Article in English: A role model that you know can help you to mature and grow as a person. They can give guidance and advice and offer real-world examples of how to achieve your best. These are the things you do not like or want to change about yourself and are important in determining how you wish to change. Do you want to live in a certain way? Achieve something in particular? Become a certain kind of person? Make a list of the things you want to achieve, both as a person and in your life. As you start to consider how you can choose a role model, try to develop faith in yourself as a person. The goal of choosing a role model is to motivate you to become a better person. You must have confidence in yourself and your abilities to become whoever you wish to be. If you want to be an inspirational person, think about the people who inspire you. Do a little brainstorming. Why do you admire them so much? What is the message they send through their actions? Great role models may exist all around you. These people may have a more profound impact on you and might even be able to mentor you, making them great potential choices as your role model. A good role model would be someone who knows who they are. You don't want someone who seems perfect but doesn't have a sense of purpose. You want someone who won't pretend to be someone they are not. Your role model should be someone who thinks it is all right to be unique, even if that means accepting some ridicule. They should always make you feel positive and good about being yourself. The purpose of having a role model is to encourage and inspire you to improve yourself. If your choice of role model does not make you feel this way then it is best to choose another. This person should be kind and can communicate well with people. People are easy to understand and emulate when they communicate well. It is better to choose a role model who exhibits reliable competence and who has gained their position through dedication and hard work. Often the flashy people who have succeeded spectacularly...

Summary in Chinese:
选择一个你认识的榜样，帮助你成为最好的自己。 认清你的坏习惯以及性格中不足之处。 列出你想养成的品格。 树立自信。 找到具有你理想中特质的人。 寻找目标明确的人。 找一个肯定你的人。 选择和他人相处良好的人。 别选那些特别成功的人。 选择和你不同的人。 了解榜样的成功和失败之处。 选择你熟悉的人，看他是如何以一种符合你价值观的方式成功的。 不要完全模仿榜样。 塑造你的个人风格。