Do you tend to stay in on the weekends, turning to the same favorite shows and take-out places over and over? The comfort marriage provides is nice, but it's important to add some variety, too. Taking vacations, weekend trips or even short day trips to places you've never been is a great way to spark interesting conversations and find new reasons to laugh together.    Plan a trip with activities you think both of you will enjoy. If you both love wine, go wine tasting at a new winery, and buy a few bottles to take home so you'll remember what a nice time you had. If you and your spouse are adventurous types, plan a trip that takes you far from your comfort zone. For example, you could visit a country where people speak another language and have fun finding your way around a foreign city together. Or for a weekend or day trip, instead of driving to the next town over, try riding your bikes instead, or taking a rafting trip. Do something that will help you feel like a team again. It's fun and sexy to see your spouse trying out your hobby for the sake of love and adventure. If your spouse is a French film buff but you like to spend your free time playing sports, give up a game night to go see a film that you can talk about together afterward. In exchange, ask your spouse to join in for a pick-up game or play a singles tennis match with you sometime. You'll get to see each other feeling happy and in your respective elements, and that's definitely a recipe for spicing up a marriage.  You don't have to completely adopt your partner's hobby; maybe you hate subtitles, or you really dislike having tennis balls flying at your head. Just giving it an honest try will make your partner feel good. And no complaining! Take pleasure in watching your partner enjoy his or her hobby. People only choose hobbies that make them happy. Your partner's happiness should make you happy, too! Do work, school, your kids' needs, and finances tend to be the subject of most of your conversations? Falling into the rut of never talking about...

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