text: Tamara: I can't understand Lily sometimes, she can be so mean
  Peter: I know, but she changed so much after her husband died
  Meg: She had a husband?!
  Meg: I didn't know!
  Peter: yes, she had one.
  Mel: He died in Iraq. Apparently in a very horrible way. She was devastated
  Tamara: god, I had no idea
  Tamara: I'm really sorry now
target: Lily had a husband, who died in Iraq in a horrible way.