Bicaralah dengan si dia tentang kepuasan apa yang dia dapatkan dari hubungan ini. Tanyakan kepada diri sendiri apakah Anda ingin melanjutkan hubungan tersebut jika Anda berdua memiliki tujuan akhir yang berbeda. Hentikan sejenak hubungan tersebut jika Anda berdua tidak bisa mencapai kesepakatan.

I'm interested in that, but I only have a few mins. Can you give me at most the first 500 characters of a detailed explanation in English about that?
If he or she only talks about your appearance or your sex life, that points to it being primarily a case of sexual attraction. Even if you might feel love, you have to consider the other person’s feelings and ideas about the connection you share. Discussions like these can be uncomfortable, but they can also help clarify how you both feel.  "I really like hanging out with you and I hope you like hanging out with me. What do you have the most fun doing together?" "I don’t want a big serious conve