One of the major reasons why couples have issues is that one person feels the other person is not devoting enough time and energy in the relationship. Make time for your partner and make sure he makes time for you by sitting down and coming up with outings and activities you can do together. Focus on creating quality time, where you both have a chance to interact, talk, laugh, and work together in a fun way. This could be something as simple as a special night out at a nice restaurant or a hike together to your favorite outdoor spot. Try to incorporate activities that both of you enjoy doing and be willing to try new or different things together. This will keep the time you spend together exciting and engaging for you both. If you are both very busy with your individual careers and schedules, you may want to both choose one day a week that is your official date night. This means that no matter the work event or commitment, you are both only doing something together, alone, on that night. Having a set date night will make it easier to plan outings and activities and give you both a good sense of when you will get the chance to spend one on one time together. Once you agree to date night, avoid skipping or missing date night. Committing to this time means you are willing to put aside other possible activities for your partner and follow through on your agreed quality time together. If you are looking to get your partner more engaged in your relationship and renew your commitment to each other, plan a surprise date in a unique setting. This could be laser tag, bowling, or something more extreme, like a boat ride on the river or a dogsledding in the mountains. Think of a date idea that combines something your partner loves with something he may not expect or will be a pleasant surprise.

TL;DR in Indonesian:
Gagaslah acara tamasya berkualitas bersama-sama. Buatlah komitmen untuk berkencan sekali dalam seminggu. Kejutkan pasangan Anda dengan kencan yang unik.