First, read the English article below.

If you’re really in love, then you shouldn't hold back when you talk to your loved one. This doesn't mean that you should tell them every little thing that’s bothering you or nag them because you feel like you’re being honest, but it does mean that you should be comfortable enough in your relationship to be able to bring up something that’s bothering you, or sharing your true feelings, without feeling like it’s not worth it because your loved one will be bored, angry, or just won’t care.  If you can tell your partner exactly how you feel about something without worrying that you sound immature or stupid, then you may be falling in love. If you're okay with cracking a joke, no matter how corny it may be, then you and your loved one are on the same page. If you’re really in love, then you and your loved one don’t have to have deep discussions about the meaning of life or about the status of your relationship all the time. A lot of love lies in the little things, and most of your conversation won’t be earth-shattering or celestial, and that’s perfectly okay.  If you’re really in love, then you should be happy dissecting the latest episode of Breaking Bad with your loved one, or making small talk during a baseball game, and feeling that it’s enough. If you've gotten off the phone with your loved one after laughing the whole time and wondering, "What did we just talk about?" then you may be in love. If you’re truly in love, then you should be comfortable enough to let your loved one see the real you, even if that means showing your less-than-flattering side. If everything you say is devised to make your significant other like you or want to be with you even more, then you’re not comfortable with them enough to be really in love.  If you’re willing to open up and talk about your past mistakes or grievances, then you’re more likely to be in love. You don't have to tell the person you love every last thing that has caused you pain, but you should be able to feel better after mentioning it. If you're in love, you'll... 

Now, please write a short abstract for it in Indonesian. Abstract:
Lihatlah sejauh mana Anda berani mengungkapkan pendapat di depan si dia. Lihatlah sejauh mana Anda bahagia menghabiskan waktu berjam-jam mengobrol santai dengannya. Lihatlah apakah Anda merasa nyaman mengungkapkan kelemahan diri kepada orang yang Anda cintai. Lihatlah apakah Anda selalu menemukan hal-hal baru untuk memujinya. Jika jatuh cinta, Anda akan melihat sang pujaan hati dari keindahan hatinya, bukan hanya fisiknya.