Tentukan mengapa. Klarifikasi hasil akhirnya. Pertimbangkan kecocokan Anda dengan pasangan. Lepaskan beban yang mengimpit.

I'm interested in that, but I only have a few mins. Can you give me at most the first 500 characters of a detailed explanation in English about that?
If you are still communicating with him, you have the right to discuss why he is acting the way that he is. Your ex-boyfriend may be unable to explain his rationale for his decisions. He might be sparing you additional hurt by not giving you all the information. Part of you wants to know the truth, but sometimes that isn’t the best thing for you.  If you are able to meet with him, ask him, “I don’t want this to be weird and awkward, but is there any way that you can explain your reasons for need