text: Erica: girls, I'm worried again
  Jenny: about Paul?
  Ann: I'm sure it's about Paul again
  Erica: yes, it is:(
  Jenny: what's happened or what hasn't happened?
  Erica: he's against so distant and cold, it's very tiring for me, emotionally exhausting
  Jenny: Anything happened?
  Erica: Christmas, he went to his parents. I know it's very difficult for him. He is always very crestfallen there
  Erica: but he doesn't want to share, we haven't talked on the phone for days
  Erica: And of course he has never told me he loves me
  Jenny: but do you really need these words?
  Erica: When they are not there, they turn out to be important 
  Erica: and my previous boyfriend was the same. I'd like to hear it from somebody, finally
  Ann: you've been together less than a year, maybe he needs some more time?
  Erica: maybe, but on Friday I'm going to go there finally and stay at his place
  Erica: And I'm not sure of anything again
  Jenny: I imagine, it's hard to say
  Jenny: I would just suggest to observe - him and yourself, your own needs and feeling
  Jenny: it is easy to forget about oneself in this situation, when we are so concerned with another person
  Jenny: but try, it's worth it
  Erica: I know
target: Erica is worried about Paul. He's distant and cold and they haven't talked on the phone for days. He has never told her that he loves her, but they've only been together for less than a year.