and steps described in the specification . as one of ordinary skill in the art will readily appreciate from the disclosure of the present disclosure , processes , machines , manufacture , compositions of matter , means , methods , or steps , presently existing or later to be developed that perform substantially the same function or achieve substantially the same result as the corresponding embodiments described herein may be utilized according to the present disclosure . accordingly , the appended claims are intended to include within their scope such processes , machines , manufacture , compositions of matter , means , methods , or steps . the disclosure disclosed herein may suitably be practiced in the absence of any element that is not specifically disclosed herein .