Find comfort from the people who love and care for you the most. Once you’re ready to be out and about, or at least starting to feel like holing up in your basement and listening to The Cranberries may not be the best idea, make a point of spending time with your loved ones. Help your mom do some chores or go to the movies with your best friends. Invite an old friend out for lunch. You don’t have to go out to a huge party or a large family event if that makes you feel overwhelmed.  Start small, find the comfort in spending time with the people who know you the most, and gradually start to spend more time with the people you love. You may even feel like you should spend more time socializing than usual. That’s great, if you’re up to it – spending more time with your friends will make you forget the guy faster. It’s simple. The more time you spend doing what you love, the happier you’ll be. Maybe you’ve let your favorite hobby or interest fall by the wayside; maybe you’ve lost sight of your dreams. Well, pick those up and start putting in extra hours working on whatever you really care about – whether it’s a play, your plan to be an actress, or the beginning of your career as a teacher –  and you’ll feel better much more quickly.* Get lost in the thing that you love and see how much more quickly you forget the guy. If you don’t have a passion, this is the perfect time to find your passion. Use some of your free time to try something completely new and out of your comfort zone and see if you’ve found a new interest that captivates you. You may dread all of the time that you have to spend by yourself because it makes you feel even more prone to feelings of sadness and longing, but you have to change that. If you want to feel whole again, then you have to cherish the time you spend by yourself instead of waiting for your next social or work engagement. Though it’s good to plan to be a bit busier than usual if you know that being alone will make you sad, you should get to a point where you cherish that “me time”...

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