Article in English: If you've been having trouble meeting someone, make a list of the things you like doing. Mutual interests can be a great boon to your relationship.  Consider joining a club for one of your hobbies, like hiking, reading, or dancing. Volunteer for a cause you're passionate about, like a food pantry, animal shelter, or political campaign. Take a class. Check offerings at a local college or community center. Cooking, languages, or art classes are fulfilling on their own, and can be a good social opportunity as well. For some people, Internet dating may work well, while others might find them too high-pressure or lacking in spontaneity. If you do opt for online dating, remember: despite formulae allegedly created to find your perfect match, it takes a long time to get to know someone, and that needs to happen in person. You might meet the perfect partner through your friends, relatives, neighbors, or coworkers. Be open to meeting new people, and attend events you're invited to. If you see someone who catches your interest, talk to them or ask your shared connection to put you in contact with them. You might also meet these people through social media, such as when you both comment on a friend's post. If you've met someone of interest, feel free to make the first move and invite them for a no-pressure activity. Going out for coffee is almost always a viable option. Other choices may depend on how you've met: for example, if you're both in the trail club, you could invite the person on a hike with a few of your friends. If you both like music, see if they'd like to go to a concert.  It's a good idea to suggest a meeting in a public place where there will be other people. This gives both of you a certain assurance that you can get to know each other in a safe, neutral environment. A casual meeting also removes any pressure that a more formal invitation might incur. Rejection is an inherent part of the dating process, and you'll need to learn how to handle it in a positive way.  Don't take rejection personally. People...

Summary in Chinese:
找出在哪里可以遇到兴趣相似的人。 对网上约会持保留态度。 通过共同的关系认识其他人。 随意地约会。 学会接受拒绝。 在约会过程中避免过早地发生性行为。 看看你们在对方的朋友和家人面前是如何表现的。 与家人和朋友保持联系。 注意危险信号。