First, read the English article below.

Do you want him or her to change for you? And if so, consider that it would be fair for your partner to want you to change for them as well. Another thing you can try is to fully accept whatever it is you want them to change. Say it aloud: "I accept that he/she is a total slob." Then ask yourself: Do the benefits of the relationship outweigh that fact? If so, try accepting and dealing with your partner as they are, rather than trying to change them.  If this is something so big or bothersome that you simply can't get over it and the person won't change, then it may be time to end the relationship.  Maybe you and your partner come from different religious backgrounds. If your partner refuses to convert and so do you and religion is very important to you, then this may indeed be a deal breaker for you. You may discover that you want to break up because you don't want to face certain issues in yourself, like insecurity or fear of abandonment, but they are sure to turn up in any relationship you're in. For example, maybe you've been cheated on before, and you're tempted to break up with this person before you get too attached and become vulnerable to being deeply hurt again. That's not a good reason to break up. You need to address your fears, rather than run away from them.  If you think your issues are the problem, then talk to your partner about them and see if you can find a way to work through them together. You may also want to talk to a therapist about your issues so you can work through them with a professional. If you're the kind of person who's used to looking out for everyone else's needs, maybe deep down you know you don't want to be in this relationship, but you're scared of telling the person it's over. You have to realize, however, that you're not doing this person any favors by staying with them out of sympathy. Reading How to Stop Being a People Pleaser might help.  Something similar is if you are only in this relationship for popularity. That's never a good reason to date someone, and you should... 

Now, please write a short abstract for it in Vietnamese. Abstract:
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