Your inner gentleman tells you the things to do that you know you should — but sometimes are too lazy — to do:  Paying for dates, unless the love-interest in question views the act as some barbaric throwback to a more misogynistic time. Treat with caution. Opening doors, helping into chairs, and saying "please" and "thank you." Generally putting the lover in question ahead of yourself out of respect. Doing domestic duties. Some men who are already in long-term relationships shirk their domestic duties: forgetting to take out the trash, do the dishes, change the diapers. Real men know that they must share in domestic duties, as unpleasant as they may be. Being a gracious loser. Man are naturally competitive, making this a tough one for some. Accept defeat with the same grace that you accept victory. Easier said than done. Men love the chase of romance, but too often get lured into bragging about the conquest. Don't fall victim to the notion that if you don't brag about it, it didn't happen. Success in love speaks loud enough for itself. A quiet confidence will perhaps even suggest to your friends that you're a regular Lothario, even if you're not. A simple list of dos and don'ts:   Do:  Listen to what they have to say. Forgive them when they make a simple mistake. Follow through on what you say you'll do. Treat them the same way you'd like to be treated.    Don't:  Hold them to unrealistic expectations. Manipulate them to get whatever you want. Treat them as an object instead of a person. Assume that you know how they'll feel or react. Lots of guys rush people into uncomfortable situations. By doing this, they not only alienate the lover but also keep themselves from getting what they want. Straight men know that when it comes to dating, the lady sets the pace: if she wants to rush into a whirlwind romance, he's usually game; if she wants to take things slower, he'll reassure her that he's there for the long-haul. By letting her set the pace, the man sets the relationship up for success and usually ends up...

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