If you want to show your love to your girl long term, then you've got to have at least a few things that you love to do together. This can be going on long morning hikes, reading together at a coffee shop, checking out your favorite museums on Sundays, going to see your favorite band play live, or really anything that makes you both happy and that you love doing together. While you shouldn't have all of the same interests, you should have at least a few things that you both care about so you can make your love last.  As relationships progress, it's easy for couples to feel like they have nothing in common anymore. That's why it's important to find things that you always love doing together. If both of you are getting sick of one of your favorite interests, don't just drop it. Find something to do in its place. Though it's important to find a comfortable routine of doing a few things that you love together, it's equally important to mix things up and to do new things as often as you can. Maybe you've been playing pool together for years, and it's time to switch to darts. Maybe you've been vacationing in Tahoe every summer; it could be time to try Yosemite. Make an effort to do new things together so you can love your girl forever. Be spontaneous. Though planning is great, so is taking a surprise last minute trip, or buying tickets to a concert at the last second. If you want to love your girl, then you have to love her and yourself as individuals. Make sure you don't lose sight of who you are as a person and she'll love you even more and see that you love her more for it. If you continue to follow your own interests, spend time with your friends, and do some things apart, you'll actually be loving your girl even more because you'll be showing that you're comfortable enough with your relationship that you don't have to spend every second together.  And make sure she maintains her independence, too. If you're both going out into the world and doing your own thing, you'll have more to talk about when you're...

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确保你们有共同爱好。 保持新鲜感。 保持适当的独立。 一直告诉她你爱她，不管你们在一起恋爱了多长时间。 保持浪漫。