Being in love is about connecting with another person emotionally, caring for their happiness as if it was your own. When you love someone their fate becomes intertwined with yours. You may feel sad when they cry, get angry when they are hurt, and celebrate with their successes.  If you can't wait to share good news with them or hear about their day, love is likely growing.  This does not, however, mean that love is completely selfless. You should feel the same connection coming back to you as well. You do not have to like all of the same things in order to love someone. In many cases, having differences allows your love to grow, as you share and teach each other parts about yourself that the other person never knew. Disliking someone's taste in music, for example, does not mean that you cannot love them. Judgement, anger, or disrespect for each other's interests, however, may prevent love from really growing. When you allow someone to be exactly as they are, without any belief that they aren’t good enough, without any belief that they would be “better” if they were different, you're in love. Loving someone is about accepting them as they are, loving them despite, or even because of, their faults. No one is perfect, but they don't have to be for you to love them.  You may even learn more about yourself with this person, as loving them helps reveal truths about you that you might not have noticed before.  If your love is dependent upon the other person acting and speaking how you want, then your feelings are conditional. We often confuse this with love, but this is just positive thoughts about someone. This is loving what a person says or does, not loving them. This is not just a turn of phrase: being in love actually changes your brain chemistry to "reward" you when they are in your life. If you are constantly thinking about them, missing them when they are gone, and finding ways to stay in contact with each other, love is likely blooming.  This should be different, however, from obsession, when you think of...

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Ketahui bahwa mencintai seseorang berarti terhubung secara emosional dengan perasaan orang lain dan tidak hanya memikirkan diri sendiri. Ketahui bahwa dua orang bisa saling mencintai meskipun minatnya berbeda. Jadilah diri sendiri Ketahui bahwa Anda mungkin akan mengalami adiksi jika tidak bertemu dengannya. Ketahui bahwa mencintai seseorang bukan berarti tidak pernah bertengkar. Bertanyalah kepada diri sendiri apa arti cinta menurut Anda. Ketahui bahwa cinta membutuhkan waktu agar bisa tumbuh. Ingatlah bahwa cinta tidak selalu romantis.