First, read the English article below.

Having sex and falling in love are very different things. Most people are taught by movies, TV, and even friends/family that having sex will always lead to love. Love, however, is a complex and nuanced emotion that develops over time, building as you get to know someone emotionally and socially, not just physically. After orgasm women release a hormone called oxytocin, also known as the "cuddle chemical" that mimics feelings of connection and love. This is why, regardless of their logical thoughts about a person, love is often confused with sex. It is hard to return to friendship after a romantic or sexual relationship. Adding sex back into the mix, however, will always resurface feelings of love and attraction. One of the things that separate friends from couples is a lack of sexual connection. Rekindling your sex life together will rekindle the feelings involved as well, whether you want them or not. This includes sleeping with close friends, as your existing connection, when mixed with sex, leaves very little separating you from becoming a couple. Why do you want to have sex with someone? Are you trying to have a little fun, experiment with new people, or feel lonely? You need to know your goals going in, because they will profoundly affect how attached you get to someone. Be honest with yourself to prevent confusion in the aftermath of the hook-up. If you tend to fall for every person you sleep with or are looking for a partner, then you should think twice about having casual sex. If you just want to have fun, have no interest or desire for a relationship, and feel like experimenting a bit, you should feel free to proceed.  Hooking-up without developing strings is easier if you just want to have some fun and learn more about your sexual needs. Hooking-up because you are lonely, recently heartbroken, or hurting is often a recipe for unwanted attraction, as you try and compensate for your feelings with your new sexual partner. Are there things that automatically signal intimacy? Some people refrain from... 

Now, please write a short abstract for it in Indonesian. Abstract:
Ketahui bahwa berhubungan seks tidak berarti Anda harus jatuh cinta. Hindari bercinta dengan mantan. Tanyakan kepada diri sendiri apa yang Anda cari dalam hubungan intim. Hubungan seks tanpa ikatan bukan untuk semua orang. Tetapkan batasan. Jangan berhubungan seks dengan orang yang sama setiap kali ada kesempatan. Jadikan kesenangan sebagai prioritas utama dalam hubungan kasual ini. Evaluasi kembali tujuan hubungan Anda setiap beberapa minggu. Pergilah saat Anda merasa tidak nyaman.