Eventually, you will be able to think about your old partner without being overcome with emotion. This time is not now. At this point, being reminded of your time together with this person can lead to intense feelings of nostalgia, sadness, and regret. For this reason, it's a good idea to get rid of things in your life that remind you of your relationship. If there are items you can't stand to throw away, try packing them into boxes and keeping them somewhere out of the way for the near future. Here are a few things you may want to look for:  Your ex's possessions that s/he left with you Gifts your ex gave you Music or mixtapes that your ex made for you Pictures, drawings, or artwork that reminds you of your ex Unless you are 100% certain that you can stay "just friends" with your ex, (and s/he is also 100% sure), avoid seeing your ex as much as you can for at least a month or two. When you are forced to see this person, keep your conversations as short and polite as possible. This may be hard, but it's important. Interacting can lead to awkward exchanges where both partners are thinking about the old relationship. You may even fall back into old ways with your ex and start flirting. In any case, this is almost never a good way to get over your split. Today, this advice applies to your technological connections as well. Seriously consider "unfriending" or blocking your ex on your social networks (at least for the time being). You may also want to remove this person's number from your phone to reduce the temptation to text. Exercise is a fantastic way to start feeling good about yourself after a difficult experience. Not only is it cheap and fun — it's also proven to boost moods and fight clinical depression. Best of all, if you stick with it, you'll start to notice changes in the ways you look and feel that increase your self-confidence and make it even easier to get over your heartbreak. See our main exercise article for lots of tips on starting a new fitness routine. Being alone after a breakup is a bad...

TL;DR in Chinese:
处理掉那些能让你想起对方的东西。 不要联系他。 通过体育运动振奋精神。 寻求支持。 时刻重视自己。