You need space from your ex to get over them, so establish a “no contact” rule. You’re not doing this to create tension or make the person miss you—you’re doing it to give yourself the opportunity to heal and start fresh without them.  If cutting contact with your ex is too difficult, get accountability and ask friends to help you stay away. You might also temporarily move your ex’s phone number and email addresses to your block list. You can always unblock them once you’re in a better place. If you share kids or pets or study/work in the same place as your ex, it may not be possible to totally cut contact. In this case, limit contact to discussions relating to the immediate context only, such as discussing a work project. If your ex wants to stay in touch with you, ask them to respect your desire to cut off contact for a while. If they continue to contact you, consider changing your phone number and email address. Checking your ex’s feed or seeing them with new people won’t help you move on. Stop following them so you can focus on yourself for a while. This also helps you avoid the temptation of reaching out to your ex.  You can always re-follow them later. If your mutual friends bring up your ex on social media a lot, consider unfollowing them as well. If your social circles overlap too much, it might help to take a break from social media altogether. Bumping into your ex at the local bar or cafe may not only make things awkward, but you may even experience a setback in your healing. Try to establish new hangouts that aren’t places they go or places you used to visit together. If you do happen to run into your ex, keep the interaction brief. A curt “hi” before ducking out is appropriate. If there’s no way to avoid your ex and seeing them all the time is causing you a lot of distress, look into the possibility of putting geographical distance between you and them. Even if moving to a completely new location is not feasible for you, you might be able to find a place that is farther away in the same town. If...

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