花点时间理清自己的感情。 花点时间去了解她。 准备好你要说的话。 不要过于依赖事先打好的腹稿。

I'm interested in that, but I only have a few mins. Can you give me at most the first 500 characters of a detailed explanation in English about that?
What about this girl attracts you? Why do you feel the way you do? What are your feelings for this girl -- romantic, friendly, confused? Take some time to think about what you want out of your relationship so you can have a clearer idea of what to so. It can help to write down your feelings, potentially as a letter to her. You don't have to send it, but writing down your feelings can help you get a handle on them. Find out some things you have in common, and things you don't. Things you agree ab