A thought can change a feeling. In order to feel better, pick a better thought. You may notice the high frequency of your negative thoughts, which will show you there is room for improvement. Focus on generating positive thoughts to replace the negative ones.  If you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts about yourself, tell yourself, "Stop!" Then replace the thought with something positive such as, "I am filling my mind with positive ideas that will change my beliefs. I am changing my life." For example, if you have the thought “There is no point in trying, because I know I will fail,” change it to something like, “Failure is an opportunity to learn. If I don’t get it right this time, I can always try again.” Be the first person to congratulate yourself on any job well done. Try to see your positive traits in the way others see you.  Question your self-perception. You may be harshly judging yourself, with no supporting evidence. Even if you think taking out the trash is not a big deal, give yourself an “at-a-boy” for getting the task completed. It doesn’t matter how big or small, you must honor yourself by recognizing the things you can do rather than focus on those things you believe you cannot. If you're struggling with severe apathy, it's unwise to dive straight into the deep end of new responsibilities and ambitions. Make small changes at first and gradually work toward more significant responsibilities. Each step you take forward is a step away from apathy. For example, if you feel like all you can do in a day is wake up and make it to the couch, it's probably not realistic to decide to run a marathon. Cut off your hair, or make a drastic change in your appearance. Getting a haircut can be a loud statement or a quiet rebellion against apathy. This can be extremely effective at giving yourself a small but significant change to jolt yourself out of your routine. If you’ve been sleeping a lot, then go to bed at a reasonable time and wake up 7-8 hours later. Several studies indicate that optimal sleep...

TL;DR in Indonesian:
Ubah pikiran Anda. Hentikan perilaku membenci diri sendiri dan pikiran tidak layak dengan mengambil tindakan. Ambil tindakan dengan memulai dari langkah-langkah kecil. Ubah penampilan Anda. Ubah waktu tidur dan waktu bangun Anda. Olahragakan tubuh dan pikiran anda. Awasi pola makan. Buatlah perubahan besar dalam pikiran dan tindakan. Gantilah pekerjaan Pindahlah dari tempat tinggal Anda saat ini. Akhiri hubungan yang negatif. Usahakan untuk selalu sibuk.