Article in English: The ways men experience depression are slightly different than women. If you notice most or all of the following symptoms, your boyfriend may be suffering from depression.  Being tired most of the time Losing interest in things once enjoyed Getting irritable or angry quickly Having trouble concentrating Feeling anxious Overeating, or not eating at all Experiencing aches, pains or digestive problems Having difficulty sleeping, or sleeping too much Being unable to meet responsibilities at school, work or home Having thoughts of suicide Maybe your boyfriend doesn’t seem to be aware of his mood lately, but after weeks of observing him, you’re confident he’s struggling with depression. Go to him in a non-confrontational way and ask to talk.  Some ways to start a conversation may include: "I have been feeling concerned about you over the past few weeks" or "I've noticed some differences in your behavior lately, and I want to talk to you."  If there is tension between you and your boyfriend, refrain from bringing up the notion of his depression. This could come off as accusatory and cause him to shut down. It is natural for men with depression to be argumentative or angry. He may demonstrate these characteristics no matter what you do. However, if you approach him in a loving, nonjudgmental manner, he may be willing to listen.  It can be easy to come off as blaming or judging your boyfriend if you are not careful with your language. A statement like “You have been really mean and irritable lately” might cause him to become defensive. Use an “I” statement - that focuses on your own emotions - instead, such as “I am worried that you may be depressed because you haven't been sleeping at all. Plus, you're avoiding your friends. I would like us to talk about ways we can get you feeling better.” If your boyfriend decides to open up to you about what he is experiencing, know that this takes courage. Strive to help him open up by letting him know that he is safe to share his feelings with you. If he talks to you, listen...

Summary in Chinese:
注意对方表现出的抑郁症状。 告诉对方你的担忧。 不要指责对方，以免招致埋怨。 倾听并肯定他的心声。 问一些事关人生安全的问题。 为有自杀念头的男友联系紧急救助。 向他表明你随时准备对他施以援手。 帮他找寻治疗抑郁的方法。