Hindari mengemukakan topik pernikahan berulang-ulang. Mintalah keluarga dan teman-teman Anda tutup mulut. Jangan beri ia ultimatum. Jangan mulai menekannya sebelum ia siap bahkan meskipun ia sudah mendekati kesiapan. Jangan tunjukkan sikap memohon.

I'm interested in that, but I only have a few mins. Can you give me at most the first 500 characters of a detailed explanation in English about that?
It's a guarantee that if you mentioned wanting to get married once, it's burned into his brain. The more you talk about it, the less he hears it. If you're the one who always brings it up and the word "marriage" never comes out of his mouth, then you should take it easy for a while. You may think your friends are being helpful by casually slipping in marriage comments to him, but it will likely make him feel ganged up on. Let him come to the decision on his own, without the advice or urging of t