Article in English: If you don't want to go out and actively get women, you're going to have to be sure you're going off to do your own thing. Don't hang around waiting for them or send them flowers every week. Just go do your own thing and wait for them to come to you. Some things you can do are:  Hang with your friends. Gotta get in that COD time, after all. Hang out alone. At last! Peace and quiet! Underwear rock out party time! Do things you enjoy. This is a great time to develop those skills that women find so attractive. Women don't want to date someone who's really clingy or controlling. If you have girl friends that you're hoping to catch the eye of, show them that you're perfectly happy to go do your own thing without them. Don't annoy them by constantly asking to hang out, don't ask to go everywhere with them (or follow them around without asking!), don't try to trap them in a corner when you want to talk, and don't try to guilt them or manipulate them into going places with you. Show women that they are free to go where they want and do what they want, and if they want a buddy along for the ride, you're there for them. Start trends, don't follow them. Women are attracted to guys they perceive as cool. Try to be independent and show your own personality, rather than copying what the other guys are doing. This is very important for getting women to want to date you. Avoid awkward comments or jokes. Keep your eyes on her face. Don't stalk girls. If a few women decide that you are a creeper, they will probably warn others that you are a creeper and then you're just doomed. A good rule of thumb is that if you wouldn't say something to your mom, don't say it to a woman you're not dating. You shouldn't leave women thinking you're uninterested in dating altogether. Flirt occasionally or find other ways to show that you're interested.

Summary in Chinese:
做你自己的事情。 给女生她们需要的自由。 不要成为一个跟踪狂。 不要变得吓人。 好了，不要太过独立。