Article in English: If you allow negative thoughts and memories to consume you, it can feel like there is no room in your life for anything positive or happy. Instead of allowing this to happen to you, take the opposite approach: fill your life with so many positive things that there is no room for negativity. Choose to occupy yourself with something goal-oriented, like school or your career, or things that make you feel good about yourself, like volunteer work or quality time with your friends. Reframing negative thoughts can be very helpful in allowing you to move forward. Everyone experiences painful things at times, but finding opportunities for personal growth can help you move past the hurt.  For example, perhaps you are hurt that your partner broke up with you. Rather than dwelling on the pain of this experience, try reframing it: "I am hurt because I lost my partner, but I learned a lot from that relationship that I can take with me into the next one." Or, as another example, perhaps someone was unkind to you. You can reframe this as "That person was hurtful, but I am strong and resilient and her behavior won't keep me down." When you begin to think about what happened, gently move these thoughts away and remind yourself about what it is that you are currently focusing on in your life. It's okay the acknowledge the memory, but quickly replacing it with a reminder of something positive in your life will help keep you from dwelling on it.  When you become preoccupied with thoughts about the past, try repeating the following phrase: "Bad things have happened to me in the past, but it is now the present and I don't have time to worry about the past because I am focusing on _______." Alternatively, you can take a moment to list all of the positive things in your life. If you fill your mind with happy thoughts, there will be no room for the negative ones. If you've been hurt by someone in the past, it can be easy to assume that others will hurt you in the future as well. Unfortunately, this kind of thinking can cause you to...

Summary in Vietnamese:
Tập trung vào yếu tố tích cực. Biến trải nghiệm đau đớn thành cơ hội để học tập.Việc điều chỉnh suy nghĩ tiêu cực sẽ khá hữu ích trong việc giúp bạn tiến bước. Chú ý đến các ý nghĩ vẩn vơ. Cởi mở với người khác.