text: Kate: did you change your last name?
  Kate: after you got married?
  Helen: no
  Helen: why do you ask?
  Kate: well 2 things
  Kate: I'm sending you an invite to my wedding
  Kate: and I was wondering if I should change my name
  Helen: OMG
  Helen: congrats! I'm so happy for you
  Kate: thanks
  Helen: whens the big date?
  Kate: March 15th
  Helen: ok I'll make sure to not make any plans for the 15th :D
  Kate: and the last name?
  Kate: think I should change it?
  Helen: that's up to you really
  Helen: It's just a lot of paperwork 
  Kate: yeah a heard
  Helen: so think about it but I don't really want to make the decision for you
  Kate: ugh ok 
  Helen: let me know if you need any help planning anything
  Kate: ok thanks :D I'll be in touch
target: Kate is sending Helen an invite to her wedding for March 15th and she is wondering if she should change her name. Helen didn't change her last name after she got married as it is a lot of paperwork.