A few little favors can go a long way. Doing small favors for your man is a great way to show your love for him, especially when he's in a pinch. The favors may be small, but they'll add up. Here are some favors that you can do for him:  If he's having a busy day at work, bring him his lunch, if you can. He'll appreciate it. Do his laundry from time to time. Just make sure he doesn't take advantage of you -- if you do his laundry, make sure he does yours. Cook him a nice big dinner when he's having a long and stressful day. All he'll have to do is enjoy it and do the dishes afterward.  Run small errands for him if he needs some help. If you're already doing to the mall, offer to return one of his shirts for him. Though all great relationships are built through compromise, this does not mean that you have to drag your boyfriend out of the house to make him do a ton of things that don't interest him at all. Of course, he won't love every last thing you do together, but you can work to make sure you don't make him suffer too much when you go out.  Don't drag him to see a chick flick unless you're really dying to see it and none of your girlfriends will go with you. Don't force him to take a yoga or dance class with you just to prove how sensitive he is -- unless he thinks it sounds like fun. Don't make him meet your family until he's ready. If you've only been dating for a few months, he may take meeting your family very seriously, so you shouldn't force him to have an awkward sit-down dinner with your mom if the two of you are just getting to know each other. Don't force him to move too fast. Don't "persuade" him to move in with you, go on long trips with you, or pose for 100 photos you'll post on Facebook if he's not ready. Each relationship moves at its own pace, and if you do this, he won't feel loved -- he'll feel smothered. Though he can't expect you to be cheering in the front row of every MMA fight, if you really want to show him your love, you'll have to enjoy some of the things that are important to...

How would you rephrase that briefly using Chinese?
不吝啬小恩小惠。 不要强迫他做不喜欢的事。 在适当时候，要乐意去做他所喜欢的事。 做他生活中最有趣的那个人，这一点至关重要。