Article in English: If you think that your parents might already suspect your sexual orientation and that they will likely be supportive, then move forward with making a plan. If you think this will be a complete shock to your parents, then consider how they might react.  If you think your parents might react negatively, you should wait to tell them. Consider questions such as whether your parents make homophobic comments, whether you would be crushed if they reacted negatively, or whether you are financially dependent upon them. If any of these thoughts leads to a "yes," then it is probably better to wait until you are independently living and supporting yourself or until you feel more prepared with a stronger support system.  Listen to your instinct when deciding whether to tell them. There is a difference between feeling nervous to tell supportive parents and feeling afraid to tell reactionary parents. Remember that your parents think they know everything about you because they raised you. If they are unsuspecting, then take this into account as you consider how to tell them.  Drop hints if you want to get a better sense of how they might respond. If coming out could put you in danger, it might not be the right time. There are different ways that you can go about doing this, such as a face-to-face conversation or with a letter.  Consider your family dynamic as you contemplate how to tell them, and consider how you feel most comfortable communicating. Explaining everything in a letter might feel easier for you and might give them more time to digest the news. On the contrary, perhaps your family likes to talk things through, or perhaps you express yourself better verbally. Stick to your decision once you make it. This will prevent you from delaying telling them or being disorganized when you do so. Once you have decided how you will tell them, the next step is to build a support system of people who will always be there for you.  If you have relatives, friends, teachers, or counselors who already know that you are gay,...

Summary in Indonesian:
Pertimbangkan sebesar apa kemungkinan orang tua akan menerima pengakuan Anda. Tentukan cara Anda memberi tahu mereka. Kumpulkan dukungan yang Anda butuhkan untuk memberi tahu orang tua. Carilah buku, pamflet, atau situs web tentang komunitas LGBT untuk diberikan kepada orang tua Anda. Risetlah beberapa pertanyaan yang akan orang tua Anda tanyakan. Buatlah rencana cadangan jika percakapan tidak berjalan baik dan Anda masih tinggal bersama orang tua. Buatlah rencana cadangan jika percakapan berujung buruk dan Anda sudah bisa hidup mandiri. Pilihlah waktu dan tempat yang tepat untuk berterus terang.