Article in English: If you don't love yourself, your lack of confidence and self-esteem may bleed into the interactions you have with your husband. Confidence is an attractive quality, and conversely, a lack of confidence can make you seem unattractive. Tell yourself that you are sexy, attractive, and interesting. Focus on your favorite qualities about yourself, and remember that your husband fell in love with you for a good reason.  Speaking confidently and having a confident, upright posture will help you demonstrate your self-esteem. If you are unable to remove the negative thoughts you have about yourself, consider taking up practices like meditation or therapy for a little extra help. Being able to care for yourself emotionally can help you maintain a more positive attitude. If you depend on your husband completely, you are more likely to feel critical when your husband fails to make you feel better. This criticism could push him further away. In order to work on being your own person, you can:  Spend time with your close friends and family Work on a hobby Take a class in something you are interested in Don't take your husband for granted. Value the time you spend together, and seek out quality time with him. Schedule dates or other ways to check in throughout the day. Talk to one another on the phone, Skype, or text at least once a day in order to display that he is in your thoughts. It can be hard to focus on a marriage when you have kids, careers, homes, and other responsibilities. Be sure that you don't have too much on your plate if you want to concentrate on attracting your husband. If you find the stress building up, find someone who can help share the load. This will also help reduce the likelihood of nagging, which is a buzzkill. You could:  Ask your husband to do more chores Ask a friend to help you out around the house Hire a babysitter to give you some relief Use a cleaning service to take care of chores at home Remaining curious about your husband is key to revitalizing your marriage. Don't act like he is...

Summary in Indonesian:
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