接受孩子看待生活的角度和你不同的事实。 接受彼此的差异。 孩子有权反对你，你应该尊重他们的意见。

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You all may have lived in the same house and spent most of your days together, but one person’s perception of a situation could still be completely different than another’s. Acknowledge that your adult child’s recollection or perspective is just as valid as yours.  A person’s view of the situation may be totally different based on age, the power dynamic, or closeness of relationships. For example, moving to a new city may have been great for you, but your children may have struggled because they