text: Jim: Honey I know you are upset
  Jim: but I had to do it
  Pam: you had to decide behind my back?
  Jim: not behind your back but for the both of us
  Pam: same thing
  Jim: I don't see how
  Pam: obviously, clueless as usual.
target: Jim made a decision without consulting Pam. Pam is angry with him.