The time to convince your guy to stay with you is not when he’s just come home after a stressful day of work or as he’s about to go out with friends.  He'll be more likely to hear you if both of you are at peace.  Try to talk after dinner or while you two are on a walk.  Say something like, “I know you’ve been talking about breaking up a lot lately, but I still want this relationship.  I love you and hope you’ll reconsider.” If you can’t talk during a stress-free time, be as calm as possible. Be rational, listen, and don't raise your voice. Try to hold back the tears if you can. Maybe your boyfriend wants to break up because he doesn’t know how much you care about him.  Use this time to tell him! You don’t want to wake up a year from now thinking of all the things you should have said, so tell him now. Say, “I know I may not show you or tell you enough, but I love you very much.  You're a great boyfriend to me and I want to work to show you that.  I’m willing to work on this if you're willing to be patient with me.” Your boyfriend might have a lot on his chest that he needs to get off.  Maybe his reasons for wanting a breakup are completely fixable, and maybe they're not. Hear him out and then decide what to do.  For instance, if he wants more alone time, you can both compromise on this by adjusting your schedules. On the other hand, if he wants kids while you done, it might be time to part ways. Let your boyfriend know that you understand his reasons for wanting to break up but that you need a little more time. Ask him for one more week together, and if he still wants to break up after that week, don't protest it. He may also refuse to give you an extra week. In this case, you should respect his reply. Continuing to beg for extra time will not help your cause. Maybe there are things your boyfriend did that you haven’t forgiven him for, and he's tired of being punished for them.  Or perhaps you have done things to him that you haven’t really apologized for. Take this time to give and receive apologies. For...

How would you rephrase that briefly using Chinese?
找个没有压力的时间和他谈一谈。 坦白自己的感受。 听听他的观点。 请他多给你一点时间。 对男友过去犯下的错误表示原谅，并请男友原谅自己的不足。 不分手，只是暂时冷静一下。 建议寻求外界的帮助。