Article in English: Your girlfriend is an individual with her own hopes, fears, wants, and needs. The more you get to know about who she is and what makes her special, the easier it will be for you to do things that bring her joy. Talk to your girlfriend about what she cares about and what she likes to do. Try to participate and take an interest in the things that are most important to her.  For example, if your girlfriend says she enjoys playing video games, ask her about her favorites. See if she’s interested in playing games with you. If she likes to write, ask if you can read some of her work. It will be hard to know what your girlfriend wants from your relationship unless you ask her. Checking in with your girlfriend will not only let her know you care about her, but will also make it easier for you to be supportive. Encourage her to speak up if she needs something, and ask her simple questions like:  “What would you like to do today?” “Is there anything I can do to help?” “Do you want to talk about it?” “Are you having fun?” Assumptions can be very damaging in relationships. Don’t fall into common pitfalls by assuming that you know what your girlfriend feels, thinks, or wants. When in doubt, always ask!   For example, don’t assume she enjoys watching romance movies just because it’s “a girl thing.” You might find out that her ideal date is going to the zoo or doing a game night at the pub, instead. Don’t just assume she’s happy in the relationship, either. Check in with her occasionally and ask for feedback. For example, you might say, “Hey, would you like it if we went out for dinner more often?”

Summary in Vietnamese:
Dành thời gian tìm hiểu mối quan tâm của người yêu. Trao đổi với người yêu về những gì cô ấy cần và muốn. Tránh suy diễn về bạn gái.