A girl likes to have confirmation that you are interested in her, and following up after messaging or chatting in a chat room gives her that reassurance.  When you get busy with your personal life and cannot respond for a period of time, send her a quick message to let her know you are still thinking about her and will respond more in-depth when you have more time. If you are trying to chat with the same girl in an online chat room on more than one occasion, be on the lookout for her username. When you feel comfortable, ask her for her email address for more private and consistent communication. Continue to flirt with her online until you feel comfortable enough to take the online relationship to the next step. If you are able to meet with this girl in person (online chat rooms, for example, connect you with people from all over the world), then choose a public place to do so in order to make her feel comfortable.  Dinner dates feel intimidating to some women for first dates, so an afternoon date might be more her style. Choose an activity that is laid back and will not add to the pressure of a first date. For example, seeing a local band play or painting clay pottery gives you something else to focus on to take pressure off of making conversation the entire time. Be willing to accommodate whatever time she suggests, as well as ideas that she has for what you can do on your date. Show her that you welcome and appreciate her input and sense of security. If you ask her out on a date and she turns you down because she still feels uncomfortable, give it more time if you are genuinely interested in her.  Taking more time to get to know her and make her feel comfortable will result in a date when she is ready. Suggest moving your conversation to personal email or phone numbers via text messaging or calling. This gives you a new way to communicate with her and help her feel more comfortable. Show her that you are willing to wait for her by continuing to chat with her, taking an interest in her life and her story,...

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