text: Freda: Hi are you going to the party?
  Sarah: yes I'm coming with Clare
  Freda: What are you wearing?
  Sarah: No idea!!
  Freda: Smart or casual? 
  Sarah: That's my dilemma lol!
  Freda: I can't decide whether to wear jears or go all out
  Sarah: I know - would like to get dressed up but don't want to turn up looking like a glitterball only to find no-one else hasn't made any effort
  Freda: Well the men never do!
  Sarah: Wish I was a man!!! 
  Freda: Less fun - just grey and black
  Sarah: Yes but so much easier to get "dressed up" - no nails, make-up, what dress  to where......in fact no thought at all!
  Freda: Yes, but I like dressing up!
  Sarah: Lol! me too! but only when I know what to wear!
  Sarah: Clueless Lol!!
  Freda: I think I will wear jeans and a fancy top - call it hedging my bets but...
  Sarah: yes and not heels....that way we can do a runner if it turns out to be pants
  Freda: haha hope it isn't!
  Sarah: Yes me too....
  Freda: ok, must dash. See you there!!
target: Sarah is going to the party with Clare. Freda is also attending. Freda and Sarah don't know what to wear to the party, but they both agree they like dressing up. Freda decides to wear jeans and a fancy top.