Article in English: Unfortunately, it’s a common misconception that some people “deserve” abuse or were “asking for trouble.” This is completely untrue. No matter what you did or didn’t do, you deserve to be treated with dignity and kindness. Abuse is never the victim’s fault. This is true for all types of abuse. Each person is responsible for her/his own actions. It can be difficult and even dangerous to leave an abusive relationship. Don’t go through it alone. Find someone you trust to talk about your concerns with. This could be a friend, relative, counselor, authority figure, or someone from your religious tradition. Tell them what you’re going through and ask for their support. The more support you have, the more likely you are to be able to leave an abusive relationship and move on to a healthy, happy life. These hotlines can help you even if you don’t have an emergency. They provide trained advocates to listen to you and help you brainstorm about your situation. They can help you figure out how to safely deal with your situation, provide referrals to local resources, and provide a compassionate person for you to talk to.  In the US, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline 24/7 at 1-800-799-SAFE for free, confidential help. Check out the HotPeachPages for an international directory of domestic violence agencies. Abusive people will very often try to get back into your good graces by promising to change. This is part of the cycle of abuse and you should not trust it. Do not interact with the abusive person in any way.  You may also feel pressured by your community, family, or traditions to “forgive” your abuser. Remember that true forgiveness is done for your sake, not the other person’s. You can choose to give up the burden of anger without allowing the abuse to continue. It is very hard to obtain closure unless you remove the abuser from your life. Overcoming the effects of abuse can be incredibly difficult. Between 31-84% of survivors of domestic abuse develop symptoms of PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder)....

Summary in Vietnamese:
Bạn nên biết rằng bạo hành không bao giờ là lỗi của bạn. Chia sẻ với người mà bạn tin tưởng. Liên lạc với đường dây nóng dành cho tình trạng bạo lực gia đình. Cắt đứt với người bạo hành. Tìm kiếm sự giúp đỡ chuyên nghiệp. Củng cố mạng lưới hỗ trợ.