Perhatikan lingkungan Anda. Perhatikan. Lakukan yang Anda suka. Cobalah hal baru. Warnai diluar garis-garis. Jadilah konyol.

I'm interested in that, but I only have a few mins. Can you give me at most the first 500 characters of a detailed explanation in English about that?
A Japanese man that shakes hands instead of bowing will be different in his culture, but be pretty normal in the West. Reading Thoreau for fun will be commonplace in some circles, while "normal" is Cosmopolitan in others. In order to know how to be different, you have to take into account your environment. Think of three words to describe yours. Now, what's the opposite of that? Let's go back to "Mean Girls." Three words to describe that environment? Superficial. Vain. And unsurprisingly, mean.