Don't get sucked in to thinking that you can find girls only to date when you're out at a party or at the bar or pub.  You never know where or when you might meet a girl who would be open to a night out with you if you play your cards right. The saying “there are plenty of fish in the sea” reflects this fact. If you want to find a girl to pick up, keep your eyes open everywhere you go: at work, in cafes, on the street, pretty much anywhere public. That being said, there are a couple of important things to keep in mind:  A supermarket pickup is a hard sell. Most people don't go to the grocery store or the bank because they are hoping to find romance, which is why the conventional wisdom rightly suggests that bars, clubs, and parties are the best places to meet potential dates. Do not expect a good response if you try picking up girls in places they have to go because life demands it. Instead, consider open-air markets, cafes, and other places people go because they want to be out. It is likely that girls in such places will be at least somewhat more receptive to meeting new people, since they are not on important business. Unless you are hoping to become some sort of Don Juan (note: you will not succeed if this is your plan), perform a “ring test” before hitting on anyone. Is the girl wearing a band or diamond-set ring on either ring finger (or both)? If so, she is likely married (left hand) or engaged to be married (right hand). Respect that and leave her alone. This varies widely from country to country, but generally speaking, there is a clear paradigm in the Western world (that is, Europe, Australia, and North America) that defines what men and women find attractive in the opposite sex. It's actually very complicated, but at the most basic level, it works like this: Women are primarily attracted to social power and influence; men are primarily attracted to fertility and health (which is why Western culture is obsessed with making women look youthful).  There is a whole universe of things that men can do to...

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Perluas pandangan Anda. Pahamilah dinamika antara laki-laki dan perempuan, hal ini berbeda pada setiap Negara, namun ada paradigma yang jelas di dunia barat (yaitu Eropa, Australia, dan Amerika Utara) yang mendefinisikan apa yang dianggap menarik oleh laki-laki dan perempuan terhadap lawan jenisnya. Jadilah dirimu sendiri, tetapi dirimu yang terbaik. Sempurnakan bahasa tubuh Anda. Jangan pernah lupa: Pelajari mantra ini: