Article in English: . Some parents are demanding of their children, but this does not always mean that they are controlling. People who are controlling use certain tactics to control others. The tactics can be obvious or subtle. The behaviors can vary from outright criticisms to making veiled threats. Some signs your parent may be controlling include:  Isolating you from other family members and/or friends, such as by never allowing you to spend time with friends or other family members. Criticizing you constantly about trivial things, such as your appearance, your manners, or your choices. Threatening to hurt you or threatening to hurt him or herself, such as by saying, “I will kill myself if you don’t come home right now!” Giving conditional love and acceptance, such as saying, “I only love you when you keep your room clean.” Keeping score of your past mistakes, such as by listing off mistakes you made in the past as a way to make you feel bad or to get you to do something. Using guilt to get you to do things, such as by saying, “I spent 18 hours in labor to bring you into this world and you can’t even spend a few hours with me?” Spying on you or otherwise not respecting your privacy, such as by searching your room or reading the text messages on your phone when you leave the room. Though your parent(s) may be controlling, you are responsible for how you respond to them. You decide whether to let them dictate your decisions, or stand up to them. You are also in control of whether you react respectfully or allow yourself to get overly angry and escalate the situation. Some ways that you can begin to think about your actions are to look in the mirror and talk to yourself. Play out different scenarios that are likely to happen with your parents and practice responding the way you have decided that you will respond. This makes it easier to be in control when the time comes. It is a parent’s job to make sure that you grow up into a happy, healthy, decent human being. It is your job to be a happy, healthy, and decent human being. If...

Summary in Vietnamese:
Nhận biết các hành vi kiểm soát Nhận trách nhiệm về các hành động của mình. Đừng bị ám ảnh bởi ý nghĩ phải làm bố mẹ vui lòng. Lập một kế hoạch hành động có mục tiêu. Chấp nhận rằng bạn không thể khiến bố mẹ thay đổi.