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Before you rush off to confront the man who hurt you, ponder the situation and your feelings about it. Has something like this happened before? Could you be over-reacting? Spend some time reflecting on the situation and your feelings.  This may work better through a journaling or free-writing exercise. Set a timer for 10 minutes and write down everything that comes to mind about the situation. Although it’s smart to delay until you get your emotions under control, don’t wait too long, so that the other person doesn’t forget the offending situation.  Regular journaling can help detect problematic patterns in your relationship. Take some time to think about the man’s point of view and why he may have done what he did. Sometimes people may hurt you on purpose and other times it’s purely an accident. People may also be affected by other stressful things going on in their lives, so take a moment to think about anything relevant the man is dealing with. Considering his point of view doesn’t excuse his behavior. It may simply help you understand the situation more fully. If you are hurting right now, take the time to address the hurt first. If you do this, you will come off as calm and clear-headed during the interaction. So, practice self-care. This may involve taking a relaxing bath, eating nourishing foods, writing in your journal, spending time with friends, or just vegging out on your sofa for an evening. Once you’ve gotten some distance from the hurtful experience, seek the input of a few trusted friends or loved ones. Tell this individuals about what happened. Then, get their feedback.  How do they view the situation? Would they react similarly? They may be able to help you confirm that you were mistreated or see the situation in a new light. Get the opinion of people who aren't strongly biased for or against the person who hurt you. Think about how this person will react when you tell him he hurt you. You might use previous situations to determine what’s most likely to happen.  For example, does he generally...