Talking about oral sex isn't just about your needs. As a couple, you've both got a responsibility to help each other enjoy your sex life, meaning you should bring up your own questions about what to do and what she likes when talking about oral sex.  "Do you like when I go down on you?" "Are there things we can do to make sex more enjoyable for us?" "I'd like to bring more oral sex into the bedroom for us both -- what do you think?" This isn't the time to push your wants and desires, this is about her. Oral sex is frequently something one partner does for the other, letting them relax while you pleasure them exclusively. This doesn't mean that you shouldn't enjoy it and feel comfortable as well (you absolutely should!) but that you should place her pleasure first as long as it falls in your comfort zone.  If she is uncomfortable about oral sex, ask her why. Commonly, women are incorrectly led to believe their vaginas are "dirty" or "shameful," and that no guy wants to be there. Assure her, for you, that this isn't the case.  Are there things she knows she doesn't like? Things she knows she loves? If you want her to be honest about her feelings, you've got to do the same. Not all guys feel equally comfortable with oral sex, and that's okay -- this is why you're talking about it. In order to best help her oral sex, you'll need to be comfortable too. That means admitting if parts of oral sex make you uncomfortable or, on the flip side, if you'd really like to start going down on her more often than you do now.  What stuff is off limits to you? What things would you like to add or try in the future? How do you feel about performing oral sex? The pressure of completely pleasuring your partner through oral sex is very high, especially if it is a relatively new act. Instead, use oral sex to "warm up" for things you're more comfortable with. You'll both be more willing to experiment, and you can slowly work up to longer or more intimate acts without the pressure of one person doing all of the work. She is the only...

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Thử thảo luận về việc áp dụng oral sex cho cô ấy cũng như khi nói về việc thỏa mãn cho bạn. Để nàng dẫn dắt cuộc thảo luận, đặt nhu cầu của cô ấy lên hàng đầu. Thành thật và chủ động về ham muốn, mối quan tâm và/hoặc những điều không thoải mái của riêng bạn. Sử dụng oral sex như bước dạo đầu để tìm hiểu về cơ thể nhau. Lưu ý đến những phản hồi thông qua hành động của đối phương. Luôn hỏi ý nàng trước khi tiếp tục, đặc biệt nếu đó là điều mà hai bạn chưa từng làm. Thăm dò ý kiến của nàng về phần mà bạn làm cô ấy thích nhất.