注意伴侣使用的语言。 在伴侣说话时点头应和。 不要急于开口。

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Cheaters tend to use different words when lying about their behavior than when they are telling the truth.  Specifically, they will use words with low complexity, make few self-references, and offer more negative emotions in their speech.   High-complexity language includes “exclusive” words (“except,” “but,” and “without”) and compound sentences.  If your partner is cheating, they will probably avoid sentences with lots of information and complex language when offering an alibi. Self-references are words like “me,” “mine,” and “my.”  These words show ownership and personal responsibility for the story the liar is telling.  Cheaters who are telling a lie about where they went or who they were with will be more likely to exclude these words when sharing a false alibi. Words that express negativity or negative emotions include hate, sad, worthless, or enemy.  These words tend to come up more frequently during stories that are untrue because the liar will feel temporary guilt and discomfort when lying (unless they are truly sociopathic). Nodding is a sign of encouragement and agreement.  If you nod your head as your partner speaks, they will be more willing to continue speaking, and feel at ease.  With luck, they will divulge that they cheated. At the very least, you should be able to get them to provide more clues about their whereabouts and recent activities. Many people think that the best way to extract a confession of infidelity is by browbeating their partner with endless questions.  However, this will not give your partner the space they need to admit what they’ve done.  When broaching the topic of cheating, allow them time to speak.  Don’t try to respond to each of their statements immediately with another question, accusation, or statement of your own.