First, read the English article below.

No, not all women are the same, but it is probably safe to assume that your wife wants you to at least occasionally just sit down and listen to her vent, complain, brag, gossip, revel, question, or simply talk.  Dr. John Gottman advises spouses to "turn toward each other" in a more figurative sense, but it is also a good first step for truly listening.  Look at your wife when she wants to talk.  Keep eye contact.  Turn off the TV.  Put away your phone.  Listen more than you speak, unless she's seeking a response.  It is always a good feeling to know that someone is truly interested in what you have to say, however mundane or ridiculous it may be. Listen without trying to fix everything. Sometimes your wife, like everyone else, just wants a sounding board.  She might want to vocalize and work through a problem with a co-worker, for instance, and what she needs is a supportive face to look at, not for you to call the office the next day to "set things straight."  Being attentive is often the best way to be supportive, which is critical to solving problems that originate both inside and outside the marriage. The prevailing stereotype remains that of the stoic, closed-off husband and the wife who is eager to use her "maternal instinct" to care for him (if he would only "let her in").  However accurate (or wildly inaccurate) this image may be in your situation, letting your guard down and letting your wife into your life more will almost certainly be interpreted as a sign of love.  If she wants to baby you a little when you're sick, let her (without taking advantage); if she wants to know how you feel about your mother's death, talk to her about it.  Let her be your rock, as you try to be hers.  Never be afraid to cry; this is a sign of strength, not weakness. Take it upon yourself to show the bravery to be open, honest, and vulnerable. She didn't marry you because you were perfect. She doesn't always want a knight in shining armor; most of the time at least, she wants you to strip away your armor. Give her the... 

Now, please write a short abstract for it in Indonesian. Abstract:
Dengarkan dia, dan usahakan untuk benar-benar menyimak. Cobalah untuk bersikap cukup kuat untuk tampil rapuh dan bersedia untuk dibantu. Jadilah contoh bagi anak-anak kalian. Katakan "aku cinta kamu" dengan sungguh-sungguh.