Put yourself in your teen's shoes, but don't ride their emotional roller rollercoaster.  Always approach difficult situations by trying to understand how your teen is feeling. If you dismiss your teen's emotions, he or she may feel rejected.  Empathy is good, but "enmeshment" isn't. Your teen needs you to be the voice of reason. Don't let your teen's emotions -- or yours -- keep you from thinking clearly and acting responsibly. Your teen is experimenting with new experiences to discover his or her identity. Don't discourage that.You may not approve of your teen's new activities, clothes, or interests, but avoid criticizing them. Part of parenting a teen is "learning to let go." By embracing your adolescent's experimentation you are embracing him or her as an independent adult. When your teen is stubborn it's easy to forget all the good things he or she might be doing. Errors command attention, but positive acts can go unnoticed because they are either expected or approved. By expressing gratitude for positive actions, you can give your teen confidence and encourage more good behavior. If you mostly give your teen negative attention he or she may come to believe that he or she only makes mistakes. If you ignore his or her good actions, he or she might believe what they do doesn't matter. You want your teen to associate good actions with attention. It's common for children to talk less to their parents as they reach adolescence. That doesn't mean conversation won't happen. It just means that you're not the one who will decide when it happens. Your teen might want to talk when it's unexpected or inconvenient. Don't put it off until later. It might be your only chance to address the issue, and you want your teen to know that you're always available when they want to talk. If you want to connect with your teen but your interests differ, ask your teen to teach you about his or her new interests. Sharing common interests will make future arguments or discussions easier to resolve. By casting your teen in the role of...

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Tunjukan sikap empatik dan seimbang. Jangan menghakimi. Ekspresiasikan rasa apresiasi Anda. Teruslah membuka diri. Buat dia menjadi guru. Tetapkan struktur keluarga dan waktu untuk keluarga.