Unfortunately, no magazine, friend, family member, or doctor can tell you what decision is best for you—or for your family. If there are kids involved, then your decision gets even more complicated. Though you may think there's only one right answer, at the end of the day, you have to be honest with yourself and see what your heart is really telling you. It can take a long time to find the truth, but the most important thing is that you recognize that no one else can tell you what to do or what to feel—especially not your spouse. This can be an intimidating thought, because chances are that you will need some time to figure out the answer. But if there's something that your gut is telling you already, then you better listen. Remember that forgiveness really is a choice; it's not something that either happens or doesn't. If you're willing to forgive your spouse, or even to try to forgive him or her, then you have to decisively make the choice to do so. Forgiveness won't just fall into your lap or his, and you need to work to get there. The first step is accepting that you're going to try to make things work. Be honest with your spouse about this. Don't let your desire to forgive or not forgive remain a mystery. Let him or her know that you really want to try to make it work. If you want to start rebuilding your relationship, then you and your spouse should spend quality time together that has nothing to do with the fact that your spouse cheated. Work on doing the things you used to love together and avoiding the places that remind you of the cheating that took place. Make an effort to start from the bottom up, making sure your relationship has a solid foundation through daily activities before you move forward too fast. You can even discover a new activity, such as hiking or cooking, to do together. This can help you see your relationship in a new light. Just make sure you don't feel like your partner is suffering through it or trying too hard, though. When you're dealing with a cheating spouse, you may feel...

TL;DR in Hindi:
आपके लिए जो सबसे अच्छा हो वही करिए: क्षमा करना चुनिये: साथ ऐसा समय बिताइए जिसका अफेयर से कुछ लेना-देना न हो: अपना ध्यान रखिए: काउंसेलिंग प्राप्त करिए: अपने बच्चों को आश्वासन दीजिये: जब वह समाप्त हो चुका हो तब समझ जाइए: