Yang terpenting, pilihlah seorang gadis yang membuat Anda ingin terus bersamanya. Pilihlah kekasih yang menghargai dirinya sendiri. Prioritasikan ketertarikan emosional, tetapi jangan mengabaikan ketertarikan secara fisik. Pilihlah seorang gadis dengan selera humor yang baik. Pilihlah seorang gadis yang mandiri dan percaya diri ketika membicarakan minatnya. Pilihlah gadis yang menginginkan hal yang sama dari hubungan yang Anda berdua jalani.

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This may seem like a no-brainer, but it's something all too many forget! Though almost every relationship will have difficult patches, relationships should bring happiness to both partners (most of the time). Your girlfriend should be someone that you know can bring out positive emotions in you. If the girl you're considering starting a relationship with makes you wish you were somewhere else or causes you to become tense or unhappy often, you'll want to seriously reconsider. Ask yourself the following questions:  Can I be myself around this person, or do I have to put up a "nice" front? Is this someone I naturally enjoy talking to? Do we seem to enjoy the time we spend together? We all know how the old saying goes: "You can't love someone else if you don't love yourself." Heed this advice - pick a girlfriend who loves herself and has a healthy self-image. Such girls are likely to be emotionally stable and have reasonable, realistic priorities that are compatible with a relationship. How do you know if a girl loves herself? Usually, a person with a healthy amount of self-respect will have some (if not all) of the following qualities:  Proper hygiene habits Confidence in her own abilities A relaxed, genuine demeanor An ability to find humor in herself without being overly self-deprecating If you don't feel a real emotional connection to your girlfriend, it doesn't really matter how pretty she is - your relationship is going to be a dull one. You'll want to choose a girlfriend primarily based on an emotional attraction, rather than a physical one. Ask yourself: "Would I still want to be in a relationship with this girl if she got a rash on her face?" If so, you probably have an attraction that's more than skin deep! This being said, there's absolutely nothing wrong with cherishing your S.O.'s beauty, so if you have an emotional connection with someone that you're also physically attracted to, all the better! Physical attraction is certainly one ingredient in a healthy relationship - it's just not the most...