First, read the English article below.

Once you've been chatting with the girl for a while, you can start to ask her some questions that show that her interests and opinion matters to you without prying too much. She shouldn't feel like she's in an interrogation room, but she should feel like you're genuinely making the effort to get to know her instead of just showing off or trying to impress her without caring who she really is. Here are some questions that you can ask questions while revealing something about yourself to make the girl feel more comfortable:  "When I get home from school, I always pick up my guitar first. What do you do for fun when you're not in school?" "Do you like being on the tennis team? I think being on the soccer team is okay -- when our coaching isn't killing us with drills." "I see you hanging out with Sarah a lot. Is she your best friend, or are you one of those girls with a bunch of best friends?" If you want to keep the girl hooked, then you have to make her laugh so she feels comfortable and wants to keep talking to you. To make her laugh, you can poke fun at yourself, tease her a bit, or tell her a funny thing that happened to you over the weekend. Don't be too obvious about trying to be funny or telling her jokes, and don't try to make her laugh just by putting people down. Here are some things you can say to try to make her laugh:  "I've been playing my guitar so much that I think I'm becoming obsessed. Last night, I had a dream that I was Jimi Hendrix -- man, was I bummed when I woke up." "Is everything in your wardrobe pink, or are you just wearing all of your pink clothes at once?" "Yesterday, I told coach I had a cold so I could skip practice. But then he saw me hanging out at Sonic later that day -- man, was I busted!" Even if the girl is more on the shy side, you should still let her talk and tell you what she's thinking or what she cares about. You may be so nervous about running out of things to say that you find yourself rambling on about seemingly nothing and not coming up for air. Make sure to pause... 

Now, please write a short abstract for it in Chinese. Abstract:
询问一些简单的问题。 逗她笑。 让她多说一点。 不要吹嘘炫耀。 让她看到你的特别之处。 保持淡定。 把握分寸知道什么时候该离开。