Hãy tỏ ra chú ý chứ đừng thu hút sự chú ý. Hỏi những vấn đề cụ thể và rộng mở. Nắm được nghệ thuật nói chuyện xã giao. Mới đầu bạn nên tránh những chủ đề cá nhân. Đừng chia sẻ quá nhiều về chuyện của mình. Quan sát người đối diện để tránh làm họ bực mình.

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This is a key rule when meeting new people. You may be obsessed with reporting the coolest fact you read on the news or you may want to wow your new acquaintance with your extensive knowledge of Italian cuisine, but if you want to have a positive social interaction, you should focus on showing interest in the other person's life instead of talking on and on about yourself. Here are some ways to show interest without coming on too strong at the beginning of a conversation:  If the person is reading a book, ask him how he likes it. If the person is wearing a sweater with a college's name on it and you know something about the school, ask if the person went there and talk about what he thinks of it. You can ask the person where he or she is headed if you bump into each other, and that can strike up a conversation about that person's interests. Ask the person about his or her plans for the weekend. When you should interest in a person, you shouldn't just ask any question that comes to your mind or the person will think you're being random or even rude. Ask questions that can lead to a long answer and show that you're putting in some effort in getting to know the person. Don't ask a question that can be answered with a simple "yes" or "no" unless you have an immediate follow-up. Here are some ways to pose a thoughtful question:  "Nice tennis racket. How long have you been playing?" "Mary always throws the best parties. How do you know her?" "I love Catcher in the Rye. Are you reading that for fun, or for school? What do you think of it?" "What did you think of Mr. Peterson's test? I couldn't believe how hard it was." To get to know new people, you have to master the art of small talk. Small talk may sound silly, but it's exactly what gets you to know a person and to be able to have a more meaningful discussion as the conversation progresses. Making small talk just means being able to keep up the flow of a conversation, to learn to build from one topic to the next, and to read social cues to see what the person...