先找到男朋友再说。 问问自己：你真的准备好了吗？还是只是看到大家都谈恋爱了，所以也想随大流？你愿意和男朋友定好性行为等界限来保护自己吗？你能面对别人的拒绝吗？父母肯定会问你很多问题，所以自己事先要考虑好这些问题。 和朋友聊聊。 和你信任的其他大人聊一聊。

I'm interested in that, but I only have a few mins. Can you give me at most the first 500 characters of a detailed explanation in English about that?
Don’t ask to have a boyfriend in advance of finding a guy you really like. You can end up in an argument with your parents, and you will have few details to back you up. Instead, if you have someone in particular, you can think about what you like about them and bring that up.  You can also use this as an argument to convince your parents by saying, “I’ve waited until I found someone I really like to approach you about this.” Are you actually ready? Or, do you just want a boyfriend to fit in wit