Article in English: It's important you're comfortable with how your partner parents. If you're not okay with your partner's parenting style for any reason, this is not a good sign the relationship is sustainable.  Remember, when you're dating a single parent you're becoming part of a familial unit. You have to make sure you're comfortable with the family culture at hand. Carefully observe how your partner interacts with his or her child and make sure you're comfortable with how they function as a family.  Being uncomfortable does not necessarily mean you feel your partner is a bad parent. However, if you do disapprove of your partner's parenting this is also a red flag. You could simply just feel out of place within your partner's family. Maybe your partner values different things than you do. He or she could be raising his or her child with a strong religious background and you're agnostic. Your partner could put a lot of emphasis on success and focus while you see yourself as more laid back. If you're unfamiliar with children, you may not know how to behave around them. The good news is, there's no need to a perfect parental figure right away. You simply need to be a strong adult role model.  Be on your best behavior in front of your partner's child. Say "please" and "thank you" and practice good manners in general. Listen when the child talks. Offer to do small chores around the house, like helping with dishes after dinner or taking the trash out. Treat your partner with kindness and respect in his or her child's presence. Show them how to treat others by treating their mother or father with kindness and courtesy. You can show kindness in small ways. Pay your partner a compliment. If the child shows you something he did at school, be positive and give him praise. If your partner has bets, be kind to them, pet them, and talk to them nice. Children can sense when you're not being yourself. Many people try to be come off as overly friendly or cool when meeting a partner's child, but this might actually be off putting. Simply be...

Summary in Indonesian:
Amati pola interaksi pasangan dengan anaknya. Jadilah panutan yang suportif dan bersahabat. Bersikaplah jujur dan sabar pada fase interaksi awal. Bersikaplah fleksibel. Libatkan anak pasangan dalam beberapa kegiatan. Biarkan hubungan Anda dan anak pasangan berkembang secara alamiah. Jangan pernah mengkritik pola asuh pasangan.